You know we are the regular couple, middle class, both work, Midwest, two kids. I am sure you have seen hundreds of couples like us at the mall. We met in college, first date was wow...sex several times and we both wanted it bad. Neither of us was virgin and it was hot. From there it progressed well and while two years behind me in school, one in age..we married before she left school but she still finished. It was great times. At 5'1, 100lbs back then 110lbs now, Amy was a Pom gal for the band and turned some heads. Since we had married early we wanted to play and not have kids so we did for a few years.
We were great friends and while working hard early on, trying to get ahead we took time to do everything we could. We traveled mostly to the beach and ski resorts but also partied hard with friends. We returned to my home town which was only 2 hours from hers. While in college we had made it a habit to have sex at least every day. We were both into it, enjoyed it and if it was ever a chore for her I surely didn't notice and I tried to pay attention. Things were good.
Then there was that fateful night, oh, not the one you are thinking of but the one where one of our couple friends announced 'they' were pregnant!
Upon getting home that night Amy literally tossed out the birth control pills and we went at it like we could make a baby that night. We had to catch up. Well we did some 4 months later when after 6 years of marriage and 8 years of living together we announced 'we' were pregnant.
So like younger married couples we entered the kid phase, have them, raise them and then chauffer them around. We had two and Amy continued to work, while taking off some extended time after their births. What had been a busy life became busier. It seems taking care of kids is more time consuming then partying. Well you know the drill with kids and both of us still working, that slowed the sex some but we still got it in once in awhile. Amy really liked sex after she had been drinking and now that having the kids was behind us we got to do a little of that. Now she liked sex after the drinking but I have to tell you not just sex but lots of it. She was a hound when drunk and really always had been since that is how I got her the very first night we met. She liked it all, I loved giving oral and she loved getting it. Things sort of turned into us having sex after we went out and not part of the usual week at home, often leading to times where it was a week or two between events.