True Story!
This whole experience just kind of happened; neither of us had ever been with anyone else in our 8-year marriage.
The story is pretty long, but I think it will be worth reading. I'll give the back story first so you can understand the whole context. I've always been faithful to my wife, and she to me; I trust her. She's only 29, me and my buddy that she was with are in our late 30s. My buddy (JJ) and I have known each other since high school, and she met him (and his ex-wife) through me, of course, when we were dating. He lives in another state now but he stops over to see us when he's in town on business (which I wouldn't be surprised if it's more often now..LOL) and stays the weekend.
He just went through a divorce last year that was pretty hard on him (but, he still wears his ring), and we haven't seen him since that time. He's told me every since me and my wife were dating that my wife was "so fucking fine" and things like " I can't even imagine what it would like to have someone as hot as your wife...He's told me I don't know how many times how lucky I am. I've seen him looking at her (it's difficult not to) a bunch of times, especially if she's wearing tight jeans or yoga pants when we are all together. But, he also respects the boundaries and would never hit on her. They have flirted a few times, but just like friends of the opposite sex do, nothing serious...And I was there.
She did tell me one time that he was a really nice-looking man...But that was just normal talk, like something I might say to her about one of her friends. That's the back story, so here's what happened when he stopped in the weekend before last.
My buddy (JJ) showed up at the house for the weekend...As I said, it's the first time we've seen him in almost a year, and since his divorce. We sent him back to our guest room as usual. After he showered and changed clothes, we all went out to eat and had drinks. My wife has never had more than two drinks, so she was the driver. When we got home, JJ and I continued to drink and bullshit. His birthday was the next day, so I said guess what we got you for your birthday. We actually, got him a really nice engraved knife.....But he pops up (drunk, of course), "Oh, I don't know,....Hmmmm...A night with your hot wife?" We all just laughed, and he said, "oh well, can you blame a guy for dreaming"..and went to bed soon after.