Fiona and I have been together for nearly 30 years and married for nearly 25 of those. A couple of shaky points here and there, but generally tight and loving, with a strong family unit with two fantastic children in their mid to late teens.
I first met Fiona through a friend of a friend in the mid 1990's. Attractive, slim, assured and loyal, Fiona sent out a slightly stand-off message of don't come near me unless you have something to offer. I fell and fell hard, putting my 'free love' thinking behind me, in the pursuit of a lady who I needed to be with.
My romantic side came to the fore and I found myself treading a surprisingly cautious and gentle path, as I courted Fiona and tried to convince her that I was worthy of her love and commitment. Many days and nights of talking, chatting and going out building trust and convincing her I was worthy of her affection were spent trying to turn her eye away from another potential suitor.
It helped that in my 20's I was a supremely fit and well-built younger man based on my physical job and a good dose of genetics. I stood 5'11" and weighed a very lean 81kg. In my own mind I was handsome, without being a chick magnet. In later years, I realised that this was perhaps more a lack of confidence in myself and immaturity on being aware of other girls' comments and moves, rather than me not being handsome enough.
After a number of months of persevering, I was at the point of almost conceding that I was a lot more into Fiona, than she was into me. Given my early starts I would often leave her at a club to go home to bed for my job and leave little love notes on her windscreen for her to find. Whilst we were close, kissed, and went to bases, a home run I had not been able to hit. Fiona has incredibly good genetics and has always been slim and attractive, generally shortish blond hair, small breasted but with the most incredible nipples I've ever had the pleasure to meet. Slim legs, nice skin, beautiful eyes and a good sense of humour, provided me with incredible happiness when we were around each other.
Becoming somewhat frustrated I decided to take the bull by the horns and laid out the situation where I felt I had been courting for a particularly extended period and was she really serious about me or was Fiona biding her time and just teasing me along. It turned out that whilst my assumptions around Fiona being hard to get were right, I hadn't realised that this was because she protected herself and her particularly slim, tight and hot 22 year old body until she was confident, she was ready to share it with someone else. It ultimately turned out that I was the first one she was prepared to share it with, and we made love in my rented share-house for the first time gently and lovingly.
We went on to get married enjoying each other's company and bodies, with me having a much broader sexual appetite than Fiona and helping her to try things that weren't necessarily in her play book but was prepared to give it a try at least once to see if she liked it.
We enjoyed out twenties and partied reasonably well over the years with friends. Over time we had 2 fantastic children and went through the usual thing's parents do becoming more time poor and giving more of our time to the children taking great joy in seeing them grow into smart, educated and well-rounded children we are very proud of.
As is often the case in these situations, working long hours, doing renovations, looking after the kids, we became time poor and our relationship did go through a couple of rocky periods as we worked our way through reconnecting and refocusing on the importance of each other as the primary relationship in the family that brings balance and harmony.
After a rough patch where we received counselling (we have done this 3 times as we both agree that only the ignorant or egotistical will not seek help when they need it) we agreed we needed to put each other first. For Fiona, that meant me not drinking as often, which had become part of my routine as my career escalated and the pressure and time demands increased. For me that meant her taking the initiative in the bedroom and becoming a little more experimental rather than leaving it to me to initiate and then doing the same position every time. Unfortunately, it took me some time to realise these two are intertwined and when I drank, she didn't feel close to me, nor like making love.
For our 20
th
anniversary we were booked to go away for an escape to Hobart in Tasmania with our good friends who met at our weeding in the bridal party. At the last minute I was invited to travel from Australia to the US for an important work opportunity and Fiona agreed it was important and I should do it. We didn't make Tasmania as a result and spent our 20
th
anniversary at home with me recovering from a week of international travel.
Subsequently, I had planned to have a special 21
st
anniversary, only for Covid to hit a month before and Australia went into lock down which also carried on for our 22
nd
anniversary
We have always shared a bit of role play in our sex lives, with me sharing some of my fantasies with Fiona, usually which involved me sharing Fiona in one way shape or another and me getting enormous pleasure out of her receiving pleasure and being satisfied. She had reluctantly shared basic fantasies with me with very minimal high-level detail on her sauna or boat fantasies.
Over the years I had introduced Fiona to vibrators, and she has worked her way through a few different types from the basic, the rabbit, a large dildo (not a success), micro/bullet vibrators and so on. These days her concern is hiding these from the children who just seem to work their way through our bedroom at times looking for things they need and don't know where to find. Privacy has become even more limited at times!
I love using vibrators on Fiona and going down on her, I find her body such a turn on I want to share it with the whole world at times; and this has also played into some of my shared fantasies regarding nude beaches, sex in public (her fantasy) and going out with no bra and knickers on, or getting picked up and shared with a sexy group of guys and girls after being a wanton exhibitionist.
I had always bought lingerie for Fiona, although perhaps more for my benefit than hers, whilst she pushed me into buying a couple of g-strings as those turn her on when I wear those. We struggled to find the right lingerie for what we were looking for and often the sizing for Fiona was a little hit and miss. One day as a treat, I cut the front out of a pair of my jocks and walked in with my cock pocking out the front much to her amusement. We went on to call those the "hot cock jocks" with great laughter at our private joke for quite some time.
Recently I told Fiona what I wanted her to wear and in a rare moment of space with the kids at friends places on the weekend we had time to research the desired look. After some time searching the internet we found exactly what we were looking for - a wet look open bra and knickers set with a quite lady like collar for Fiona. We ordered them online, quickly deleted the history and pretended that the erection in my pants was not worthy of attention as the timing on the calendar was not great. I must admit I didn't have high expectations given previous experience and quality issues when buying lingerie online.
The package arrived about 2-3 days later and Fiona had managed to collect it and hide it before the kids saw it. Imagine the embarrassment of your kids receiving the delivery and opening the package to find open crotch and bra in the pack!! No thanks!
The first time Fiona tried them on it was a serious hit with both of us. My erection was immediate and as she put them on, she looked in the mirror and the fit around her breasts was perfect - not too tight and an opening around 7cms in diameter with her prominent 1.5cm nipples sticking out hard and erect with excitement. The collar looked very lady like and added to the mystique of being able to wear these out with a nice dress or skirt and blouse knowing her underwear was crotchless and her nipples were straining to get out on show.
The crotchless panties were perfect, not too much fabric and not too little so that the pants held their shape whilst showing off her full, glistening, pussy lips, wet with moisture, at how sexy and sluttish she looked in the outfit. Fiona keeps her hair trim and tight and has beautiful lips that can be pulled slightly to expose her inner labia and the moisture inside her. I love that excitement of going down on her and licking her lips and clitoris, enjoying the taste of her excitement and lubricating her pussy, for me to slide into and fuck hard as is often how she wants it.
We recently had some role play when we were having a love making session where we spoke about going away for our anniversary and using a hotel voucher we had.
This involved going away for the weekend for some quality time together and I spoke about how I wanted to dress her up in her special outfit and buy some fluffy hand cuffs or soft ropes and restrain her to the bed and blindfold her so that she couldn't see what was happening or who was in the room.
She immediately got turned on by the thought and I could feel the moisture in her pussy increase as I slid 2 fingers inside her. I told her that I was going to tie her up and blindfold her, then massage her legs, arms, shoulders, nipples, clitoris and pussy lips and not talk during the session. She moaned and became very excited at the thought of being handcuffed and blindfolded so I thought I would take it a step further.