There are lots of men who fantasize about their wives having sex with another man but very few will allow them experiment or experience new things.
Things for me are different I am happy to say, but this is only because Steve has encouraged me to explore my sexuality, there are times I like to tease and there are times when I like to 'let loose'.
Over the years I have become accustomed to men of all ages stealing glances, sometimes openly staring at me and I am sure most of the guys we know love hanging out at our home because they get an excuse to do just that but hey, I am a born exhibitionist and love the attention.
But they know when the mood is right for some fun and when I just want a laugh and a quiet drink and understand there are 'rules' which mean they do what I want them to and nothing more...which is very erotic in itself, I love being in charge.
It's flattering when a younger man takes a second glance as you walk past, even nicer when a guy you've come to know develops a crush and even nicer when he is shy, polite and well spoken with no intention of making his desires known.
Steve says from the first night I met William, a young twenty year old guy who worked at our good friend Jakes firm, he was utterly smitten.
He thinks it is because I am so at ease around the guys that I don't expect anything that I laugh and have fun...then he spoilt it by adding "Oh and your ass, his eyes never leave your ass." I thumped him in the arm for his trouble.
William is an intelligent guy with an excellent career but a complete moron when it came to women. He is actually good looking and keeps fit but had been sheltered from the wider world by his father and mother, so his social skills are zero. His dad put so many restrictions on what he could and could not do that he has little experience with girlfriends; they were seen as a 'distraction' while he was studying.
It had taken a few months but William had gradually become more comfortable around me, for a start he was less likely to blush if he saw me in my bikini, something the other guys had found amusing until I pointed out they were being complete dicks.
I hate to think how red he would be if he had seen me naked like some, (most!) of the other guys had, then smiled wickedly to myself as I wondered how he would react if he was part of our 'games.'
Just three weeks later I was able to find out.
William was living in our guest house (Ok, the small den over the garage) for a week as a favour to Jake who had been renting him a room until he could secure a deposit for a flat. Jake was having some friends over and asked if we could let William stay while he had guests because there wasn't room for everyone at his place.
On days we are working late Steve and I meet up in town for a meal, I rang William to tell him that we would be late back and that he was welcome to stay in the main house if he felt like watching a DVD as the guest house did not have a DVD player.
It was around 1:00 AM when we got in, Steve had persuaded me to try a few cocktails, neither of us drinks much but I decided what the heck as he was driving so I was a little wobbly but very happy.
Kicking off my shoes I went into the living room to see what William was watching.
As I walked over to where he was lounging on the sofa, I could tell that I wasn't the only one who had been drinking, for one I could smell it, two he was in a sullen mood and three when I asked him what was on his mind he said.
"Girls, I know you shouldn't to expect sex on every date or with every girl but I've not even had a hand job...ever... even that would be a change...and it would save me from doing it myself when I get in from a date just to keep my balls from aching."
Without going red he had just admitted to a failed date and masturbating so I knew he had drunk more than a few beers.
Steve laughed and winked at me,
"Its late so let me get some coffee."
He continued to laugh his head off as he walked to the kitchen.
He was gone about fifteen minutes; I had flopped down on the sofa as William had relocated to the floor opposite, where he sat nursing a bottle of bud, I don't think he realised he was being so obvious as his gaze drifted over my legs, my dress had ridden up a little as I had sat down and a good deal of thigh was showing.
Because of the mood he was in I just had to tease him.
"See anything you like?"
He blushed, but not the deep red that he usually went.
I pushed further seeing how he would react if I made the conversation 'ruder,' a little tingle danced around my belly making me shift a little in my seat.
"So you would settle for a hand job then?"
He looked up wide eyed and before he realised what he was saying asked,
"What, from you?"
This time he went deep red, jumping as Steve set the coffee down on the table and joked.
"Did you just ask my wife for that desperately needed wank?"
He stuttered, something he only does under extreme stress...or on dates.
"Oh no I'm so sorry, I would never want that."
"Why not you like her don't you?" Steve said.
He was stuck for words and could only shrug and nod a 'yes.'
Steve winked at me as he passed my coffee. "So basically if I had been working late you would have tried for a hand job at the least, but hoping with a little luck you might have gotten laid?"
"No way," he cried, "A hand jobs not like...you know...real sex."
Steve frowned. "How do you figure that one out?"
"If it's just a hand job then I'm the only one getting off."
As I said before, he has the social skills of a rock, I couldn't help smirking.
"Sorry William, but women get just as turned on touching guys as guys do touching girls." I said.
William shuffled a little; obviously the thought had made him uncomfortable in the trouser department.
"Okay Jules, let's calm down the chatter, Poor William over there is about ready to have some very sticky pants so don't be cruel." Steve laughed.
After the 'naughty chatter' cocktails and shots, I had quite a buzz. William was a little fuzzy but far from hammered and it seemed between the talk and the coffee he was becoming a little more awake, I just kind of grinned as Steve said.
"Jules why don't you just give the poor guy a hand job, as he say's it's not like real sex and we won't have to hear him complaining about not getting any."