When my husband and I got married, we decided not to have kids. He had two from a previous marriage, and that was enough. However, when he was about to turn 45, and I was about to be 37, I decided that I wanted to try to have a child. The problem was that my husband had a vasectomy years prior. What could I do?
I knew that he had fantasies about us being watched or maybe me watching and possibly touching another man while my husband and I made love. But he always said that those were just fantasies. Could I use those to help my issue?
During sex one night, I brought up being watched and a man stroking himself to us. I went further and talked about asking the stranger to get closer so that I could stroke him. My husband got so excited that he came immediately. I kept up this sexy talk for a full month. I took it further and had me sucking on the man or letting him cum on my belly. Eventually, my husband couldn't cum without me talking about another man being in the room.
After that month, he brought it up. "How about we try finding someone to watch us?" I made sure that this was what he really wanted and that he'd let it go as far as I wanted. While we were in bed, making love, he pumped me hard when I mentioned sucking the guy's cock, but he erupted inside me when I asked if he'd be fine letting the guy fuck me. After he came, he just said, "I want you to be satisfied."