I was sitting in a bar having a quiet time drinking my usual scotch and water when I watched her walk up to the jukebox and put a quarter in. To me she was still the most beautiful girl in the world and had been since I had first met her. I knew she knew I was there. She had come to give me a reminder once again of where we were in our relationship. I knew we were in limbo because I could not decide how to resolve it all. It took about thirty seconds for the record to start to play.
'Love hurts, love scars, love wounds and marks' blasted through the speakers. The words of that song took me back to the day I had realized it all had begun.
It had reached the point that I had put together a great scheme by one to take me down and destroy my marriage. The Bitch had almost succeeded. All it had taken was determination, focus, and attention to the details along with the time for the power of persuasion to work. It didn't hurt that she had the power and influence. The problem for me was I did not know how I could get that person's ongoing conduct to end. Once she failed, I knew she would try again.
The angle of how it had been done had been so masterfully applied that no one would believe the person behind it had almost achieved it. I even knew the reason my problem now was coming to ahead. The question I had to decided was how I was going to deal with it. The problem started years ago on the day that Jody and I got married.
Jody's first two names are Joanne Mandy. Her parents started calling her Jody long before she started grade school. I met her at a mutual friend's birthday party a year after I started teaching high school. I wasn't looking for love or a relationship and had stepped in to break up an argument between her and her date.
I got them parted and had escorted him off the property by suggesting he go home and come down from whatever he was high on. As I watched him drive off, I called the local police station and warned them that he was driving under the influence of something. I have even given them the make, model and plate numbers.
When they pulled him over with his anger still raging, he had decided to swing at the police officers. That was his first mistake. That allowed them to search the vehicle and they found enough drugs to charge him with possession with the intention to sell. What I didn't know he used Jody's brother's name to try to defuse his situation.
Since Jody had come with him, I offered to give her a ride home when the events started to wind down. She asked about my date and I said I had come alone. That perked her interest and I explained that I was to busy paying down educational debts and couldn't afford one. She laughed and said get serious then accepted the ride home.
Her older brother a police detective had heard about the bust and was waiting at his parent's place for Jody to get home because he was concerned about her wellbeing. I didn't know when I first met him that he was one.
The jukebox belted out 'any heart, not tough or strong enough to take a lot of pain'. Jody was playing it deliberately to try to get me past the pain that I was dealing with like those unexplained nights and the lies that went with them. Little did she realize she was making me relive it all again. My mind went back to the night we met.
Like all overprotective big brothers, he had to check me out after I had safely brought her home. It was he that gave Jody my phone number and told her that I was coaching a basketball game at the high school that Friday night.
Jody came to the game with her parents only to watch our team get beat badly because two of our best players were carrying out their anger to each other over one of the school cheerleaders that the two of them were chasing. Team spirit went out the window during the first half and we were down so far, we couldn't recover.
During the second half, we outplayed them and doubled their scores, but it was still not enough. The two players involved in the dispute had been benched for the second half. Before they went home that night everyone knew they were out for the season.
We went to the divisional championships that season. Jody's father said that I had been given no choice and agreed with my decision. The two players had allowed their dispute between the two of them to destroy the unity of the team.
The next day Jody and I met for lunch and that began our relationship. She had wanted to thank me for how I handled the situation with her former boyfriend. Jody's personality to me was addicting for she seemed to find humor in everything. Eight months later I asked her father for his daughter's hand and he gladly gave me his blessing.
The jukebox boomed, 'takes a lot of pain love is like a cloud holds a lot of rain Love hurts'. No truer words could have been spoken to me because in the solitude of my mind that's where it sat. Each day at school I saw the smiling faces of young couples in love and it reminded me of innocence that Jody and I once had.
Slowly I had begun to figure it out. Pat Robertson's son and I were about the same age. Pat a female in her forties at the time worked beside my wife on the second floor at the blue cross data processing center in our small town. Five days a week fifty-two times a year for ten years. Routinely the four-floor office complex processed medical insurance claims daily.
Each one had to be reviewed and gone thoroughly completely to save as much money as possible. It was surprising how much was refused by a simple thing such as improper coding. Blue Cross was able to cut its responsibility for claims by ten percent on that alone.
Pat Roberson my wife's supervisor met me for the first time on the day of Jody's and my wedding. By that time, she had worked with my wife for three years. I knew as soon as I met her by the way she looked at me that she did not like me. It would take time for me to find out the reason. I learned from staff socials over the next few years the reason behind her personal feelings.
As I watch Jody and her father walked towards me, I thought I was the richest man in the world. She looked like she was the most beautiful girl in the world. With her blonde hair styled to perfection, the white full-length gown hugging her frame, and a smile that lit up the whole room.
From the moment of our return from our honeymoon, Pat Robertson began to hunt for a reason and a way to degrade me or my views in my wife Jody's eyes. Over the course of the last few years of our marriage, she had caused a lot of minor problems for us until both of us found out why she was doing that. That's when my wife began to learn to just block her out whenever she mentioned my name.
Pat had one big problem according to all I had talked to. She believed that my wife had married the wrong man. The man she should have married was her son. Matt was a computer nerd who ran his own business and was quietly successful. His biggest problem was he was socially inept.
His only problem that because of his upbringing he was socially backward and hadn't dated anyone in years. Most who had gone to school with him had said they had never met a more boring person in their lives than him. Pat felt it was her responsibility as a mother to find him the perfect wife. To her Jody was it.
The lead singer of Nazareth sang 'love hurts love hurts.' Boy does it ever, especially when the pain is caused by others outside of the lovers' control.
It became more a problem for Pat Robertson when Jody gave birth to our first daughter. That little ray of sunshine should have been her son Matt's and Jody's not Jody's and mine. Then two years later our second child also a girl came into the world which made Pat's problem worse. Jody and I had two kids that should have been Matt's and Jody's instead of Jody's and mine.
What I did not know was that was the day that Pat decided she had to destroy our marriage if Jody was going to be able to give her the grandchildren she wanted. Pat was a woman who did not give up or back down. When she wanted something, she achieved it regardless of the consequences.
During her short walk in life, she had already proved that her greatest mastery was in destroying marriages. She had done it three times. Taking the man, she had trapped into marriage down each time making herself richer because of it while leaving the man she had dominated broke and beaten. That was why most of those who knew her son believed that he was afraid of women. Yes, to most who knew her background she was one scary woman.
She was aided in her plan by the human resources department that promoted her to the assistant administration manager and allow her to promote who she wanted to her former position as a sectional supervisor. This gave Pat Robertson access to every security code the data center had in its system. That was when her long term scheming turned into action. Of course, she picked my wife to step into her shoes.
As a result, a pattern was established by her. She started to send with human resources approval Jody on every training session for management as possible and got her taking courses online to improve her qualifications in the new field. By doing that Pat thought it would speed up the breakup of our marriage because of the time it would take away from she called family responsibilities.
Jody thrilled with the chance of further advancement and self-improvement ate the attention up. That only aggravated Pat even more because I was too supportive of my wife and her new opportunity. Pat had expected that in her eyes I would not have supported her. What Pat failed to understand that as a high school teacher I encouraged everyone to follow their dreams in the educational fields.
One of the new inhouse programs Pat set up overtime was the Thursday night meeting with all sectional supervisors. Since the data center for the blue cross was primarily filled with women it left quite of their husbands totally pissed off. With four section leaders on each floor, there were sixteen females who had their lives routines changed overnight.
The song went on saying 'I'm young, I know but even, so I know a thing or two.' That's what the problem was. What I learned before the truth came out was really an eye-opener.
Slowly one by one the husbands found the name of another one of these husbands who were having their marital lives indirectly affected by the new policy that Pat brought in. We all personally believed that if Pat had of being honest about who and what she was all about. She would have come out and admitted that she was a Butch Dyke.