My wife is a secretary for a large regional office. She's 5'9", slender, with long legs and brown hair -- sometimes dyed black -- and brown eyes.
Three years before, I had encouraged her to date other men for months before she relented. She was then 25. She had a fling that lasted several months. My intent was for her to date with my knowledge. As it turned out, she jumped into the affair but was unable to admit it to me. I found out through unanticipated circumstances.
When that relationship ended, she suggested we try swinging with couples, by answering personals ads or placing our own ad online and in a swingers' magazine.
We used her personal computer and scanner to produce photo copies and placed three ads. We mailed letters with copies of those pics to selected couples who advertised online, in the magazine.
We posted some pics of her in a web blog, along with stories of her past experiences.
We fucked around with a few couples until I realized about myself what I'd suspected; I'm a "watcher." I'd rather she have sex with other guys than be a participant. My wife joked, "You're really a 'cuckold.'"
I travel during most work-weeks but am home Friday afternoons through Sunday.
A few months ago after work, she was pushing a cart through the supermarket when another cart firmly bumped hers at an aisle's end. The man released his grip and apologized. She grinned and said, "I do that sometimes too. It's okay." They struck up a conversation in which she learned he was single and lived in the condo within walking distance of the market.
Over the next several weeks, she saw and talked with him on three different occasions. He made the usual lame joke for those situations, "We should stop meeting like this."
They chatted on each of these occasions. He worked at his condo as a remote computer specialist for a local research company. As an afterthought, he reached into his shirt pocket and handed her his business card.
That Thursday night she was twirling his business card in her fingers when she phoned my hotel told me what happened. She said, "He's really cute."
As you can imagine, I joked, "So why haven't you fucked him yet?"
She laughed and said, "I just might do that," which told me she found him attractive without her admitting it.
That Friday night, she and I talked more about him as we watched TV from our couch. Typically curious about what attracted her, I asked what he looked like. She said, "Well, he's 30. About 6'1". He has blond hair and blue eyes." In other words, nothing like me. I don't know why I like that.
Perhaps unconsciously, her hand massaged her groin as we talked. Her eyes rolled up, staring at the ceiling, and she said, "And we seem to like same books and movies."
I would learn later what she left out. When a man is described as "cute," I think of a guy with a slight build; he isn't. He's a workout enthusiast with a 32" waist, 42" chest, long powerfully-built legs and arms like telephone poles. It wasn't like she hadn't noticed.
And in the back of her mind was her curiosity about the size of his dick, but she didn't mention that to me either.
Her enthusiasm excited me as well, and I grinned, "Sounds stimulating." My cock was as hard as a stone.
We didn't mention him again that weekend. She phoned the number on his business card Monday night. They talked for an hour.