After 14 years of marriage my wife and I got into SLS (we are approaching 20 years of marriage now). Setting up the first experience was not easy as we did not know anyone in the life style. I signed up on a few sites and a very nice BBC reached out to us.
I showed my wife our 1st email and could see it excited her. It had been 14 years since she had been with another man and now suddenly this good looking black stud was reaching out to her and telling her that she was hot and would be nice to meet up if we were into that.
To add some setting to the story I will describe my wife (I am truly a lucky man)! She is 5"6' 120lbs long red hair blue eyes, fit, small breasts but the most beautiful nipples. Perfect legs and feet. She was supermodel material when I met her and only got better with age. She looks 20 years younger than she is. I am not bad myself 5"10' 185 lbs brown hair brown eyes fit muscular and in person shy.
So we make a good couple and have a great sex life but the thought of being with other couples really turned us on and as it seems we were even more turned on by sharing my wife with single males (I am 100% straight), specifically BBC males.
Back to our story, so seeing my wife's excitement I asked her if she would like to meet this good looking and well spoken BBC who had reached out to us. She nodded meekly. And I thought how sweet she is so innocent and I will open her up to this new experience!
We set up our meeting at a local swing club near our home (he travelled from about 2 hrs away to meet us) and at first the meeting was cordial and both I and my new friend could sense that my wife was nervous. We had a few drinks at the bar and spoke for about an hour. Our new friend was a real gentleman and never pushy and I am sure if necessary he would have waited much longer to ensure my wife was comfortable. His gentle nature eased her nervousness and I could sense her growing excitement. I reached down and felt her panties which were wet underneath her tiny black skirt. My wife by the way is extremely sexual and sprays when she orgasm's (as a side note I have seen her spray 4-5 feet across a room but that's another story).
I told our friend that it appeared my wife was ready and suggested to all that we go upstairs to the play area. Our friend smiled and so did my wife. I took her by the hand and she took our friend by the hand and we went upstairs.
At a swing club there is typically a communal area where you undress and then enter the main play area where there are open play rooms and some private rooms. We undressed and went to a private room, (it was our 1st time after all).