THE STORY SO FAR
My name is George. My wife Helen had a month long affair with Dr Paul Rodgers. She confessed to me. I had forgiven her.
Helen and I had agreed not to report Dr Rodgers to the UK General Medical Council and possibly have him struck off the list of doctors who are legally recognised.
My wife had led our doctor into having their affair. But he should have been able to resist. The GMC advise their doctors to log out of hours contacts with their patients. I doubt that Dr Rodgers did that.
It seemed wrong that a person had spent 6 years in medical school, could lose his licence to practice medicine because my wife wanted sex with him. At first I wanted revenge on Dr Rodgers so I wanted him struck off. Now him being struck off appears to be excessive.
But the GMC guidance is clear. Doctors should not stray with their patients. Their guidance makes clear that straying doesn't just mean touching. Straying also includes sending erotic messages and intimate photos.
But Helen and I had a moral duty to protect his other patients.
CONFIDENTIALITY
The most crucial part of being a doctor is that he or she keeps all information, and not just medical information, secret. Confidentiality is an implicit contract between the patient and the doctor.
Luckily for Dr Rodgers he hadn't discussed other patients with Helen.
SERIAL SEDUCER
If Dr Rodgers were a serial seducer he might prey on women who were vulnerable. I had read of the case of Doctor B, who had been struck off for having sex with a vulnerable patient 21 times.
Helen went to see Dr Rodgers for problems with her change of life. She wasn't vulnerable like Dr B's patient. My wife was just randy. She had thrown herself at Dr Rodgers. But he shouldn't have taken advantage of my wife.
My wife had allowed, no that is the wrong word, my wife had enjoyed having sex with Dr Rodgers in his flat. They had foreplay, which consisted of my wife licking his (longer and thicker than mine) cock.
SLOPPY SECONDS
They then had unprotected missionary sex. Sperm that do not fertilise an egg will die within 1 to 2 days inside the female body. Indeed the blighters can stay there for up to 5 days. That meant that Helen came back to me with Dr Rodger's cum still inside her. I had got sloppy seconds on 3 occasions.
Helen was no longer able to have children so Dr Rodgers couldn't make my wife pregnant. It would have been worse if Helen came home one day and said "Honey I'm having a baby but it may not be yours".
POST SEX
Afterwards having missionary sex my wife ran her wet finger along Dr Rodger's cock and got dressed. She returned to our house. So unwittingly I had Dr Rodger's sloppy seconds. There are some men who get a sexual thrill from having sloppy seconds. But it turns me off. It is demeaning to have sloppy seconds.
Helen and I had therefore agreed to go to marriage counselling.
BACKDOOR PLAY
On the plus side Dr Rodgers hadn't used my wife's arse for either anal sex or for rim jobs. These are things that Helen reserves for me.