During our first year of marriage, my wife and I had what you'd call a normal sex life. For us that meant that 3 or 4 times a week, I'd eat her pussy to get her warmed up, then we'd fuck and fall asleep in each other's arms. And we didn't need more than that, because we both enjoyed what we were doing together. Then, after our son was born, something happened with my wife's body and she no longer enjoyed fucking. The physical act now made her uncomfortable, and was at times even painful. On top of that, she started getting frequent vaginal infections, which made fucking even less appealing to her. I didn't know any of this at the time, because my wife was reluctant to tell me she didn't enjoy making love to me anymore. All I saw was that my wife was very seldom in the mood for sex, and that was putting a major strain on our marriage. But, the truth eventually came out, because of the fights we started having, and we started looking for solutions.
As I said, normal fucking was out because of the pain and discomfort it caused. That also meant that anal sex was out, although we never actually tried it. I mean, everyone knows ass fucking hurts, so there's no way I could convince my wife to try it. Masturbation wasn't the answer, because I was already doing that to take off the edge. And, the few times my wife tried to do it for me, it wasn't satisfying for either of us. So, naturally, we settled on oral sex as the solution to our problem. But, my wife had no experience in it at all, since I was the only guy she'd ever been with. And, while she enjoyed the feel of my cock in her mouth, it was hard to keep it up long enough to make me cum. Her jaw would get tired from being open wide enough to take me, and her neck would hurt from trying to bob her head up and down. And, she refused to listen to my advice, because to her, slowing down would just make it take longer, and it already took too long for her. So, most of the time she couldn't finish what she started, which made it worse than masturbating. And, she naturally lost interest in even trying after a while.
So, our sex life continued to deteriorate, and with it our marriage. You can say that if I really loved my wife, I'd be able to deal with the lack of sex. Well, its not quite that simple. You see, my wife is a very passionate and romantic woman. She loves to kiss, cuddle and touch all the time, which would make any man horny. But, without some way for me to relieve the sexual tension the things she loved to do created, I had no choice but to limit those activities. In other words, as soon as I started getting horny, I'd have to gently stop her, before it got too frustrating for me. That made her unhappy, it made me unhappy, and it put even more strain on our marriage. It was so bad, we even tried bringing another woman to our bed, to relieve my sexual frustration. That failed because my wife couldn't stand to see some other woman giving me the pleasure she couldn't give me. And a mistress, even if she didn't see us together, wasn't an option either, because knowing I had to be with another woman to be happy just tore her up inside.
The next thing we tried, which might not make sense to you, was to have another baby. We were getting desperate, and who knows, maybe giving birth a second time would undo whatever had happened the first time she gave birth. So, she suffered through enough sex to get pregnant, then we waited the 9 months for our daughter to be born. That wasn't the only reason we wanted another child, so even though it didn't work, we were still happy about that. And, there was something else good that came out of having a second baby. That's because it renewed my wife's determination to find a way to make me happy in bed. Now that we had two beautiful kids, she wasn't going to let anything break up our family. And that meant finding some solution to the sex problem that was tearing it apart.
So, unbeknownst to me, she started doing some research on the one thing she'd at least been able to do partially, and that's oral sex. The way she'd been trying to do it before had been the way girls did it in porn flicks, and it hadn't worked. Then again, everyone knows that half the things they do there are for the camera, and would not be comfortable for normal people to do. And, the advice I'd tried to give her hadn't helped her, because I couldn't explain things in a way a woman would understand. Now though, she started watching couples sex movies and instructional videos made to enhance your sex life, and reading online books and forums on the same subjects. Being able to see the right way, not the porn way, and reading things written by women helped her understand better than I could. I didn't know about her research, because she did it while our son was in school and I was at work. I only learned about it when she felt she was ready to try some of what she had learned.
As I said, she'd made me cum by sucking my cock before, but only by forcing herself to keep going long after the jaw pain started. With what she'd learned though, she was able to get the same results without having to force herself. However, while she wasn't forcing herself, she wasn't really enjoying herself either. It seemed almost as if she was following some memorized technique or recipe to make me cum, and not taking time to get pleasure from the act itself. And, of course, she gagged when my sperm shot into the back of her throat since she hadn't learned to handle that yet. But, at least it was now easier than it had been, and less painful for her than normal sex would have been. So, doing it once a week, with me eating her pussy in return, was a price she was willing to pay to get the romance back in our marriage. As the weeks went by, her technique obviously improved and she started getting quicker results. But, she still wasn't enjoying what she was doing, because she still seemed to be following some sort of steps to get me there. And, she still wasn't able to let me cum in her mouth without having to pull away halfway through so she wouldn't choke.