This is a true story of how I came to the realization, that due to age progression, I was most likely not going to be able to meet my wife's sexual needs for the rest of our lives. It was the steps I took, and eventually we both took, to ensure our marriage stayed together. And in the end, we both grew much closer as a couple and we both ended up getting a very enjoyable sex life that we were able to share with each other.
Some may think the things I will describe are very bold. Indeed they are. I realize they might not work for everyone, and in truth, I realize that most people will not feel comfortable trying most of these things. But this worked for our marriage and I wanted to share the experience.
In an attempt to make this a little bit more enjoyable read I have fashioned this in the form of what some might call porn. If this offends you then you will probably want to skip it. But if you continue on, I hope you both enjoy the read, as well as get something out of it that may help you in your marriage.
I have changed names, and a few minor details to protect identities.
Cheers,
Jeff
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Chapter 1
Introductions:
Hi, my name is Jeff. I met my wife Cady in the military. I was in the Navy and she worked on base at the hospital. The first thing I noticed about her was her eyes. She is Chinese, and I have always loved those mysterious Asian eyes. That along with the high cheek bones, the gorgeous silky jet black hair and her very sweet personality sent me head over heels in love very soon after we met.
She is slightly larger than the average Asian when it comes to her tits. This was another thing that struck me about her, not that it necessarily matters. I mean, tits come in all sizes and they are all great. But with Cady, this was something that just stood out, pardon the pun, as most Asian women seem to be a little less endowed when it comes to their tits.
Her frame is also slightly larger than most Asians. She is about 5'9" and if it were not for her typical Asian hair, eyes, and cheek bones, she would look like an average Caucasian woman, not too large, not too small.
As I said, I was soon taken with this lovely sweet sexy Asian girl. After dating a couple years we tied the knot and our life together began similar to what most couples go through. Job, bills, and later kids, kept us very busy. But through it all, we had a great marriage. The sex was great and very fulfilling, although I had wished she would be a little more daring when it came to fun wild risky things. She was very conservative in her views about sex and was very careful that we kept it absolutely and completely private among just the two of us.
I once tried to get her to visit a nude beach but it was very clear that she was definitely not going to do that. And yet, there was something she said once that made me think, "Hmmm, maybe there is hope. After we had a particularly fulfilling love making session, and were cuddling in each other's arms, she said that if we ever considered making love to another couple, she hoped it would be Jack and Crissy.
That floored me. Jack was a coworker of mine and Crissy was his very beautiful, very tall and very blonde babe of a wife. I definitely could imagine this scenario playing out well. I think Cady felt very comfortable with them and trusted them whole heartedly. But Jack and Crissy moved to another state soon after that. So the possibility of ever having a foursome never materialized. And we never spoke of such matters again.
Jump ahead 30 years. At this point, I was in my mid fifties. As I mentioned, our sex life had always been good. But as a man ages, often his libido does so as well. That was the case for me. I had a hard time keeping it up without the little well known blue pill. And while this worked somewhat, it was not an ideal scenario. Sometimes, I had no problem getting it up and keeping it up. But sometimes, I would need to rely on the blue pill. So we usually had to plan our love making which meant it was not spontaneous. If I felt that I wanted to do something, sometimes my little friend worked and sometimes he didn't. In the case of the latter, I had to take the pill and wait for him to rise to the occasion.
It was about this time that I read a particularly interesting story about a man who allowed his wife to have sex with other men due to the fact he could no longer meet her needs. At first I was shocked. But as I pondered it for awhile, the idea seemed to be an interesting thing to consider. I was sure Cady would never go for such a thing. But the more I thought about it, the more I thought that not only do I want her to have her sexual needs taken care of, but that I also thought it might be hot to watch as someone did this for her. I decided I would ease her in to it if at all possible. But I didn't hold out much hope that she would go for it.
I told her that I was concerned. I knew her sexual needs were not getting met. I also explained that under certain conditions, I would like for her to consider some other means for her to get sexual fulfillment. I told her we would need to put some safe guards in place that both of us were comfortable with. But that I thought it might be interesting to see where it might go.
Cady was in shock. "Would you do that?" she asked.
"What?"
"Would you let other men have sex with me?" she asked.
"Uh... uh... I'm not sure," I said.
"You would!" Cady said in shock.
As I figured, she was totally against this so I let the subject drop for awhile. But after a couple months, she brought it up herself. It seems she had indeed been thinking about it.
I could feel butterflies in my stomach. It sounded like she might actually be interested.
"So does it turn you on when you think about this?" I asked her.
"No," she said, almost too quickly.
"Aw come on," I said with a playful smile. "I think you have been thinking about it a lot and are getting excited about the idea. Why would you have brought it back up to me?" I chided.
"Well, I guess I have been thinking a lot about it since you mentioned it. And I did get very wet on several occasions as I thought about it," she said.
"So," I again playfully kidded her. "Is there anyone in particular that you have been visualizing yourself with?"
"Well..." she said reluctantly. "I was working out and one of the regulars from the Gym was on the bicycles next to me. He is about 35 and very hot. I dropped my towel and he returned it to me. After that, we chatted for a few minutes. I found out his name is Chris, and that he gives professional massages down at a local chain massage store down town."
"Babe, I have been thinking about this for awhile now. I think it would be so hot to see you getting your world rocked by some young well hung man. But I think if you are serious about this, we need to sit down and decide on the rules we would need to follow. Do you think you would like to pursue this?" I asked.
"I'm not sure he would be willing to do something like this and I don't want to ask him. I'm too embarrassed," she answered.
"But if he were willing, do you think you would be interested?" I asked her.
"Yes, I think that might be something I would consider," she answered.
"So I will see what I can do to help with this," I told her. "But first we need to come up with the rules we are going to play by. Let's make a list of what we are comfortable with and what we are not comfortable with."
