Perhaps you've seen my Donna at the clubs on a Friday or Saturday night. She's the beautiful blonde woman, mature, in control, and dressed to kill in provocative dresses and stiletto heels. She's the classy lady wearing the "little black dress" revealing most of her shapely legs and her ample breasts. You see her, the one that's sitting on the bar stool revealing her panty-less crotch and exposing her shaved vagina. Her unrestrained nipples are swollen under the thin black material making you want to fondle her breasts. You notice that her flirting has made her the center of attention, and she is completely un-intimidated by any group of guys who are taking a strong interest in her or looking down her cleavage for a glimpse of her nipples or areola.
You then realize that her left hand, which is rubbing the crotch of one of her admirers, wears a wedding band and a large engagement ring. Her right ankle, which is softly rubbing against the leg of another man, wears a single ankle bracelet. If you could examine it closely, you would read the engraving, "HotWife". She is your dream girl, a goddess, a movie star, and the "girl next door" all in one and your erection begins to rise in your trousers. You make your way through the other admirers and run your hand along her smooth silky leg, across her thigh, easing up until your finger comes to rest on her silky slit. She stares into your lustful eyes and allows you to probe further into her channel. You have just met my "HotWife" Donna.
As she makes her way out of the lounge, escorted by a new friend or two, you notice that she smiles knowingly to a handsome gentleman who had been watching the whole scene from afar...her husband. The hot wife lifestyle is one in which the husband enjoys having a wife who freely engages in sexual encounters with other men. The husband's complete trust in his wife is fundamental for him to accept a hot wife arrangement. It is understandable that this arrangement can appeal to women with a polygamous nature, but it is far from obvious why so many husbands are genuinely into this seemingly unfair arrangement.
The husband is turned on by his wife's adultery, whether this happens as part of a heterosexual threesome where she first has sex with her lover and then her husband, or if the husband is not present during her adventure, waits impatiently for his wife to come home from her date so that he can make love to her. You are forgiven if you wrongly believe that the husband is hoping for his wife to reaffirm to him that only he can truly satisfy her sexually. No, her husband gets more excited the more the wife enjoys her extramarital lovers! The more fulfilled his wife is sexually, the more gratification the husband receives.
When my hot wife, Donna, is back in my arms, she will often graphically describe the intensity of the orgasms she has just experienced with you or the other men, or scene by scene tell me about her encounter, detail by detail, during our lovemaking or petting at home. I become excited and aroused by my wife's details, which we may use as foreplay to our own lovemaking later.
Scott's Perspective
I've been "sharing" my wife, Donna, for over 15 years. We've been doing this with a high school friend of mine who has remained a dear friend of ours. He's been divorced from his wife for over 10 years now. Not only is our friend a great guy friend of mine, he and I love the NFL, hunting, camping, etc. He has a deep and caring relationship with my wife. Donna was a borderline nymphomaniac 15 years ago and he was a key part of her recovery to a normal swinging sex life. He did it with no motive besides worrying about her well being in becoming a sex addict. Does my wife and our friend love each other? Without question! But not as in marital love. They love each other as dear friends. Hell, I love the guy too! So why do I share my wife with him? Because they make each other feel good. I like the fact that someone else finds my wife attractive and sexy (which she is).
It adds a difficult-to-describe spice to the sex I have with my wife. I am not threatened by any of this. In fact I encourage it. My wife and I make love four times a week on average, and it's always fantastic! Both my wife and I like the fact that her body has responded sexually with others. There are times I am inside of her and I get a surge of passion with the thought that just last week someone else was inside of her, his shaft sliding in and out of her vaginal passage. It must have felt so good! My wife and our male friends actually make love. They don't just "fuck" her. They care for each other far too much to do that. Does she want them instead of me? No way! Do they want to steal her from me? No way! Most of them have their own wife or girlfriend. Do they want to give each other intimate sexual pleasure? Hell yes! The sexual pleasure they experience with each other heightens the sex Donna and I have with each other.
Over the last 18 years I'd say I was NOT witness to my wife's sex 75% of the time. Yes, I've watched them. Many times I've even taken part. But it's too raw and distracting for everyone. When I've watched them, the two of them make love just like she and I do. They don't restrict themselves to simple, pussy pounding intercourse, I've actually watched him on top of her, holding her hips, kissing her face and mouth, whispering to her, telling her how good she feels - she wordlessly gasping back to him. I've watched the two of them cum together at the same instant, both of them simultaneously pumping out their orgasms on each other, kissing passionately, thrusting their hips towards each other, and then quietly laying on top of each other for 5 minutes afterwards, the two of them gently kissing and hugging, he lightly touching and fondling her breasts in their orgasmic aftermath.