Several years ago, I had to have my prostate removed. Up until then, my wife and I had a fantastic sex life. We had several MFM threesomes and even entertained the idea of becoming swingers though she said she was afraid she might lose me to some sexy young thing. My usual retort was, "That's just about as likely as you running off with some hung young buck."
Then my PSA numbers went off the chart. My prostate enlarged so much they had to take it out. The doctor warned me that it might affect my sex life and boy did it. He put me on testosterone and that helped a little but I still had trouble getting hard. First they tried Viagra, then Cialis and eventually shots directly into my penis a half hour before we had sex. Those damn things hurt like hell. My last option was a penile implant but my insurance wouldn't cover it. It was almost $60,000.
We went for over two years with little to no sex, then I changed jobs. My new insurance, I found out, did cover the operation after one year with them so we waited and then I had the procedure done. I tried it out as soon as the four week recovery period was up. I was a little disappointed as it wasn't nearly as big as I was before and the model he installed didn't have my head enlarge like the model he showed us, saying that, that particular model had been recalled due to leakage. Life was what it was, at least I was having sex again and I could keep it charged up for hours. That part was fun for the wife. I talked the wife into trying swinging and we tried it for a while and had some fun, though I really missed giving her those big creampies like I used to.
Then her libido went into the dumpster. We used to have sex three or four times a week. Now if I begged, it was once or twice a month. Big difference. I tried to talk her into going to a swinger's party but to no avail, she told me to go alone but that was not the same. I felt guilty, like I was cheating on her if I did play and often just visited. I'd come home horny as hell and usually she'd be asleep and not in the mood for any fun.
I tried talking her into getting a lover, to watch her lovely face in orgasm, to watch her being pleased and seeing her pussy full of cum again. I really missed seeing that white river oozing out of her pussy and across her bumm hole as she smiled in her lovely post orgasmic state. I'd often show her pictures of guys I'd chatted with from AFF or SLS, hoping she take the bait. No such luck.
One guy I'd chatted with before, Bill, had moved from the coast to our town after purchasing a small hardware store and was wondering if he could get some ideas on how to give ladies massages. I give soft tissue, hot rock and if the lady desires, erotic. I asked my wife if she was interested in being our model and she said no but I could see she was thinking about it. I was able to play with her and used it in a fantasy and was able to really get her off.
I invited him over and he brought her some wine. We talked and had a few beers while she sipped her wine before he commented on her beauty then left. My wife said he was nice and nothing more. Bill was half Hawaiian and half Samoan, about 6'4 and very handsome. I am not gay or bi but if I were, I could be attracted to him. He was divorced as his wife had left him for another woman, taking his two girls back to Hawaii with her.
The next weekend, I invited Bill over for a barbecue and I smoked up several racks of ribs and a small prime rib. My wife Mary made twice baked potatoes and salad and peach dumplings for dessert. Bill brought Mary a bouquet of flowers and us two bottles of some very nice cabernet. Dinner was very nice as was the relaxed conversation after. As we said our good byes, Mary went to give Bill a kiss on the cheek, only he turned and kissed her on the lips. Not a lingering sensual long one, just a quick one and thanked her for a wonderful home cooked meal. He shook my hand and said, "My treat next time."
The following week, he invited us out to dinner on Saturday at a nice restaurant that had a bar and dancing. After dinner we took turns dancing with Mary and had a good time. Mary was relaxing around Bill. I kept looking for him to make a move on her but nothing seemed to be going on, much to my dismay. As we were walking out from the bar, Bill whispered to me, "Am I invited over for next Saturday? If so, I'll bring the steaks." I nodded, unsure of what to say.
The following Saturday, Bill shows up earlier than usual, carrying a six-pack of wine and a bag from a well-known butcher's shop with three huge filet mignon steaks, wrapped in bacon. We started in on the wine. Mary was a little upset because she still had a lot of work to do in the kitchen and Bill said, "Where's an apron? Please let me help." As he poured her another glass of wine. I moved into the living room to read the paper but soon I could hear him flirting with her and her giggling.
Needing a refill on my wine, I went towards the kitchen and as I rounded the corner, Mary was putting the twice baked potatoes in the oven and Bill playfully grabbed her hips and humped her butt saying, "You're such a naughty girl to tease a gentleman like that."