Pegging - a New Experience

It is called pegging. I had to look up the name. I had seen it in porn videos before but never been turned on by it. I had certainly never thought to try it.

For those that don't know, it broadly involves the woman strapping on a dildo of sorts and then fucking her man up the arse. There's probably variations of it but that's the simple version.

For some reason I had thought about it. Being a two player sport, it would necessarily involve my wife. We had gone beyond 10 years of marriage. This meant two things. Firstly, some of our love-making had gone a bit stale and secondly, there was sufficient trust and non-judging to suggest and try new things.

I didn't talk to my wife initially about this. The first thing I did was to peruse an adult website. After trying several, I narrowed down to one that was near my office as it felt like it would end up having to go to a physical store. On-line I couldn't quite find what I was looking for. Being a newbie, it needed to be something entry level (so to speak). I wasn't sure what that was. It had to be a visit.

The next day I waited until 11 am, thinking that would be the time I would open an adult shop if I cared to own one. The shop was about one kilometre down the road from work but really all of five to 10 minutes by tram.

Arriving there, I saw that it was in fact open 24 hours. I couldn't imagine what business it would do at (say) six or seven in the morning but clearly I didn't understand the business model.

I had been to adult shops before so I wasn't fazed with the actual going. Having said that, I didn't want a detailed discussion with the sales assistant (male or female) as to the various items they had in stock. Happily, the (lady) sales assistant there allowed me to browse without enquiry.

I found a section of strap on dildos but (as indicated by the various websites) they seemed well beyond beginner level. I would have to improvise and I already had a strategy in mind.

I found a section with various butt plugs. Most of them had flat bases, obviously designed so that you didn't lose the entirety of the plug inside you. I wanted something reasonably long but the trouble is the longer you go the thicker the plug. I settled on a purple five and a half inch tapered thing. It didn't look too intimidating.

The next step would be the discussion with the wife.

The next time we were having sex, I brought it up. Whenever I say I have an idea I think she gets a bit nervous. Once I tell her the idea, it's usually not as bad as she feared. Hearing this idea and realising it would be me on the receiving end obviously made the idea more palatable to her. She was happy to try.

My idea was to cut a hole in a strong yoga band, inset the plug so that the base didn't come through and get my wife to stretch the band over her hips. This we tried but the yoga band was super strong. We tried again with a lighter band and she was able to get it up and over her hips while still having a tight fit.

As a nice by-product of what we were about to do, it was really hot to see my wife's boobs bounce up and down as she wiggled the yoga band up her hips.

I had effectively created a home-made strap on. I didn't want my wife to simply stick the butt plug in and out of my arse. Funnily enough, I thought that would be weird. I wanted to feel how she does when she is getting fucked and conversely give her the feeling of what I feel when I'm fucking her. My wife was already on board with the idea, so I didn't have to explain that last part to her.

We got into a doggy style position, added some lube and gave it a go. It was a bit hopeless. The plug was a bit on the small side and my wife struggled to find my hole to put it in. When she did, the end would bend rather than penetrate and we'd have to start again. Me trying to reach around or under was just as difficult.

We finally got it working and I cautioned my wife to go slowly -- not only for the reason that I was new to the arse fucking. I also didn't want it to pop out and have to start over each time.

My first impression was that it wasn't great. My wife tried to reach under and stroke my cock and fondle my balls. My cock was quite hard which probably gave a bit of a false impression of how things felt from my end.

I called a stop to proceedings and we went back to the traditional husband on top fucking his wife in her vagina and then wife on top of husband fucking her from underneath. I told my wife I would revisit the butt plug. It needed to be longer and a less "bendy".

A few days later I found myself down the street again. There was actually a second adult shop close to the first one I had visited. I suspected it had much the same stock as the first but I thought I'd give it a try.

This second shop had a male assistant. He was keen to help. I just told him I was looking and he initially seemed happy with this. I went beyond the butt plugs. I had looked further on-line and found that once you go beyond five and a half inches in length, you're dealing with realistic looking dicks. I had already stepped into nervous territory with the arse fucking. It seemed a step too far to be fucked with an actual cock. Still, my wife had been very receptive the first time around and that gave me the peace of mind to go ahead.

All the dicks I found started at eight inches with a proportional circumference (that is, too big). I had not been more than a couple of minutes in the section when I shop assistant came round to help. I was the only customer in the store.

I confessed what I was looking for and made the case that I was only a beginner at this. The assistance turned out to be helpful as he took me to another section that had real looking dicks starting at four inches through to seven inches. (I don't know why essentially the same product was almost on the other side of the store). The assistant gave some details which I barely took in. After he took his leave, I settled on a six inch penis. It was only slightly bigger than the purple butt plug thing but this time its thickness was uniform not tapered. It also had a base, which I noted was a suction that could be used in the shower.

When I made my choice and went to the register, the assistant asked, "Do you need any lubricant products with your purchase today?".

I replied that I didn't and immediately realised that this was a bit ambiguous (did that mean I already had some at home or I was going to stick it up my arse dry?)

Before the week was out, my wife and I were naked again and on the bed. I had already flagged with her in the evening that I had been out shopping but hadn't pulled out the package until now.

My wife gave due approbation to the new product and smiled at me as she said, "I thought you'd have to get a cock".

We had already cut the hole in the yoga band so it was simply a case of inserting the cock in. Again my wife's boobs bounced and jiggled as she moved the band up her hips. While that wouldn't be a process I would get sick of, what I also thought was hot was this life-like dick sticking out at the top of my wife's crotch with her auburn pubic hair underscoring it. I ran my hand between her legs to feel her hair and the outside of her pussy lips.

We added some lube and went doggy style again to attempt penetration. For some reason, this was no better than the first product. It still felt short and anytime it went in, it would come out again and have to be reinserted.

I had another idea. While I still hadn't ruled out doggy style, I wanted to go a bit more missionary. My idea was to put a couple of pillows under my arse and elevate my hips towards my wife. It took three pillows in the end but I was able to get as high as I needed. I then spread out my legs (not easy as us men don't have the same flexibility as women).

This seemed to work. Together we found the hole and my wife proceeded to slowly fuck my arse. It wasn't too bad. By itself, it wouldn't be something I think I could get into long term but then my wife grabbed hold of my cock and slowly started to wank it. Now that combination of penetration and slow wanking of my dick was very, very nice indeed.

Whilst my dick was quite hard, I think my wife could sense my residual hesitation and a bit of embarrassment with what we were doing. After all, we were now making eye contact as she was fucking me in the arse. She was very positive and encouraging though.

After a while longer, I told her to stop so that we could do something else (I was also conscious I was having all the fun). I would definitely return to this another time and I think we had found something that worked.

After my wife pulled out her cock just bobbed up and down near mine. I was still elevated on the pillows. She made a joke about having a cock fight and we did a mock sword fight with our cocks. Then she said, "So this is what I would look like with a willie." My wife shimmied out of the yoga band and made a further joke about, "Cocks flying around everywhere." I was glad she was getting some enjoyment out of things too.

We went back to our traditional way of fucking with the images of my wife towering above me and feeling each of her trusts burned into my consciousness. Our fucking would never be the same again.