My wife and I had talked for some time about opening our marriage to include others. As I am sure is the case with many here my wife was somewhat hesitant. Societal constructs sometimes interfere with ones desires. My wife decided she would go out alone and flirt, feeling that she would be more comfortable that way. She would sometimes go out with a female friend of ours who knew our plans but most of the time she would go alone.
Halloween night 2002 she went out alone at a bar near our home. Our friend was also there and they hung out. The night was quiet and my wife Lisa saw a man she found attractive. They talked for a while, played darts and he flirted with her a lot. She called me from the bathroom and my heart immediately started to race. She told me she had met someone she thought was cute but didn't know how things would progress. She said she would call me back and let me know how things were going in a bit.
Our friend was leaving and Lisa and her new friend would be alone. The bar was virtually empty and they were able to talk a little more openly. She said she summoned the courage to ask if he would be interested in fucking a wife, no strings attached. He was shocked but agreed. They talked a bit about her and my fantasy and he was game.