Author's Note: I originally posted this story under the name zeke81. Time has passed and I've had several suggestions about improving this story so I am submitting this revised version. Please feel free to read the version posted under zeke81 and let me know which version you think is better.
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It had been a tradition with Kim and her friends since college. Every Thursday night was their girls' night out, with very few exceptions. Obviously if a major holiday like Thanksgiving, Christmas, or New Years fell on a Thursday they wouldn't do it that night, they would reschedule for Friday or Saturday night, but they never missed a week.
It was a super secret thing too; none of the girls would talk about it to their husbands or boyfriends. I knew the other husbands all pretty well and most of the long term boyfriends too as we all got together frequently on weekends for parties so I knew that none of them knew what went on when the girls went out.
When I first started dating Kim when we were in college I thought it was great that she went out with her friends once a week. She encouraged me to go out Thursday nights with the guys drink some beers, throw some darts, shoot some pool, watch the game on TV, whatever, and frequently I did just that, then when we would get together later that night or the next day we would always have incredible sex.
I didn't have any idea what they were doing, and thinking about what they might be doing only caused bad thoughts to enter my head. I decided that I loved Kim and that I trusted her enough to be confident that she would not do anything that would jeopardize our relationship.
Kim was very surprised and thrilled when I proposed to her. She said yes and she became the first of any of the girls in their group to get married.
I take my marriage vows very seriously. I assumed that Kim and her friends were going out to clubs, drinking, dancing, and getting hit on and probably pawed on by all sorts of guys. That isn't something that a married woman should be doing without her husband around, so I was expecting Kim to stop her girls' nights out with her friends once we got married.
I voiced my concerns to her a few weeks after we got married, but Kim told me that I didn't have anything to worry about and said that she was going to continue going out with her friends on Thursday nights.
We had some pretty heated arguments about it but after we'd talked about it for several months, and after she'd used her womanly powers of persuasion on me I relented, saying that I trusted her, and Kim kept having her girls' night out every Thursday.
It went that way for five years. I still wasn't happy about Kim's girls' nights out, but I was tired of arguing about it.
As our fifth wedding anniversary approached I couldn't help but notice that it fell on a Thursday. I wanted to do something special for the anniversary, so I talked to Kim about it two weeks beforehand.
"Baby, two weeks from Thursday is our anniversary. Since it's our fifth I was thinking that we should do something special. I was thinking that we could take Thursday and Friday off and take a four day weekend trip down to the beach." I said.
"Oh sweetie, I'm glad you reminded me, I was meaning to talk to you about our anniversary. As you know Thursdays are my girls' night out so I was hoping that we could just celebrate our anniversary on Friday instead or do it over the weekend. Your idea of going to the beach sounds wonderful, but how about we just make it a three day trip?" Kim asked.
I looked at her in disbelief. She wanted to blow off our anniversary to go out with her friends?
"Are you serious?" I asked.
"Yes John I'm serious. Thursday night is when I go out with the girls; you know that." Kim said.
"Honey, I know that your girls' night out is important to you, but we're talking about our anniversary; our 5th anniversary no less. The trip to the beach doesn't mean anything without having it include our anniversary." I said.
"Oh John, what does it matter what day we celebrate our anniversary on?" Kim asked.
"Well I'll throw that question right back at you. Why does it matter that you have your girls' night out on Thursday?" I asked.
"It's tradition." Kim said.
"Tradition? You've got to be kidding me. You change it for holidays, why can't you change it for our anniversary? A couple celebrating the day that they got married is a pretty important tradition too. This is our 5th anniversary Kim, this one should be really special to both of us, but you want to go out with your friends instead of spending it with me?" I asked.
"Why are you being so difficult about this John?" Kim asked.
"Because I want to take off of work and take my wife away for a special trip on our anniversary, and she'd rather stay right here and spend that night with her friends. The question is, why are you being so difficult about this?" I asked.
"I'm not the one that's being difficult." Kim said.
"Oh you aren't? Okay, then give me one good reason why you can't reschedule or even just skip the one week so we can spend our anniversary together." I said.
"Skip a week are you serious? I would never do that John." Kim said.
"Really? Never? That qualifies as being difficult in my book." I said.
"It does not." Kim said.
"Yes it does Kim. I asked you for a reason that you don't want to spend our anniversary with me and you wouldn't give me one. I suggest that you skip just one week of your girls' night out for our anniversary and you snap at me; that's being difficult in anyone's book Kim." I said.
We argued around and around about it for several days. Even with the strong relationship between Kim and her friends she had never put them before me until that point.
She was choosing to spend our anniversary with her friends instead of me.
It got to a point where I had to know why she was choosing to spend our anniversary with them instead of me, but I knew better than to ask her. She wouldn't have told me even if I did ask so it wouldn't have done any good.
On the Monday before our anniversary I talked to her about it one last time.
"Kim, I'm going to ask you this one more time. Can you please either reschedule your girls' night out for another night or just skip it this week so that we can go on the trip that I want to take?" I asked.
"We've been through this time and time again John; you and I can leave Friday morning and go to the beach for a three day weekend, but Thursday night I'm going out with the girls." Kim said.
I hung my head and tears ran from my eyes.
"I see. I guess I finally understand where I rate in your life Kim. If you choose going out with your friends over spending your anniversary with your husband then maybe when you get home Thursday night I won't be here." I said.