This is a story about an encounter with a guy named Drew that Jen and I had. This story takes place about a month after Jen got her first and only sensual/erotic massage. But this story begins a few weeks prior to Jen receiving her massage.
When Jen decided that she wanted to get a sensual massage, she said that because this was not the normal type of massage that she usually gets, she wanted to know who the person was that would be giving her the massage before she got it. She wanted to make sure that she was attracted to them, that she liked their personality, and most importantly, that they could give a good massage and that they knew what they were doing and had done it before. Those were her criteria.
In order to make sure that we got someone who Jen approved of, I went online and met a bunch of different people and chatted with them. I narrowed it down to a few different candidates, and Jen decided that we should meet with each of those people in person before getting a massage. The person who we liked the most based on conversations was a guy named Drew. Based on his photos, he seemed to be a handsome guy that Jen liked, and when he was texting with me, he seemed to have a good personality. So, we decided to arrange a meeting with him, and we picked a weeknight and got a babysitter for the kids and we went out. We met him at a local bar/restaurant about a five-minute walk from our home.
We met up at the bar pretty late. The bar closed at 11 o'clock, and we met around 9:45. We got there first, and then Drew came in. We were sitting in a booth that had two seats on one side and a bench on the other side. Jen and I were sitting side by side in the two seats, and Drew came in and was sitting across from us on the bench. We started a friendly conversation -- there was no awkwardness at all, and I could tell right away that Jen was immediately attracted to his look. He looks very similar to Frank Grillo, who is a popular actor on TV shows and movies. He had very thick black hair and neatly trimmed facial hair, and he was the type of look that Jen found attractive.
Drew was very pleasant to talk to and converse with. He was telling us about how he was brought up and where he was from. We engaged in enjoyable conversation that wasn't sexually involved or detailed. It was just a good conversation as if we were having friends for a long time. That conversation led to Drew saying how happy he was to have met us and that he could tell based on his interactions with me alone that we could be friends.
He was forthcoming and outgoing, but he did admit that he doesn't really know how to give massages. He's not a professional, and he's not even an amateur masseur. He's given a couple of massages to girlfriends, but he said that he wanted to see if he could be in contention, so that's why he said he gave massages. He figured that if he were chosen to give the massage, he would go on YouTube and do research and figure out the best way to give a massage. We appreciated his honesty, and we laughed at that, because we were all getting along well.
Around 10:30 or so, maybe about 45 minutes after our conversation began, Jen had to go to the bathroom. She left for a couple of minutes, and Drew asked me how I thought it was going.
I told him it was going very well, that the conversation was good, and that I could tell Jen was into him. He was happy to hear that.
Jen came back from the bathroom and said to me, "You know, I've been sitting on your side the whole night. Do you mind if I sit next to Drew?"
And I said, "No, go for it." So, she sat next to Drew, and we continued the conversation.
After a few minutes sitting next to Jen, Drew said, "You're so close to me, and you smell so good. Do you mind if I kiss you?"
And Jen said, "No, I don't mind at all."
Drew pulled Jen closer to him and they started making out and kissing. We were in a booth, and it was pretty close to closing time, so there was no one looking at us, but they were really going at it and kissing a lot, and there was a lot of PDA.
In the middle of it, Drew took Jen's hand and put it on his crotch and said, "Look what you're doing to me." Jen told me after that Drew was very hard, and she could definitely feel him, and he felt pretty big and hard.
After their makeout session we chatted for another few minutes and then decided to leave. The place was closing, and we said goodbye to Drew, and said that we'd all keep in touch, and before he left, we made a chat group on an app called Telegram that we would communicate on, and we said goodbye. He left, and we went back to our place.
Jen told me that she really enjoyed meeting with him and that she thought he was a nice and a good-looking guy. But she said that she definitely did not see him as the type of guy who would be giving her a massage, so we should still look for that person. She told me though that she did see him as a potential sexual partner in an MFM type situation, and that she would be into being with him in an MFM, which was really cool because she was pretty forthright and outright about that, and she usually is pretty discriminating when it comes to choosing a sexual partner. It was nice for me to see that she was actually thinking of him in that context.
We continued our conversation on text with Drew, and he sent Jen a couple of unsolicited dick pics a couple of times, which to me is a little bit of a turn-off. But he said to her, "I just wanted to show you how hard you made me and how I think about you, and I jerk off to you often, and I can't wait to actually see you again."
And while she thought that dick pics were a little bit gross, she was really happy that he was interested in her and was pursuing her. Because, with Jen, more than anything, she wants to feel wanted, and she was definitely feeling wanted by Drew.
Fast forward - Jen had her massage about two weeks after our meeting with Drew, and we were still in contact and still texting each other.
Jen said, "You know what, we should all meet up again for some possible fun."
We started trying to work out a date with Drew, but the scheduling and the schedule was difficult for him and for us. He was traveling a lot for work, and we had our kids that we had to figure out arrangements for, but ultimately, we figured out a date that would work for both of us. It was a Friday night, and we made plans for our kids to sleep at their friends' houses. We set up a date for Friday night, which would start with dinner and drinks at another local restaurant, and then we said that if things went well, which we assumed they would, we would go back to our place for the rest of the night. This was the first time that we would actually have someone that we didn't know well come over to our place to do this sort of thing. The only other time was when we had a mutual friend sleeping over, and he ended up having sex with Jen in our place after I had left for the day. But we made a plan with Drew and felt comfortable about the arrangement.
A few days before the Friday date that we had set, I got notice that I needed to partake in a client dinner. The client's dinner was about two hours away from our home. I wouldn't be able to get away with not going, and it was on the Friday that we were all supposed to get together. So, I discussed it with Jen, and we came to the conclusion that because she had a comfort level with Drew, even though she only met him once in person, she felt that it would be okay if she does dinner and drinks without me and then I can meet them back at our home when they get there.