My wife's birthday was in a few weeks, and I wasn't sure what I should get her.
I typically buy her a surprise present - some lingerie and then we make passionate love.
For something a little different, I thought of a "sexual wellness" toy which, despite over 30 years of marriage, we have never used.
We have advanced in our sexual confidence and trust since then, so thought this could be a good present. Sex toys have changed with far more variety covering every erogenous zone for females and males. But the question was what would she prefer!
She loves a gentle buildup in our lovemaking, the anticipation, slow exploring all parts of her body, nothing out of bounds. A gentle, quiet, non-intrusive toy could very well add to the anticipation and buildup.
So after some research on types and best products, which got my erotic imagination working overtime, I decided on a cliteral vibrator, which I could use all over her body.
I ordered online together with some lubricant.
It arrived a few days later. Luckily I was home and didn't have to explain what it was!
Later while my wife was at yoga, I got the present from the hiding place to wrap it.
I sat there looking at the box with a mixture of embarrassment and excitement.
We have great sex which is never deficient and very satisfying, but had never used a sex toy and for some reason this felt different, more adding more intimacy in a way.
I was getting excited at the thought and started to become exceptionally horny.
I picked up the small, cream-coloured vibrator and switched it on. I was slightly startled by the sudden intensity of the vibration and the tingling sensation in my hand. I started getting aroused imagining her enjoyment from the toy.
I so wanted to try it out there and then on myself, but restrained myself, preferring to be teased by my erotic thoughts and anticipation of our special birthday lovemaking session.
Sunday was always scheduled for our lovemaking. Yes, it is routine, but leads to anticipation and desire by the end of the week that makes it even more enjoyable.
As usual, I prepared the bedroom with some seductive tantric music, sweet smelling essential oil(ylang ylang) and put the heater on to make warm.
While the room is warming, I took a shower, where I shave and trim in preparation. Some days I completely shave my pubic and chest hair smooth, increasing my sensitivity from her touch. Other days it is just a trim which she likes the feel of my hair on my chest and groin. Today was about her, so just a trim!
Having completed my preparation, I rub my entire body with massage oil making it smooth and sweet smelling for her.
I walk naked into the bedroom, where she has already laying on the bed. She has wearing nothing but her new lace bra and briefs that I bought for her recently. They were a matching set to my lace mens briefs which she also had on the bed and told me to put them on.
She had a dominating tone, which I have always fantasised about being sexually dominated in the bedroom!
I put my lace briefs on as commanded, and then she said, "where is my present - it had better be good, or you are in for some punishment".
I got the present from the wardrobe, all wrapped and gave it to her. She carefully unwrapped it, puzzled at first as what it was, but then realising, smiled and said.