This is a true story but the names have been changed to protect the guilty xxx
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EVERYONE loves my wife.
Men and women; old people, young people -- bikers, barristers and band members. She knows how to make people feel good. It's in her nature to please and she does it well. I knew this shortly after we were married, and I struggled with it for years -- sitting to the side as she poured her attention and affection to whoever was visiting our home or spending time with us outside of it. She has always liked making people feel good. And I often sat in her company watching men and woman alike become besotted by the attention she gave them. They knew I was there, but they would be so enraptured by the spell she had them under, that I was always somewhat irrelevant to the moment they were experiencing.
To women, she is the most understanding, attentive, fun and giving girlfriend they could imagine; and after meeting her even briefly, they would want to spend time with her regularly.
To men, she is a beautiful, curvy, sexy woman who admires them and fawns over them and makes them feel like they are the only man in the room -- in front of others and in front of me.
I always played it cool, like I was a dude who was uber confident and not worried about the time or attention she would give others.
The truth is, I was always somewhat jealous. Especially of the alpha guys who would flirt with her in front of me. The guys who would kiss her on the lips when we came into a bar to hear a band or neighbors who would let their hug linger way longer than hugs between friends should linger, especially when their wives or husbands are present.
We spoke about it over time, and she always reassured me that it was her nature to be attentive to people, and there was no doubt in my mind that this was true because I observed her being giving of herself to others indiscriminately -- and I realized that I only got jealous when someone would take advantage of it or believe that it was because they were irresistible to her or something.
Years went by, and I became more confident in myself and our relationship and at some stage I stumbled upon r/hotwife on Reddit. It wasn't long before I started revisiting my feelings of jealousy about several alpha men in our lives and understanding the thin line between jealousy and desire. I started to get really turned on thinking about how those same alpha guys I was jealous about wanted to fuck my wife.
It took me some time to build up the courage to share my feelings with my wife, but one night when we were being intimate, I said,
"You know how I used to get jealous when Marty used to hug you forever and kiss you and flirt with you, even in front of me and his wife? Well, the truth is, I can't blame him. You're gorgeous. And that time on New Year's Eve, you looked so sexy. And, well, I think it's actually really sexy that he was confident enough to be like that with you in front of me and in front of Ellen. In fact, I think it's really sexy."