Author's Note: Editors pointed out my brief description of the couple's first swing encounter in 'Getting Started Ch. 02: Firsts' as insufficient. So, I'm deleting that story and replacing it with this. I've added more to that scene with this Lifestyle version, and I will split that earlier attempt into two chapters.
I've changed category from Erotic Couplings to Loving Wives, since this now deals with extra-marital sex.
Constructive criticism in comments would be appreciated.
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I was sitting at the breakfast table, when Jan came from her morning workout in the basement.
"Do you still want a sci-fi TV night this evening?" Jan asked.
"After last night with our friends? Are you kidding? I thought we'd spend some more time reviewing profiles on the swinger website. I wrote a draft description to post for our own profile. Here, you can read and make any changes you think we need."
I handed her a printout of the draft:
He: Straight, 6 ft 3, 185 lbs
She: Straight, 5 ft 7, 135 lbs
'We are a married, empty-nest couple looking to share the pleasures of life with other couples. She's the talkative, fun-loving extrovert who makes friends easily. He's the more reserved sci-fi geek but enjoys getting out to meet people. Both of us enjoy a wide variety of activities together: traveling, picnics, camping, visiting wineries, and spending time with friends and family. We enjoy sampling the variety life has to offer. We take care of ourselves and exercise, but we aren't obsessive about it. We've been to nudist resorts several times over the past few years, and we enjoy the relaxed atmosphere.
We have an exciting sex life, and we're interested in finding couples for same room, full swap, safe sex. Condoms are a must.'
"Maybe we should ask Fred and June to review it," Jan said. "After all, they have more experience, and recommended this lifestyle website."
"Did you notice June lists herself as Bi-curious?" I asked.
"Yes. I noticed. I'll have to talk to her about that. I'm straight, and I'd prefer we find other couples with straight wives. I'm not interested in finding another pussy to play with. I have my own. I want to borrow their husband's cocks."
"Fred and June said we weren't ready for them anyway, and we need to experience some other couples, before you get Fred's cock."
"His cock did look nice when June was sucking it last night. And yes, I would have done him last night, if they wanted to swap."
"As they both said, they don't want to swap with us until they're sure we can handle it. They want to be our safety net, in case one of us can't deal with it afterwards. So, let's get busy and get you sucking and fucking a few other guys."
"And I want to watch you pleasing other wives, too. I know what you do for me, and I want to watch their legs quiver and toes curl. So, that same room part of the description is non-negotiable."
"You know I like to make you happy. So, I'll fuck other women ... for you," I said as I chuckled.
"Geek! My how you've changed. Are you sure you're ready for this?"
"When I came in June's mouth last night, that was like something out of a porn video."
"Yes. I thought that was a hot scene, too. But it will be different when you see another guy fuck me for the first time."
"I know you had those others when I was away at school. You gave me almost blow-by-blow descriptions of them when we got back together."
"That was a long time ago, and we weren't married. Dating others was your choice too, at the time."
"It was practical due to the distance between us when I went away to the university. And your descriptions of sex with those other guys was exciting, even then."
"If we get together with another couple in this lifestyle, the distance between us won't be hundreds of miles for you to hear about later. It'll be a few feet away. And you'll watch another cock go into me. Are you going to use the L-word with me after that?"
"I'll always L-word you," I said.
After dinner, I connected my laptop to the big screen TV, and we looked at some more profiles on the swinger website.
Most of the public pics we saw had faces hidden for anonymity. It's a prudent move. We wouldn't want our kids, relatives, or co-workers finding out we want to have sex with others. Of course, if anyone did identify us on this web site, that means they're exploring it, too. But there's something about the possibility of our kids reading their parent's sex interests here which seemed uncomfortable.
Jan and I sat together, reading through dozens of the profiles with text descriptions of users likes and wants in the lifestyle. These were all over the place with about every sex activity imaginable! There were plenty of single guys, of course. Some gay, some straight, some Bi, and all races, sizes, and ages. There were a few single women, too, equally diverse. And there were plenty of couples' profiles, showing and describing husbands and wives (or boyfriend/girlfriend) together.
The profile details described interests and desires of everything we could imagine! There were those who wanted to just watch. Those into 'parallel play', couples playing with their own spouse alongside others doing the same. Most couples were into 'full swap', meaning they wanted us to switch spouses. There were descriptions of interests in oral, anal, BDSM, choking, humiliation ... everything! And the surprising part was these weren't people into inflicting things on others. Some people (male or female) wanted to be choked, tied, or humiliated!
This was like an all you can eat (pun intended) buffet of sex!
We also noticed that these user locations were all over the country and around the world. So, while the web site advertised millions of users, geography and travel time to meet anyone would drastically reduce that to a manageable number of potential partners.
We created a new e-mail address we could both access, and we used it as our contact address. This would ensure we both knew what was being said in the e-mails. Jan agreed to the description I wrote earlier, and we selected a few pictures. I used PowerPoint to cover our faces and saved the new edited pictures.
"Now what profile name should we use? How about GeekNBitch?" I asked.
"I may be a bitch, but I'm
your
bitch, not theirs. How about BarbieNGeek?"
"Back at you. I'm your geek, not theirs. But it's accurate. I'll go with that."
We created the profile and posted all of this. We checked a box to block the thousands of single-guy profiles from contacting us. We realized single guys would jump on any offer of sex, anytime, anywhere. I think if we allowed single guys, we could have someone knocking on our door by midnight tonight for a chance to bang Jan.
Then we began to seriously search other profiles to try making contact.
"She has nice tits. Too bad we can't see her face. Do they have any pics of the husband?" Jan asked.
"No. Just four pictures of her tits and shoes."
"Then forget that one. I want to see what I'm getting before we commit."
"Here's one with a husband pic."
"He's 30 years old ... too young. He's almost young enough to be one of our kids."
"How about this one?" I asked.
"They mention BDSM, and I'm not allowing anyone to tie me up to be that vulnerable!" Jan replied.
"You let me tie you up."
"Only sometimes as a novelty. And I allow it because I trust you."
"Here's another, and they're only a few years younger than us," I said.
"He looks nice, show me their other pics."
I clicked through each of their 20 public pictures, most of them showing the wife's body. There were two more of the husband, and one of the two of them together.
"Their profile says they're both straight, and they don't seem to be into anything like BDSM or other fetishes. I'll send them an e-mail to see if they'd like to get together."
Dinner with Mentors