When Brigadier General Harmon E. Marshall, U.S. Army, Ret., entered my office, I thought he carried himself with the air of someone used to command. He was tall and fit, with a weatherbeaten face and an erect carriage. "He cuts a very impressive figure," I thought to myself.
On his arm was Mrs. Marilyn Hart, a lovely woman in her own right and one of the most eligible widows in Atlanta. When John Hart had had died unexpectedly five years ago from a brain aneurysm, he had left his heart-broken wife alone but extremely wealthy. Since then, one of the favorite games of Atlanta society was speculating on who might console the widow in her loss. Now, it appeared, that question had been answered.
"Come in, come in," I said, extending my hand to Mrs. Hart. "I'm Sarah Cannon. It's a pleasure to meet you."
Then I turned to her companion. "And you must be General Marshall. I've heard so much about you."
"Don't believe a word of it," he said with a straight face.
"But it's all good," I protested.
"Then you definitely ought to discount it," he said with a smile and a wink.
"How disarming," I thought, as I ushered them into my office. "For a distinguished soldier to be so self-deprecating is a charming way to put people at ease."
General Marshall certainly came with a prestigious reputation. He was a decorated officer who had fought in the first Gulf War. Unlike most senior officers, General Marshall had actually led his men in combat, and had both the Silver Star and a Purple Heart to show for his efforts.
"General Marshall," I said, "I can't help but ask: are you by any chance related to the famous World War II general George Marshall?"
He smiled indulgently at me. "I get that question quite often. Actually, we are, but it's a very distant relationship. I think he was my great uncle once removed. Of course, that doesn't keep me from trading on the name."
Once again I was charmed by the easy way he made fun of himself.
I settled the two of them on the settee and fetched them a glass of fruit tea. Then I took the arm chair beside them. "Now, how can I help the two of you?"
Marilyn was the first to speak. "Mrs. Cannon . . .
"Please," I interrupted, "everyone calls me Miz Sarah."
She smiled and nodded. "Miz Sarah, my dear friend Emma Wolfolk told me that you are the best family law attorney in Atlanta and that I had to come see you on this."
I didn't know Emma Wolfolk, but I knew of her. She was another young widow in Atlanta society, not wealthy like Marilyn Hart, but certainly very visible in charitable and social activities. Her photo regularly graced the society section of the Atlanta
Journal Constitution
.
"How very kind of her to recommend me," I said. "So what is it you need?"
General Marshall intervened. "It will be easier if I explain." Marilyn deferred to him with an adoring gaze.
"As I'm sure you're aware," the General said, "Marilyn has consented to have me for her husband, and our wedding is only a few weeks away. I've been a lonely old soldier since my wife died years ago, but Marilyn has brought joy back into my life."
Marilyn clasped his hand in hers and beamed.
"The thing is," the General went on, "Marilyn is a wealthy woman. While generals are paid decently, my net worth would be a small fraction of hers. The last thing I would ever want people to think is that I am some sort of opportunist trying to take advantage of her in her grief over the loss of her late husband."
At this, Marilyn frowned and shook her head to make it clear she would never believe such a thing about her fiancΓ©.
"Accordingly," he continued, "I believe the only honorable thing for me to do is to enter into a pre-nuptial agreement that protects Marilyn. We need your help in drawing up such an agreement."
"I can easily do that," I reassured them, "and let me commend the two of you for having the wisdom to take care of such matters in advance of your marriage. When two people are young and have few or no assets of their own, such considerations aren't as important. But when both parties are mature adults, reaching an agreement in advance can avoid future problems, especially in the event of a dissolution of the marriage."
Marilyn was clearly perturbed at my last statement. "Harm and I are deeply in love, Miz Sarah, and there's no possibility of us ever parting."
"If I were in your shoes, Marilyn, I would take General Marshall's wish as a very tangible sign of just how much he does love you," I reassured her.
She sighed at my words. "I hadn't thought of that," she said. She clasped his hand even tighter.
After that, we went on to have a discussion about the elements normally found in most pre-nuptial agreements. However, as I was about to wrap up, General Marshall interrupted. "There's just one more thing, Miz Sarah. In the event of a divorce, the agreement you've outlined calls for us to part with the same assets we had as when we entered the marriage. But that's not good enough for me."
He cleared his throat. "I want Marilyn to know that I will love her and honor her forever, forsaking all others. Accordingly, I want it spelled out that if I should break my marriage vows and commit adultery, I will automatically forfeit half of my current and future assets to her. That's the only way I can think of to show her how serious I am about loving her forever."
Marilyn gasped at his unexpected offer. "Oh, Harm," she said adoringly, "what a wonderful, unselfish husband you're going to be!"