Modern Life

Relationships are different today. We meet people online, we marry later, we marry more often. It seems to me that old practices and expectations can't hold up to today's realities, especially on the female side. Women have never had such a combination of choice and power, and traditional relationships don't stand a chance.

I met my current wife on a dating site. What I didn't know initially was that she was married at the time. We had flirted quite tamely for a couple of months when I suggested we should at least meet for coffee. I myself was newly single and new to online dating so I was naive, horny and without expectation. I had met a couple of other women, had tried to start a relationship but got cold feet as it was way too early for me to get serious.

On our first date, I met Cindy at a coffee shop downtown and she seemed nice enough. Pleasent to talk to, nice on the eyes, but there weren't any butterflies either. It was starting to get dark and I was hungry suggested we grab a bite to eat at my favorite cafe. It was just around the corner so we headed over, managed to get a nice enough table and continued our chat. To this day I don't know what came over me but near the end of the meal I stood up, leaned over and gave her a deep soulful, passionate kiss, which she happily returned.

The rest of the evening was abit of a blur. I paid the bill and we ran over to a jazz club but frankly all we did was make out, and quckly decided to go back to my place. We grabbed a taxi, my cock was in her mouth the entire drive home and we spent the next few hours fucking our brains out. she slipped away quietly around 2am but messaged me the next day hoping to get together again soon. For the next 6 months we got together every Thursday at my place where we had great laughs, lots of sex and actually grew to like each other a lot.

About 3 months in she confessed to being married but that actually turned me on more. I asked her if she was seeing anyone else and she said no, and I believed her as I gave her no reason to lie. In fact it was me who suggested that she find another fuck buddy, and she did. Sadly I met someone myself and foolishly thought I should be monogamous so I broke up with Cindy. She was pretty cool about it and realized the circumstances were such that it was somewhat inevitable. We stayed in touch and a year later found us both single, and we started dating in a more traditional manner, fell in love and decided to get married.

Our sex life was great and included lots of fantasy talk. I would bring up her past and she would revel in telling me how she loved being fucked by two different men in one day and how once she even did three - one at lunch, one at dinner and her husband when she finally got home. I asked her if I had been one of those men and she quietly took my cock in her mouth, looked up at me with her beautiful eyes and smiled. She never answered and I never asked again...she was great at knowing when to let my imagination take over!

I asked her if she had deleted all her online profiles when we got serious and she reacted somewhat defensively and said of course. Given that I wasn't born yesterday I didn't believe her for a second and so I created my own account on one or two sites so I could snoop. Yes I did find her profile on one of them but it had obviously been dormant for quite some time. I found it odd but not unheard of and at first didnt give it much more thought.

Fast forward a year and things had changed a bit. We were still in love, were probably even better friends but sexually things had perhaps inevitably waned. Cindy seemed bored - my sextalk hadn't really changed much, we had become a bit lazy and so naturally the edge had worn off. When we did have sex she seemed to go through the motions, would rarely go down on me and then only to get me hard enough to fuck her. I was frustrated, partly for myself but also for this incredibly sexual woman who had lost interest. We were sitting on the couch one night and I decided I needed to confront her on it, for her sake, for my sake and that of our marriage.

She was playing with her phone while we were watching TV so I asked her who she was chatting with. She rolled her eyes at me, showed me the game she was playing, gave me a kick and said "you wish". I think my response startled her a bit. - I said that in fact I kind of did, if that's what it would take to get her interested in sex again. Naturally she got a bit defensive but I did my best to be reassuring and understanding. I said it was inevitable that she would eventually grow bored after years of dating lots of different men, the variety and stimulation they brought and the obvious pleasure she had gotten from bedding them. She knows me well enough to not even try to deny it but said that was all part of the deal when we got married. I said it didn't have to be and told her she should try going online again to see if it got her interested again. I said the boundaries are yours to set - if just flirting works then great, if just going out works, super, but if you need to spend the night or bring them home I was totally cool with that too.

And so she did. And at first it was just harmless online flirting and she would come to bed hornier than she had been in ages. Then a guy finally convinced her to go on a date and she came home not very late but with her eyes alive and her pussy soaked. They had kissed goodnight and that was all it took to get her randy as Hell. Then there was a second date and they groped - she even unzipped his pants and played with his cock a bit. Third date she didnt come home until the next morning. She was happy and alive and she fucked my eyes out all weekend long. I didnt pry for details and she wasnt very forthcoming, but she planted enough seeds for my fertile imagination to go wild.

Soon she was out most every Thursday night, and she made no attempt to hide it from her friends or our neighbors. She was seen in public with other men, usually at least 10 years younger than her and neither of us cared. She started bringing them home on occasion and I would get to hear her endless orgasms as they fucked her over and over. I think the record was 7 times in one night and morning, but when she finally kissed him goodbye for all the neighbors to see she still came back to me and loved me liked no other woman could.