I have insight on from multiple sources and perspectives about one of my wife's extra-marital cheating episodes.
I've had "eye witness" reports on aspects of the event, and eventually my wife disclosed some of the details, during a night of lovemaking, decades after the event took place.
For context, this occurred about a year after the birth of our third child.
KK started to exhibit "normal" sex drive, and resumed sexual activity six or so months after giving birth, steadily ramping back up to her usual appetite.
She'd also gone back to work part-time, and life was generally getting back to normal.
One of the aspects I recall is that with child number three, and breast-feeding, her bust size had increased substantially, and in a very, very sexy way - curvy, with wonderful cleavage, depending on what she was wearing, with sometimes very erect, sensitive nipples that she loved to have sucked, tweaked, and stimulated.
She'd stopped breast-feeding, but her tits remained big, juicy, and luscious. KK was quite proud of them, and liked wearing outfits that featured her big rack.
We had a Halloween event scheduled, for after trick-or-treating hours, and she was supposed to be one of three women co-hosting the party, at a friend's house.
At the last minute, our sitter cancelled on us, leaving us with the dilemma of not attending the party at all, or my wife attending solo, to fulfill her responsibility to co-host.
It was a simple, and short debate. I got "elected" to stay home with the kids, while she went to the party.
The evening became more tension-filled for me, as the original plan was to get in costume, take the kids trick-or-treating (for those of you with experience, a "first Halloween" for a kid is a big deal), then leave the kids at home with the sitter.
Given that plan had fallen through, I was disappointed, and could not get into the mood to don a costume.
KK and I got into a bit of a tiff over that, but I held my ground.
About an hour before we were to go trick-or-treating, she went to put her costume on - she was going as "Elvira," which was pretty easy for her to pull off, especially with her dark hair, curves, and new-found bustiness...
While she was getting herself ready, I got the kids ready.
She came into the kitchen, and I about fell over. KK had pulled off a really, really hot "Elvira," for certain.
My wife had on a long, jet black wig, make-up perfectly done, even the Elvira-style eye thing, and she was wearing a layered, sheer black gown that was slit up the sides.
The gown was inappropriately open-neck, and her cleavage was delicious. I couldn't tell if, or what kind of bra she was wearing, and there was a hint of nipple showing through the thin material.
KK had on either stockings, or pantyhose, I couldn't tell which, but they were sheer black. She was carrying a pair of stiletto heel pumps in the fingers of her left hand, but wearing modest flats, I suppose for comfort while walking around the neighborhood.
Just looking at her, my cock was immediately, and uncomfortably hard. Had the kids not been in the kitchen, I would have bent her over the counter and fucked her senseless on the spot.
I was pretty much speechless.
KK finally said, "Well, how do I look? Don't even bother... if I have to ask, it just isn't the same!"
I gathered that she was still pissed at me for not wearing a costume. I was unfortunately oblivious to her need for an unsolicited flattering comment.
I kept trying to reinforce how wonderful she looked, but it didn't seem to matter. She spent a few minutes bitching at me about not feeding the kids properly (whatever that meant), and adjusting parts of their costumes that I hadn't managed to do according to her judgement. I figured it was a lost cause, and I'd just have to let her get over being pissed at me, and try to avoid confrontation.
We took the kids on the rounds of the neighborhood, and KK kept checking her watch, impatiently. After about an hour, the little one was getting really cranky and tired, and it was time for KK to head to the adult party, at our friend's home, a short drive from our neighborhood.
At the house, I was dealing with getting the kids out of their costumes, the little one to bed, all those necessary parenting chores, while KK had gone to touch up her make-up, collect her purse and keys, and depart for the party.
She didn't even bother to kiss me goodbye - I just heard her yell "Bye now," from the hallway, and hear the garage entry door open, then slam closed.
I was disappointed at having to stay home, my cock was hard, thinking about how much I just wanted to bend her over and fuck her, and wondering why she was pissed at me.
I had a beer, and watched TV. About two hours later, the phone rang. I answered the call, and it was Jay, the husband, part of a couple we're friends with.
He said, "Dude, your wife is really, really getting hammered! I'm kind of worried about her... Tammy's (his wife) trying to get her reined in, and managed to get some water, food, and Ibuprofen in KK, but I'm not sure it's gonna work. Your wife seems really spun up about something. Anything we should know about?"
I was definitely alarmed, and concerned.
I told Jay, "She left here pissed at me, more than she should've been, because I wouldn't wear a costume when we took the kids trick-or-treating. That's all I can think of. I'm stuck here with the kids, and it's raining now. I can bundle them up and come get her if you think she's so shit-faced that's necessary?"
Jay told me he didn't know, but he didn't think it was that far out of control just yet.
He said, "I don't know how much, or what she's been drinking, but she can still walk, even in those fucking stripper shoes. She's all touchy-feely with everybody, and way on the happy side, if you know what I mean."
I said, "Yeah, I've seen that all before. Do me a favor. You and Tammy keep an eye on her for me. The minute you think she's too shit-faced to stay, call me, and I'll come get her. Just don't let her drive. If she can stay at Jill and Tom's (the homeowner's place) that's fine, I just don't want her driving drunk. That would be fucked up, and if I have to, I'll bundle the kids up and come get her."
Jay agreed to keep an eye on her, "We'll make sure she's OK. I'm pretty sure Jill can park her in the guest room when the party winds down. I'll call you later and let you know. Bye for now."
He hung up the phone, and I was feeling pissed. Alcohol, especially too much alcohol has always had a negative impact on my wife. She's fairly petite, and doesn't metabolize it well. When I'm with her, drinking in social occasions, I can generally moderate, or help her moderate how much she drinks. When she's on her own, not so much.
There was no good reason for her to go off on a bender, at least as far as I knew. I fiddled and fidgeted the whole night - the weather was getting worse, rain turning to light sleet, and I was concerned that she'd drive, drunk, in bad weather, and I was eventually pacing around the house, waiting on the phone to ring, with an update from Jay.