It took her six months to convince me.
As she said, "A few little encounters to help us enjoy our sex life even more.
What she meant was she wanted us to join her older sister, Rita, and Rita's play mates in game of selection. Selection meaning the women would select the man that would take her home and spend the night. You know sexual swinging.
I was opposed from the beginning but over time and especially in bed when we were making love and Cyd (for Cecelia) telling me about all the women I could have if I just said the word.
At least once a day, a well built and good looking young woman would be pointed out and Cyd would say, "That one is a member."
"How do you know"
"Rita has pictures all the members."
She also pointed out girls that I had trouble believing were over eighteen.
"Honey, she looks maybe sixteen."
Cyd laughed, "She is nineteen and in her second year of college. She shows up about every fourth meeting."
"I need to talk to Rita."
On Friday night, Rita and I meet over my kitchen table. Cyd gave us space and was off to somewhere.
I started, "How often are these meetings?"
"Once a month on the third Saturday night."
"How do you alert the members if the party is cancelled?"
"By email. I have an encrypted file on my phone."
"How many people will be there?"
"It varies. There is always fifteen to twenty but now and then fifty will show up."
"What if there are too many men? Or women?"
"If women are in the majority, two can join together and pick a man if they agree on the man. If men are in the majority, a woman can pick two men. Women always have the choice. If a woman sees nothing she wants, she will leave. If selected, a man can always say he has a date already."
"How can he have a date already?"
"We have a password protected web site. Women can arrange dates before the party. Members may post comments and pictures."
"What about rules of conduct?"
"Women have the choice of the men and the sex acts. Men may ask the woman for, say anal, but she has the choice. If a man demands anything from a woman that she finds objectionable, she makes a complaint and on the second complaint he is out. Women can accept suggestions and even demands if she desires."
"Are all the members married?"
"Most of the men are married or widower. There are several women who are single or divorced. Some of the married men will show up without their wife."
"How des the selection process work?"
"Each member who will be in attendance must call in noon and two o'clock on the Saturday of the meeting. There will be a bulletin boards near the entry way. Pink tags for women and blue tags for men. Selection can be as simple has taking a name from the board."