As the next couple of years wore on our relationship seemed to re-cement. We started working on that baby. Claudia began liaising with Miriam about the possibility of doing her doctorate through Otago. Miriam felt she should do it through the anthropology department.
They were developing a research programme that her interests would neatly dovetail into. But it depended on funding which would be confirmed toward the end of the year. It would be linked to a much larger longitudinal study, gathering a mass of evidential data from a section of population.
Claudia visited Otago to discuss the programme then settled on examining current cultural myths about family and sexual violence and to see whether the evidential data supported any of the myths. Claudia had a long game in this. She contended that group bias was tending to be divisive and would not help resolve the issues of the high level of such violence. She wanted to use evidence to forge a new common approach through greater understanding of the two dominant genders. In the meantime Claudia undertook a literature search in preparation.
At the same time we were both working on her play. We decided that she should set out the story and using that work with the members of my drama club to write the dialogue as part of their script writing studies. It would be a pilot for Claudia. Being for a school audience we decided not to be too contentious but the basic premise was in place, based on Romeo and Juliet. We would put them in a fantasy world. They would be based on tribal gangs, one dominated and lead by girls who dominated the boys and the other conversely lead by boys.
The high school students had a ball and the dialogue, although really funny, had very serious undertones which they were very earnest about. The play went down well but our efforts to avoid contention were not wholly successful as some in the audience detected a moral agenda which they had strong ideas about. We actually had a couple of opposing protest groups on the last night almost replicating the premise of the play.
Buoyed by its success Claudia embarked on her main play and became quite obsessed. She joined a writers group to enhance her skills. At home we tried out various scenes using the family as cast members. Once or twice I had the drama club trying a scene and critiquing it. Claudia regularly attended and assisted with my drama club.
During this time Claudia and I were enjoying each other's company and our intimate moments were special. The girls loved having their mother back and Claudia filled her life with her family as well as her projects.
The reconciliation of Claudia and Georgia was a milestone. They had never been close since Georgia had been an annoying little sister. It seemed that Georgia had come to terms with Claudia and my reuniting and was genuinely excited about the possibility of a family.
Sue and the party animals downstairs settled back into their own worlds. I was a little bit wary of Sue and the influence she had on Claudia when she returned. Sue did however continue to spoil our girls and was always eager to babysit, help out at parties or sew costumes.
It was a happy, happy, time. There was music and dance back in our family. It was the 80's and I remembered we liked Talking heads and Kate Bush. One memorable day, the girls decided to give little Emma a birthday party. Emma wanted a hippy dance party and all the girls dressed up to look like mum in THAT picture. Although Claudia still had the Kaftan, she did not now fit it so she made a new one to match. Complete with their kaftans and floral hair wreaths they danced at the party frenetically to B52s or whatever. With Rachael being Rachael we had to have a performance. She organized the girls to give a dance performance to the Bangles Tune 'Walk like an Egyptian' The sight of these little girls all dancing expertly in automated unison was astounding. Then Rachael did her own interpretive dance to Laurie Anderson's "Hey superman." I realized then how talented this girl was. We had it videotaped. It's now digitized waiting for the doco on her life.
This was the last really carefree event for the family. I noticed things beginning to cool between Claudia and I. At the time she had finished the play and we were touting it to drama companies and repertory theatres for a first performance. It impressed one major drama company who were keen to use it but there was yet a final decision and time was dragging on.
Claudia was also still waiting for research funding. Coupled with this there had been no success in the baby department. Claudia was starting to seriously fuss about it. She was worried about her biological clock. Finally she had tests and announced that she could not have one. It was an emotional time. Georgia surprised everyone by offering to be a surrogate mother. Initially Claudia did not take this too well. The house was a disruptive mess as well. I had builders in building another bedroom for the non-existent baby
Claudia began focusing on her career moves and in a pique once yelled that she didn't want one anyway as it would interfere with her research. It just seemed the wheels were falling off everything. There was a lot of niggling between us to the point that it was affecting our relationship with the girls and they were finding excuses to play elsewhere.
It culminated in a crisis. I was rung at school by our counsellor asking if I could come in straight away. It seems that Claudia had urgently booked a session for that afternoon and that I should join her.
I managed to find someone to take over my class and headed out to the suburban office of our counsellor. I arrived to find Claudia crying in an armchair. It seems she had spontaneously seduced the carpenter working on our extension for quickie sex that morning. In a fit of remorse she called the counsellor and had decided to come clean about a lot of detail she had not told me to date and she had avoided in our previous counselling sessions.
I sat own in an armchair opposite her with a heavy, heavy feeling of foreboding.
She could not explain the morning's compulsive sex but she felt that there was stuff she was going to have to explain and that I would probably have to learn to live with if we were to stay married.
She began with Arcadia. Yes she did have more sex than she admitted; multiple sex and her first taste of lesbian sex. And it was entirely consensual. It was frightening but it thrilled her.
I remembered the photographs. I did not mention that I had seen the photos. She did not mention ever being photographed. The thing that tore me to the core was that I had assumed she had been raped. From what she was saying it was the opposite and she had freely set out to cheat on me all in the name of free love.
I brought up the issue of her and her brother and how she had branded me a rapist because had not met her expectation for resistance. She said what her brother had done was incestuous and utterly repugnant to her and the worst thing about that time there. She had never forgiven her brother even though he died. She did apologize again for calling me a rapist over it. Although at the time she had been resentful of my action in seemingly joining forces with her brother, she had willfully used the incident to curry favour with the radical feminists she was influenced by at Albion.
She did say that after Arcadia she had never cheated on me until Julia. She had tried hard in our married life even though at times she had craved compulsive sex. She thought that she had become overwhelmed and impatient with having to cope with the three very young children in quick succession at a very young age. All her old friends seem to be out there having fun and she did not relate well to other mothers.
As far as Iona she had said all she was going say about that, however once at Albion she became very promiscuous. As opposed to the one affair she had admitted to she had a succession of partners culminating in Sharon. She said most of the women were promiscuous and there was a lot of tension there because of it. She admitted that she was probably way more that way than the others, but swapping or moving on from lovers was not rare.
Knowing that she had left with Sharon and had once mentioned her name when making love with me I was fascinated and quizzed her about Sharon.
"She said she knew Sharon had been in prison, She knew she was a bad girl and dangerous. Sharon was big and strong, but not unattractive apart from some ugly tattoos. Claudia explained that right from that night at Gangy's gap she had a secret fantasy about being raped that she used to masturbate to it."
I was floored.
"Are you telling me you wanted to be raped?"
