This story revolves around myself and my gf, how we navigated the fantasy of cuckolding, and ultimately how we took the plunge and had our first experience and the subsequent meetings with that same partner. Names have been altered for anonymity.
I (Jake, 30 as of writing) am an Asian male of Chinese descent born and raised in Canada. I have always associated my identity culturally as Canadian, and have always been attracted to white women. Physically I am pretty average at 5'10" (178cm), roughly 145lbs (66kg), in decent shape, and slightly above average looks (6-7/10?). The averageness also applies for my genitals which measure 5.2" (13cm) in length and 4.7" (12cm) in girth, uncircumcised and curving towards the right. Though from the 2 women I've asked, my balls may be a little smaller than average.
She (Katherine, 29 as of writing) is a White female of mixed French and Dutch descent born and raised in Canada, she's had mostly white partners up until her interest in Asian cultures (especially Japanese and Korean) during her university years led her to start dating Asian men. She's on the taller side for a woman at 5'9" (176cm), roughly 145lbs (66kg), in decent shape, and squarely above average in looks (7-7.5/10?). She has light brown hair and striking eyes (in French the color is called pers, the closest description in English is probably a mix of blue/grey/green). She has milky white skin, C-cup breasts which are a nice handful, pale saucer nipples which are sometimes inverted (though only a little), and a great, round ass.
As is common amongst couples who are into ethical non-monogamy (cuckolding/hotwifing/swinging), I was the one who brought it up at first. I told her early on when we were dating that I would be interested in this.
I became interested in an ethical non-monogamous relationship after processing the hurt from an ex who had cheated on me, and finding that alongside the negative emotions of inadequacy, jealousy, anger, and sadness, there was also arousal in the mix. Many years later and many relationships later, I had come to terms that this was something I wished to try.
Past partners did not always receive this proposal well, but Katherine was very understanding, patient and open to the idea. She was a precocious teen and had her first sexual experiences at 14, when her self-esteem was low and saw love as a return on providing sex. Though she's learned to love herself now, she had some wild experiences earlier on, and what's stayed with her as turn-ons are MFM, free-use, gloryholes, breeding, deepthroating, among others.
Before I begin, I wanted to note that I intend this series to be a recollection of our relationship with our first "bull" or "third". I have solid dates for some things, but not for others. However, I will list the date as often as possible. Everything in this story will be real or grounded in reality (I won't remember what was said between rounds 1 and 2 of her 4th encounter with our third for example, and may paraphrase/embellish where necessary).
There will be another story for some of the fantasies we have about future encounters in our ENM dynamic which will be solely fiction.
The dates won't always be in chronological order, and it won't be in sequential order of when I was first made aware of an event. I will edit the sequence to provide the most entertaining read. Most of it will be from my perspective, but some of it will be details of what she thought and felt, which I would have learned later from talking to her over the years.
May 22nd 2022 - First date
We set a meeting time of noon. She arrived late by about half an hour saying she overslept, but the weather was really nice so I didn't mind hanging around the park. We'd been flirting and talking for a week and I was looking forward to meeting her. When she did arrive, we talked about goals, aspirations, likes, dislikes, hobbies, etc. I had brought my guitar and serenaded her while she sang along. Then onto a local cafe for brunch and continued to talk about everything and nothing, she was particularly interested in learning about Chinese culture, mentioning that she had dated a few Japanese (2), one Korean and one Indian before.
Near the end of brunch, she laid her cards on the table. She really liked me but she was not looking for anything serious. She had just gotten out of a 2 year toxic relationship, after 2 previous also toxic relationships, and she just wanted to have fun. She was very open about me not being the only person she was going on dates with, and if I was okay with that she'd like to continue to meet me.
