"Can you stay over at my place for the time I'll be gone?" I asked my best friend.
I am Kyle, 46, I am married to my lovely wife, Chloe, 44, we have two sons. We have our regular once a week, sometimes twice, nothing fancy. We live in a cozy three bed apartment in a small city.
I was being posted to a foreign country for a period of six months for work.
I haven't slept in two nights. Maybe three. Time's blurry. Six months away is a lifetime--a blank space where anything could happen. People fall apart in less time. Marriages collapse over long weekends. She says, "Don't worry, I'll be fine." Fine? That's what people say before everything goes to hell. The cursed F-word. I can't just leave her alone--she'll get bored, and bored turns into lonely and lonely turns into some dude's shoes at the door.
So, I asked Oliver, my best friend since childhood, "Could you stay over at my place while I'm gone. We got a spare room, don't worry about the rent or bills."
He blinked. Said, "You serious?"
I said, "Dead serious. It's a win-win."
Look, Oliver hasn't had steady work in years. Freelancing, odd gigs, some startup nonsense that never started-- he's been crashing with his cousin in an old one-room apartment. This is a good deal for him. No rent. No bills. Just be present. Help out a little. Watch TV. Exist.
He said, "Man, that would actually help me a lot. And I will make sure to find a job and move out by the time you are back. These six months will be god sent."
I said, "Exactly. You help me, I help you."
He said, "So... like, I'm keeping an eye on her and the kids?"
I said, "No, not like surveillance. Just... awareness. Passive awareness. Make sure she's okay. Make sure the house doesn't feel empty. That's all. You could help around if you'd want, but hear me out, leave it to my wife. Just be there. Be the man of the house."
Because I trust her. I do. I just don't trust... the quiet. The gaps. That sliver of time between putting the kids to bed and turning off the lights. That's when bad decisions stretch their legs apart.
He'll be helpful. He'll play with the kids, maybe fix the microwave door that's been groaning like a dying raccoon.
And if someone even thinks about stepping into that house uninvited? Oliver's there. First responder, he will protect my wife and kids. He will keep my family safe.
This is smart. Strategic. This is defence, not paranoia.
I'll finally get some sleep, on the flight.
Work's been brutal. Long hours, cold weather, people talking in acronyms I still don't understand. But I'm staying focused. Providing. Making this count.
Oliver's been a champ.
A few weeks into my work trip, during one of our routine calls. Something felt a little... off. It wasn't anything big, but I couldn't shake the sense that my wife was a bit more... playful than usual.
"Hey, how's everything?" I asked, leaning back in my chair.
"Oh, you know," she replied with that light tone she sometimes gets. "Everything's fine. Just... holding down the fort."
"How's Oliver? Is he still helping out with the kids?" I asked, not thinking much of it.
He'd been staying with us, and I trusted him to keep things running smoothly.
"Yeah, he's been a huge help," she said. "He's really good with them, and you know, he keeps me company too. It's kind of like having a backup around here. It's been nice."
I smiled. "Good, good. I'm glad he's there for you all. Sounds like everything's in good hands."
She laughed lightly, but there was something a little too chipper in her voice. "Oh, absolutely. You know, he's like a part of the family at this point. And he's always up for late-night chats so it's not exactly quiet around here."
I raised an eyebrow, a little confused. "Late-night chats, huh?"
"Mm-hmm," she hummed. "You know, just talking about random things. He has a way of keeping things... interesting."
Her tone lingered on that word--interesting--and I couldn't help but chuckle nervously. "I guess he's got that, uh, charm."
She paused for a second before responding, and there was something about the way she said it that made me feel... uneasy, like she was enjoying this too much.
"Yeah, he's... definitely got a way of making things lively around here," she added with an almost teasing tone. "But don't worry, I'm managing just fine without you."
I laughed it off, trying to brush the odd feeling that crept in. "I'm sure you're doing great. I trust you both. Just don't let him convince you to stay up too late, alright?"