In the early 80's I was living in northeast Atlanta. I had recently ended a relationship with a young woman and was looking for something more than just occasional mildly kinky sex. She and I had explored a few threesomes, several couples and some mild bondage just between the two of us. The limited experience with tying her to the bed and blindfolding her led to some amazing orgasms for both of us.
I learned from these experiences that I loved being in control of a "helpless" woman who was into the game as much as I was. I have no desire to inflict pain beyond some minor light flogging of her pussy with my cock or an occasional firm nipple pull. If that enhances her arousal, then I'm all for it. My ex-girlfriend loved it when I would tie her to the bed, blindfold her and tease her for a while before laying my unseen cock on her lips or tying her with her knees spread and pulled up by her tits, only to then lay between her legs and kiss my way up to her oozing mound and slowly bring her to a crashing oral orgasm. I would then follow that up by slowly slapping her engorged clit with my cock and then penetrate her fully in one go. That would send her over the top quickly followed my own rush of cum.
These experiences made me want to take it further with other women or even another couple. To that end, I went to a Cheshire Bridge road porn shop and picked up one of the many swinger newspapers that were available back then. I began perusing the ads for various kinks. There were many ads for couples, swinger parties, singles seeking various scenarios, etc. After several months of reviewing these papers, I came across an ad that stated, "Middle aged couple seeking bull for kinky fun with wife." I had never heard the term "bull" before but my cock was immediately engorged and I was obviously very interested to find out more. There was a blind post office mailbox address, encouraging interested parties to write a letter with a short bio describing any previous swinging experience, a nude photo and a phone number.
This request was way beyond anything I had ever gotten involved with but I was highly motivated and very interested in learning more. I sent the letter, including phone number and a nude photo of myself with my hard 8" cock but with my face blacked out. I described some of my experiences, both with threesomes, etc and my light BDSM play with my ex. I didn't know If they would go for it but I put it in the mail.
Several weeks went by and nothing happened. On a Saturday afternoon in late August, I got a call from them. When I realized it was the husband on the phone I immediately started sweating and getting a hard-on. His name was Steve and he was a very pleasant, articulate sounding man. He described himself and his wife, Jackie, as middle-aged swingers who were looking for a man to include in their bedroom play. He said they both liked my photo and my background and that I might be someone they could enjoy playing with. He explained to me that he had a desire to have his wife dominated by another man while he watched and maybe participated. He described Jackie as an attractive, petite brunette who loved playing with other men and couples. He asked me if that was something I might be interested in trying. I stammered that I would and that I would be open to meeting them to see if there was any chemistry. They agreed to meet.
He suggested I come to their home the following Saturday evening and where we could have drinks and get to know one another. I was wary of showing up at a strangers home but agreed anyway. He told me their address and said he would mail me directions.
I had one hell of a time concentrating at work over the next several days anticipating my rendevous with this kinky couple at the end of the week. The address arrived in the mail on the Friday before the Saturday get together.
It turned out that their home was on Lake Lanier, about 50 miles north of Atlanta. I arrived at a very nice lake-front home at around 7:00 pm on Saturday. I had been involved in swinging for several years at that point but I was more nervous than ever.
Jackie and Steve greeted me at the door and my immediate sense was that they were your average, reasonably attractive, middle-aged couple. Steve was about 6' and trim while Jackie was as described. A petite, very attractive brunette with a very trim and fit body. I was quickly put at ease by their easy going manner and comfortable home. I sensed that I was in no danger and that this could be a very enjoyable, hot experience.
Steve fixed us all a cocktail and we sat on their back porch and got to know one another. Steve was in real estate and Jackie worked as a secretary at an investment firm. I told them about my small office equipment business, my swinging experiences and my desire to broaden my social and sexual horizons. They told me they had a wide variety of experiences with others both as singles before they were married and after as a couple. This was a second marriage for each and they both described their previous marriages and sexually bland and boring. They each had vowed never be stuck in a sexless, vanilla marriage again. They had actually met at a small private swingers party on a night they were with other partners. They had had sex that night as part of the party and had been together since shortly after.
I asked what they expected out of our getting together. Steve informed me that Jackie had a very strong submissive streak and wanted to explore that further but with no pain, no water sports and no condom. Jackie said that she really got off on being fucked in front of her husband and that Steve loved watching. She said he would sometimes join in depending on the mood. She also made it a point to let me know that he was not bi-sexual and that he would not be into being touched. I said I felt the same.
With that Jackie said if I was game, she was going to change into something, "more appropriate" and left Steve and I on the porch. Steve described what the perfect scenario for Jackie and him would be. He said that, among other things, he wanted to see his wife tied and fucked in the ass while restrained. It was also one of her turn-ons as well. I was to use their guest bedroom to undress while he would prepare Jackie. He showed me to the room and told me to give them a few minutes and he would summon me. He grinned as he left me to go to Jackie saying I was going to have "one hell of a night."