My wife's birthday was in a few weeks, and I wasn't sure what I should get her.
I typically buy her a surprise present - some lingerie and then we make passionate love.
For something a little different, I thought of a "sexual wellness" toy which, despite over 30 years of marriage, we have never used.
We have advanced in our sexual confidence and trust since then, so thought this could be a good present. Sex toys have changed with far more variety covering every erogenous zone for females and males. But the question was what would she prefer!
She loves a gentle buildup in our lovemaking, the anticipation, slow exploring all parts of her body, nothing out of bounds. A gentle, quiet, non-intrusive toy could very well add to the anticipation and buildup.
So after some research on types and best products, which got my erotic imagination working overtime, I decided on a cliteral vibrator, which I could use all over her body.
I ordered online together with some lubricant.
It arrived a few days later. Luckily I was home and didn't have to explain what it was!
Later while my wife was at yoga, I got the present from the hiding place to wrap it.
I sat there looking at the box with a mixture of embarrassment and excitement.
We have great sex which is never deficient and very satisfying, but had never used a sex toy and for some reason this felt different, more adding more intimacy in a way.
I was getting excited at the thought and started to become exceptionally horny.
I picked up the small, cream-coloured vibrator and switched it on. I was slightly startled by the sudden intensity of the vibration and the tingling sensation in my hand. I started getting aroused imagining her enjoyment from the toy.
I so wanted to try it out there and then on myself, but restrained myself, preferring to be teased by my erotic thoughts and anticipation of our special birthday lovemaking session.