On a recent Sunday afternoon, we'd slept late, got up, had our coffee. He'd gotten dressed while I was still in my pi's. We talked about what fun we'd had last night, a nice dinner with friends, a little too much wine, and when we got home we both felt so warm we had to relieve the tension.
We didn't do anything too special, just husband and wife doing what we're meant to do for fun. He performed admirably and I'd shown him a good time, too, so we both slept peacefully all tangled up until I woke up, poked him over to his side, and got my jammies on. I remember smiling at him before we went to sleep. He is a good husband.
Anyway, it is our habit to talk about the physical side of our marriage on Sunday afternoons. We try to plan our 'interactions' for the week. It's a lot of fun, but it's serious, too. We discuss how things have been going, what we liked, what we didn't. Relationship issues are off the table, though - this is about sex. We negotiate, you see. Anything can go into the discussion except physical touching - we can give gifts to help things along, but we can't touch. We've learned to enjoy anticipation - waiting for it seems to enhance the pleasure.
"Last night, you took good care of me, boy. Thank you."
He smiled and said, "You were so hot by the time we got home. It's catching, you know."
"I don't know what it was - dinner was fine, but all during the dinner, I just ... wanted you."
He laughed, "I couldn't tell. You seemed a bit quiet, now that I think about it?"
I pulled my pj top closed, "That was lust. I just kept it to myself, at least 'til we got home."
We laughed together, another memory stored away against the winter.
"What about next week?" He's always so anxious, he starts first.
"Well, we already know you get to have me Sunday any way you want me."
"Oh, yes, I'd not remembered..."
"LIAR, you've been looking forward to this for a long time," I swatted him playfully. He caught my hand.
"Now, now, you know the rule. NO touching." I snatched it back.
"Okay. What do you want this week. Can you wait 'til Sunday?"
I pulled my pajama top open, "The question is, can YOU wait 'til Sunday?"
I think he drooled. It's really not fair to show him his playground. I closed the top back.
"Thanks. I think I can wait, no, well, there's one thing I've been meaning to ask you..."
Playfully, I said, "Anything, baby. I'll just wait 'til Sunday, but I'll be teasing you all week like that."
He looked so serious, "I'd like you to get me off with your hand."
"A hand job? That seems so ... simple. So like we were still dating."
"See - you agree it's been a long time. I'd like you to tease me, torture me, you know?"
I grinned, "I bet I could give you one that you'd beg me to repeat in a week or two."
The serious look again. "I'm always scared when I think I've aroused your imagination..."
"Hey, I need to go shopping first. Give me 'til 5, tonight. Two conditions and you can have your hand job this very afternoon."
"Okay, but what are the conditions?"
"When I get home at five, sharp, you are to be naked, waiting on me. Kneel by the door."
"But you'll be late...."
"Hush, it'll be worth waiting for. I want to see red spots on your knees. If you're not hard when I come in, you don't love me."
"Can I ...?"
"NO, don't touch it 'til I get back. I want to see it in it's natural state when anticipating me."
This is utterly silly, but I think it's fun to play, don't you? We naturally drop into these roles and I think we pretty much take turns. It seems even, anyway.
"What's the other condition?"
"After this, no sex 'til Sunday. You'll be in charge, but I want you full and swollen when you begin. I want all your juice this week."
"How will you tell if I cheated, I mean, with myself, of course?"
"You don't know it, but the longer you go between ejaculations, the bigger your thing is when we make love. I'll be able to tell, also, because when you come in me (or on me) it'll be big. Copious, I mean. I love the feeling when..."
"Okay, I can do that. What about you? Are you going to go behind my back this week and, you know...?"
"You can say 'masturbate', silly, it won't hurt my feelings or cause me to swoon. The answer is 'Yes', but I won't do it behind your back - you'll be watching me come all week. You just can't join me in the fun. You're officially being teased."
"That's not fair. Can I touch you?"
"When I say so, yes, but neither of us can touch your thing. That stays mine all week."
"Deal. Run on - see you at five."