Unlike most of you, I never had a desire to act out kinky fantasies. All I needed from Ginny was a wet pussy, a warm mouth, and the rare gift of the Hershey highway. As far as I know, she was happy with our sex life. Yeah, we shared all manner of pillow talk including all the usual themes, other guys, other girls, girl-girl, and flashing in the car or an out of town hotel window.
Ginny has girlfriends, but is really a man's woman. Guys are always comfortable around her and while she's not an obvious flirt, she is suggestive and not shy talking about sex. Still, wives love her, confide in her, and are never threatened in anyway by her.
Anyway, we socialize a lot, usually in our home and the homes of our friends. Our circle overlaps with others so that we are frequently meet strangers at someone's party. Ginny likes to dress well and does her make-up so that she looks young and natural. Neither of us wears a wedding ring and don't cling to each other in groups. I guess that these elements could lead to some confusion for others we meet that don't know us.
One night we were at the Stein's for a dinner party that included three other couples who are friends and two others that we had never met. Ginny spent a good deal of time chatting with Jack, the male half of one of the couples we didn't know. Ginny and Jack discovered that they were in related careers and even knew some of the same contacts but had never met.
They were sitting knee to knee and having a great time laughing and joking. I didn't mind and was not in the least bit jealous. Ginny would never give me grief if I was having fun with one of the other wives. We just never thought that any real fooling around was possible.