I am the wife in a solid couple.
At 37yo I look like a classic "girl next door" with a very wholesome personality to accompany my look, and I am the mother of three.
My husband Andrew is 43 years old.
The adventure began for us (very small) a few months after we got married when I was 23.
I had no idea I would like this and had no idea how far it could or would go.
Each time things progressed a little, it was a learning experience for both of us until I became a hot wife. And what a hot wife!
Today, I tell other couple who confess this fantasy that they must take it in small steps. For us, these steps (not planned) happened as follows:
First, was the discovery that Andrew liked other men looking at me.
This occurred truly by accident before marriage.
We were in a shop and I was trying lingerie in a dressing room. The curtain did not close completely and Andrew noticed a guy edging closer to my dressing room and then figured out he was watching me change.
I did not realize that I was being watched as I tried on several bras. Rather than say anything he watched the other guy enjoy my show. I could not believe how turned on Andrew was knowing that another guy saw me near naked. My future husband's desire to show me off was born.
He told me it turned him on and that he wanted me to do it again, only this time on purpose.
I said no, but the seed was planted and he continued to try to persuade me to showoff. It needed a lot of talking and fucking as I never went that far but at end I was able enough to do it on a secluded little beach near home.
Apart from a few other couples nobody was present and the girls were all topless or even nude, so I also shed my top and got some eyeful from men as my boobs are rather heavy. I liked it and before summer came to end I also plunged in the nude. It happened only four months after marriage.
This was a first step and my husband progressed with convincement so my skirts went shorter and my bra remained frequently in the lingerie drawer during evenings with friends.
He started also to ask me about my previous boyfriends. I had a few and hearing at me talking about George, or Paul, or Tom or John (their names) seemed really fascinating for him. I had complete sex with two of them only (Paul and John) but a little story about Paul with me jacking him off in the back of his mom's car and me wrapping my lips around his cock to catch all of his sperm so as not to make a mess especially made my husband over excited.
We started to role play during our sex sessions with Andrew pretending to be another guy fucking me.
The following spring we planned a road trip to visit relatives (my aunt who was some 200 miles far).
We had a big station wagon.
I was relaxing on the passenger seat with my feet on the dashboard.
We talked quietly as Andrew noticed a truck driver kept pace with us. I realized he was looking at my legs and we joked a little about it.
My husband told me, pull your skirt up higher so he could see more.
I smiled to my husband and lift my skirt up uncovering my panties as the driver could see. He honked and my husband encouraged me to show even more.
The play excited me, my heart was racing and I felt almost sick to my stomach.
I was so nervous but there and then I realized that I liked showing off.
Deep-breathing I raised my t-shirt up.
I was braless and the driver had a full view of my boobs. He honked at length and my husband went on encouraging as I stirred my nipples with fingers.
Before this encounter ended, I had removed my t-shirt completely and had lifted the skirt over my hips. I spread my legs and pushed my panties to the side showing trucker my hairy pussy.
My husband still claims to this day that he had no idea I'd done this and the play ran out of his hands.
Anyway, this started it all.
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Over the next several years, we had many discussions about jealousy. We talked about how people secure in their relationship should be that way and that spending time with someone of the opposite sex and even enjoying some of the butterflies that comes with flirting shouldn't be denied. At 24 I had my first baby then we began slow, incremental set of steps that only now can I look back on and recognize.
We were both turned on by other men looking at me, and by them flirting with me. With my comfortable flirting (something that comes naturally to me) and a security that I felt I could do it and share it with my husband. Flirting became more intense and more overt. As I told my husband about these instances, he encouraged me to go on with the play.
At the time I ran a store with another girl and I allowed "accidental" views to UPS guys who had no idea I did on purpose and led two lecherous clients (older men) to pinch my bottom.
One of them lifted my skirt and felt my ass in the back of the store as I giggled and slapped his hands.
Relating my husband stories about men looking at me, and what I led them see (usually deep cleavage from loose tops or panties from short skirts) was great, but in that period Richard, a business agent who came to store on Wednesday, appeared on the scene.
He was very handsome and shameless.
With him my flirting became more overt and less covert. He posed me a steady court and I flirted him back but at first I would turn him down telling that this was going "too far" when he passed me naughty remarks. Later I accepted some lunch dates from him, and after an agreement with my husband, some dinner dates.
I would encourage each small step like letting him hold my hand or kiss me. I really enjoyed the whole thing but continued to be nervous about doing anything.
With Richard things progressed slowly from a quick kiss to kissing, kissing to light petting, each time a bit more. In a month or two we passed at light petting in the back of his car. I was on fire and felt like a teenager again getting groped and kissed.
The big day came when Richard told me that he'd been dumped by his girl friend. I felt bad for him and asked my husband what if I invited Richard over to hang out and watch a video at home. He agreed and encouraged me to wear a loose fitting sweatshirt I had with no bra. He told me to "cheer" Richard up a bit that way in his absence.
I just smiled and in a coy way said "we'll see" with the intent of teasing him but not really thinking of having complete sex with Richard.
Hubby was working nights and left home at 6 pm and I prepared me for Richard showering and making up my face. Then I got dressed. As planned with my husband I had worn the sweatshirt and had forgone the bra.
At 8 pm Richard arrived dead in time.
We talked for a while and ate something then I put my baby in bed and started the movie.
At first we sat next to each other on the couch, but he snuggled into the corner and pulled me against him. He started caressing my arm, playing with my hair and spent an hour touching me in very non-sexual areas each time getting closer and closer to my breasts.