This particular sexual experience had a life-changing impact on me. It produced to an epiphany that I should change my ways.
In my late 20's, I worked in Tokyo for three years and had a lot of different lovers while there. Probably two or three a week the whole time I lived in Tokyo. I had learned basic conversational Japanese so I could converse with the locals comfortably. I was single, completely amoral and loving life.
My seduction success rate in Japan was nearly 100% of the times I tried, something that would NEVER happen back in the USA of course. You see, I had also learned that most Japanese women have a secret fantasy to sleep with a white guy. And I learned all the right things to say to make a Japanese woman feel comfortable and safe enough to fulfill her fantasy with me. It was just too easy. Once they were sure I was "safe" they saw their chance and took it. Nearly every time. This was clearly something they would never have done with a Japanese man. I got laid whenever I wanted with whomever I wanted.
When I left Japan, I moved to Hawaii. And since there were so many Japanese tourists visiting Oahu, whenever I was in the mood for sex, I would simply walk over to Waikiki Beach and find a Japanese woman and apply by skills. I was now always successful, as the Japanese inhibitions are even lessened when they are out of the country and no one in their social circle could ever find out. They even have a phrase to describe this drop in inhibition. Tabi no haji wa kakisute. This literally means, "You feel no shame when you're away from home." I was their perfect shameless opportunity to fulfill a deep-seated fantasy. And I was more than happy to do so.
After I met them at the beach and chatted for a bit, I would invite them for a drink or for a bite to eat, then over the drink I would invite them to come home with me. They always did. Always. Every single time. It worked even if they were traveling with another female friend, as whichever one was the obvious object of my seduction, the other would know it. Or they would make a silent agreement somehow as to who would get lucky. I would ask them both to join me, and then one would always politely say, "I need to go back to the hotel", knowing full well that her friend was going to get her fantasy fulfilled. Great wing women the Japanese.
One day I approached a particularly attractive woman sunbathing on the beach alone. I chatted a bit with her in Japanese, said all the usual things in my routine to make her feel comfortable that I was "normal" and "safe" then asked if she would like to have a drink or lunch. She did not follow the expected template. Instead, she said, "Do you live nearby? Let's go there." Okay... She pulled a tee shirt on over her bikini, stuffed her beach towel into her bag and we were off.
When we got to my apartment I asked if she would like something to drink. She said, "Nothing, thanks," and took off her tee shirt and put it on the counter. I was standing in my kitchen still holding the refrigerator door open, and I suspect my mouth was open too at that point. I was transfixed. I realized she was in control.
She then said, "Can I see your bedroom?" And I think I said "yes" while she removed her top and put that on the counter next to her tee. I took the hint and headed to the bedroom. She was already naked before we got there, and immediately climbed onto my bed.