Ever since we first started fucking, Joyce and I always seemed to be at different levels. I was a virgin when we met, but she was experienced. I could never get enough of fucking her to catch up for all the missed times. I was 18 years old before I had my first fuck, whereas Joyce started fucking when she was 15 years old, and our daughter seemed to follow in her mothers step as she also started at that age. But daughters' sex life is another story.
Sex was always great while we were dating, and there was never enough times to have it, but after a few years of marriage, and a few kids, Joyce had lost a lot of desires for sex. She was a good wife, even if she was not in the mood for sex, she would still let my desires have their way. Many a time when I would want to fuck her, but she would not be in the mood, I would start to act like a little child and beg her to fuck with me. If this failed I would then give her the old "well if you don't want to fuck, can you just lay down and let me fuck," which eventually she would out of love for me.
At one point, about 5 years into the marriage, I was always horny and wanting sex, but she was just not interested in having it more than 2 or 3 times a week. I would be asking for it as often as twice a day. After all, she had one fantastic body and had great looks as well. She surprised me one day (after letting me have sex for breakfast and again for lunch, I asked again for supper) when she said, "Please! Go and get yourself a lover and leave me alone! Just don't tell me if you do"
No I did not want to take a lover as I had already started cheating on her after one year of marriage. Nothing on a regular basis mind you, just the occasional drunken one-night stands etc., but her words made me glow with desire and wanting her even more. How could a guy be so lucky as to have this offered on a plate to him? The strange thing was, once she had begged me to take a lover, I no longer wanted to have others! It was not long after this that my sexual desires started to wane.
For the next 6 months neither of us really wanted sex often, but did still have it purely for the "marital" reasons, both thinking that "we must" or risk being thought of as cheating on the other. It was around this time that Joyce started to slowly get more and more sexually aroused and wanting sex on a more regular basis. She seemed to begin to crave for sex, but I was still in a state of not needing or wanting it. This continued for another 5 years. It was not till many years later that I understood that she had taken many a lover herself during those years, but that also is another story, hahahah!
Well after 10 years of marriage and the many different desires of us both, we found ourselves in a state of both being bored with our own sex lives, and we sat down and talked openly about our dilemmas. Over the years together we had faced many family and financial problems as well as the ordinary day to day ones, and once we started to open to each other and tell of our "hidden desires and dreams", we spoke honestly about our feelings and needs. Joyce and I confided in each other that we both had hidden desires of having an "open marriage" where we could each take a partner, or have 3-some, 4-some, or more sums.
I understood that as a guy it would be harder for me to find a willing female to join us, then for her to find a willing guy, and we both agreed that maybe at the start it would have to be MFM for some time before we (I) got a chance at a FMF night. She was reluctant at first as she wanted to try another female and watch me fucking another, but she understood the "logistics" of this type of thing. We started by advertising in the "Personal" Columns of the local papers, as well as leaving an advert on the notice board of the local sex shop. It did not take long to get many replies.
As we had a private mailbox, we had the opportunity to stay anonymous, and to take our time to peruse the willing respondents to our advertising. We spent many hours and days sifting through them, as well as the photos that they sent (this was a pre-request in our advert). The funny thing was the one we selected had no photo, nothing much about himself (or his wife), but was such a strange, yet funny letter, that we felt we just had to meet him, so I rang the number he gave.
His name was Peter, he was a Doctor, was married with 2 kids, but his wife had some major sexual and emotional problems, so there was rarely any sex. Him and I spoke for about an hour on the phone and then Joyce spoke to him for a short time and we decided to all meet up.
Feeling safe and secure in our own home we decided to invite him there. He was older by maybe 6 to 8 years than both of us (Joyce and I are only 3 months apart in age), but he seemed so natural and relaxed, as well as humorous, that we quickly became friends. The problem was; we became such good friends it was many, many weeks before anyone of us broached the subject of sex.
I'm not sure who it was, but think it was maybe me, who began the topic. The three of us were sitting at the table having a coffee and a chat (like we did maybe 3 times a week) when the subject of "Extramarital Sex, and the reason we were all together" arose. Yes, come to think of it, it was me that started that side of things.
So, the "forbidden" subject had finally been brought to the fore, and we all approached it sheepishly. And I should point out here that the meeting between Peter and Joyce was purely for a "2-some" with my consent. I first asked Peter if he still was interested, and if he felt Joyce turned him on enough to have his attention. He was sheepish with his reply, but said he certainly thought she was a great, sexy looking woman and he would love to have the chance if she and I agreed. I then asked Joyce the same question about Peter and she replied; "I have been wanting to fuck him since I first met him!"
Now, we were in a house where there were 3 bedrooms, but there was also a "granny room" on the back, so it was decided that it would all take place there, away from the marital bed. After another very jumpy and nervous (by Peter) 20 minutes, I said, "well if you two are going to fuck each other, you better get started before I change my mind". They both began to laugh, and this maybe was the beginning of their relaxed and ready state. I showed them to the room and bid them farewell and hoped they had fun, and to take their time and enjoy each other.
Now I can tell you this for sure, that was no easy thing to do, for I was as jealous as hell that she was going to have sex with him while I was sitting in the kitchen alone, wondering what he had and how well he used it, and if she would want him afterwards, more than me. It was a very strange and scary time for me, but one that I had to endure if I wanted the chance to be able to have open and honest sex with other women. I understood that it was also best for her to start first so that she could never get angry with me fucking another woman!
Joyce and Peter had been in the "other room" for almost an hour, when suddenly the phone rings. I was surprised when I answered, to find it was Peter ringing! My God! What has happened? Has he killed her and run off and decided now to gloat? It seemed like forever before those thoughts left my brain, and he started to talk to me, but was in fact only a few moments. He said; "Sorry mate, I can't do this. We have been talking about this for the whole time, and we both agree it does not seem right that you are sitting in there and we are out here. You must be full of worry and doubt and scared as hell as to what we are doing". And he was very exact in what he had just said to me.
I had indeed been going out of my mind in the last 30 minutes. He then shocked me by saying; "we both decided that you should come and be here while this happens so you know all is OK and nothing bad is happening to Joyce". FUCK! Was he for real? I could not believe this, he (and my wife) was asking me to come and watch them fuck!
I pondered this request a few minutes before I decided that maybe it would be very, very interesting to see how she would react to me watching her. I guess I was secretly hoping that she would be so scared that nothing would happen between them, and all that had happened was they had seen each other naked. I was wrong! When I arrived in the room at the back, they were sitting on the bed still fully clothed! They beckoned me to take a seat (the room only had a double bed, 1 seat and a dresser), which I nervously obliged.
First Peter, then Joyce, told me how they had talked, kissed, talked, touched each other through clothing, then talked again, but admitted that first Joyce was scared because her husband was next door, then Peter because he said his friend was next door, and that they both felt it wrong that I should sit there and worry and wonder. I asked what was wrong and how could I help them to feel better. I was totally shocked and unprepared for Joyce's response!
She said; "I would feel better if you were here and watching, so you never have to question me, or wonder as to how much I enjoyed or disliked this.
Damn! This shook me to my boots! It took me a few minutes to ponder this request. On one hand I did not want or need to see another guy fucking my wife, but on the other hand, I had always liked watching VCR Porno's, so why not watch my wife getting fucked by another guy? After all, I had fucked her for years but never actually seen what she looked like being fucked! So I agreed.