New friends have their roles exchanged
[Friendships acknowledged]
My husband and I grabbed a rare weekend away. Ideally, this would become more regular again now that our daughter is in high school and capable of staying home alone. One activity we enjoyed during our early dating was hiking and camping. We used to do wilderness backpacking but for this weekend we chose a state park with a wonderfully romantic Inn.
We drove down Thursday after work and had a pleasant evening together in the Inn. We always had a strong connection, yet as expected, alone time has not always been a priority in recent years. Even with only one child our commitments often consume our energies. Our marriage remained strong even after the affection waned with competing interests.
But tonight was tender and intense. Mike, who is always exhausted after a long week, showed a good willingness to relax and focus. Our sex is typically nothing special and is quite routine. He gives me a backrub, I touch him until he is aroused, and we fuck for ten minutes until he comes. It may not be adventurous but I do enjoy it. I hope with more time together like this weekend, we might explore more adventure and break some of our routines. I wish it wasn't my role to push us sexually but at least Mike is amenable. It isn't that he doesn't enjoy sex. It's just that he is more content than I with a few routine times a month.
We showered in the morning with flirting that didn't lead to sex. Nothing unusual as we were excited to get outdoors and explore the park. This location had trails in every direction with several large waterfalls and rock formations. We headed out for a morning hike.
Instead of packing food, we relied on the restaurant at the Inn for lunch. It was this first lunch that we met our new friends; Brad and Valerie. They exited the trail just behind us and we saw them go up to their room on our floor. We cleaned up briefly then headed down to the cafeteria. It was there that we ran into Brad and Valerie at the entrance.
"Good morning, did you two have a nice hike?", Brad energetically greeted us. "We kept seeing you on the trails ahead of us this morning. Not that we were spying." Brad seemed like a joker and quite gregarious.
"Oh, we saw you exit the trails just behind us but didn't see anyone else all morning. Hope we didn't slow you up? We probably seemed to meander a bit as we were enjoying the incredible scenery" I typically engage strangers during introductions as Mike is somewhat reserved when first meeting people.
Brad further introduced himself and Val, assuring us the hiking proximity didn't hinder their experience.
After the normal pleasantries and introductions, Brad took the initiative and asked us to join them for lunch. Like us, they had no set plans this weekend and their agenda was quite fluid. Brad was very comfortable meeting new people. Their relationship seemed so similar to us. Mike isn't necessarily that romantic and has appreciated me guiding our social life. I was sure he didn't really expect a private lunch today.
Brad looked at Valerie for tacit approval as we accepted the offer. I shared our excitement as it is seldom for us to get away and spend time with other adults.
And with that, we had lunch with new friends. Over lunch we discovered the similarities extended broader. Brad and Valerie also have one daughter in high school. As I suspected, Brad is outgoing while Valerie is more reserved. For the most part, Brad and I dominated the conversation with Mike and Valerie responding to questions when engaged.
"I love these parks", Brad commented at the end of lunch. "We used to come here often so this is like a return to our single days. We were planning to explore the west trails this afternoon. If you two don't have other plans would you be interested in joining us?"
Mike surprisingly accepted the offer before I could. It was an unusual engagement for him. I wasn't sure if he was afraid of an afternoon with just me or if he enjoyed the lunch conversation that much.
I saw Valeria smile. She was cute. She had a natural beauty that seemed hidden behind a quiet veneer. I personally run and work out as much as possible but Valerie looked like she was at risk of letting herself go. I attributed this to a difference in personality. While I tended to get outdoors for exercise and socialization, Valerie admitted she tended to be an inside book person.
For the early afternoon we walked as couples and stopped frequently to take pictures. Val considered herself to be an avid photographer. It changed our pace a bit as she was contemplative when taking pictures. Brad on the other hand was more about living in the moment. He demonstrated comfort in enjoying the present and letting the experiences develop, while Val seemed to hold onto moments with her pictures.
Mike understood Val. "I am very much the same way", Mike affirmed. I have never tried to hold Emily back as she just dives into new experiences. It would be like tugging the reins of a young filly if I ever tried." Val affirmed Mike's understanding of our dynamics. She shared how long it took them to find a balance in their personalities.
Mike and Valerie kept up a conversation which was quite rare for Mike. Brad and I, as expected, were just talking and sharing in-depth. Eventually the walking situation with Mike and me upfront was noticeably a problem so we naturally adjusted our pattern with Valerie moving upfront with Mike while I moved to the back with Brad. It seemed best to let Mike and Valerie control the speed since they were the ones to keep stopping and looking; always staying on the path. Brad and I were jumping from conversation to conversation with a natural energetic rhythm. We were constantly leaving the path to see some new view and to avoid standing and waiting for Mike and Valerie.
We all commented on how much fun this was and how well we were all matched. Brad made the first observation. "It's almost like we swapped hiking partners". We all laughed both at the topic of swapping and at the accuracy of the observation. The afternoon was extremely fun.
That night Mike was driven in bed. Something about that day sparked him. The normal backrub included way more foreplay and unique touching. And while the sex wasn't any longer, he thrust with a new sense of energy. I reciprocated with more head and touching as a reward. I welcomed any opportunity to encourage Mike in longer sex; or at least creativity.
We had already made arrangements to hike with Brad and Val again on Friday. Our structure followed the same pattern: Brad and I explored side trails while Mike and Val stopped at every interesting plant and flower. I have never been bored with Mike, as we continue to enjoy each other in every stage of life. Yet I enjoyed Brad's energy as a hiking partner. As one that enjoys meeting new people, I am well aware of new relationship energy. That emotional intelligence keeps me grounded in Mike. Yet I also know that I am happier when developing new relationships and felt no reservation for Brad's enthusiasm.
Today we all brought lunches and chose longer trails. We stopped on a high rock cluster overlooking the valley below. I sat next to Mike, holding his hand in affection. Yet there were essentially two different conversations taking place. Brad and I couldn't stop teasing each other. His laugh was contagious. Val seemed to relish the peacefulness of Mike as they seemed to be pleased with their more reserved relationship.
After lunch, we hiked down into a wooded bowl and found the most amazing pristine lake. The trails were quiet, possibly as most hikers avoided the afternoon heat. In hindsight, this private setting, and our new couple arrangements, encouraged somewhat risque decisions on my part.
The heat was intense and I always enjoyed lake swimming. Brad encouraged us to all swim but Val and Mike didn't want to get their clothes wet. Mike and I are not extremely shy and often skinny dip together, but that behaviour just didn't seem appropriate with a new couple friendship developing in one day. Yet Brad and I simultaneously agreed to go swimming while Mike and Val sat on the shore. I probably pushed the limits some by choosing to remove my clothing down to panties and a sports bra. I knew Mike wouldn't object to that level of freedom. My declaration, and quick shunning of the top layer of clothing, gave Brad the opening to disrobe down to his underwear as well. We jumped into the water before contemplation could transition to objection, and swam out away from shore.
It was glorious and seemed fully appropriate. The sun was hot. The water was warm. Brad was adequately in shape. In reality, Mike was way more attractive from my perspective. But there is always something appealing about confidence; which Brad exuded. We swam together freely with our bodies periodically bumping when we got too close. We ended up near the shore slightly away from Mike and Val which allowed us to stand and explore the water for life. Once we both attempted to grab the same frogs only to get our hands intertwined. We held hands for more than a few moments, totally naturally, while we continued our ongoing conversation. It was very innocent and intimate, except maybe our visual enjoyment of each other standing in wet underwear.