After 2 years or so, some boredom started creeping in and we decided, we have to do something different. We started having sex by seeing porn, then we tried role-play. We will call out some imaginary names and start fucking. We would also take videos of our act and watch them later. My wife will discuss jokingly that she and I should have sex in front of some one. We never had the chance although. I also would tell her we both should go to some nude beach without any clothes and roam around. She would simply say yes although she knew that it is practically not possible. Once my wife wanted to get her cloth stitched into a salwar. She had put down weight that time and hence she did not have another set of salwar for measurement. So she asked the tailor to measure her. I was standing in front of her and tailor was measuring her. When he was measuring her on her chest he placed his tape right in the middle of her breasts. My wife was fully dressed. She was very cool, although I got aroused a bit. So that day I decided that my wife would not mind some one touching her for some purpose. We would be nude in the house for hours and hours and then try having sex. We used to open the window and have sex. We had once in the balcony and also many times in the terrace in moon light. We use to bath together. These experiences kept our sex life interesting for a while, however after a couple of years even those things didn't keep us really excited.
My wife jokingly said one day during our sex session that it is really boring to have sex with the same man and see the same cock getting inserted. Somehow this gave me some confidence that she wants to try out with another person. I asked her the next day, was she serious over that option of having sex with another man. She said she was just joking to keep us aroused.
Then one day both of us had this conversation in bed during a sex session and my wife said the same thing. Then I asked her why not we try. She said I am shy and I cannot do with the other person and she does not want to cheat on her husband. I told her we will look for a couple for swinging and we will both have sex with the couple with mutual consent. This will keep us excited. I told her. She said no initially. Then I spoke the same thing again for another 4 or 5 days and assured her that because of swapping partners I am not going to have any issues and we will continue our routine life as it is. Then finally she agreed.
However there were some things we wanted to be cautious on like we don't want to swap with strangers. We would want to do it only with close friends who agree for this. The other couple should be attractive enough for us. Neither of the couple should trouble the other one. So we made this agreement and started to do some search. However somehow we were not interested in having web-cam chat and choose the couple since most of them we met were interested in seeing everything at the first time itself. I mean they were really hurrying up for seeing us nude, which we did not like at all. We were really waiting for a known couple who were attractive.
Part 2 will be following soon.