"Enjoying this?" My lovely wife of nearly 30 years asked as she turned her head back to me and smiled. Donna then turned back to him and his embrace, kissing him deeply while the cowboy's large rough hands explored her upper body fondly squeezing each breast outside her dark blouse. She knew one of my fantasies was to watch her enjoy herself with another man and had been teasing me with her actions all evening at the local favorite dance club. She was thinking at this point the evening was over, but this tall cowboy and I planned to fill her with much more than a little excitement.
I was beside myself and very turned on with the situation that I had engineered with "Jim's" help. Jim, was her surprise dance partner for part of the evening who walked us to the car "because of the dark parking lot and long walk to the truck" and my redhead sweetheart got the idea all on her own to kiss him good night to thank him for helping her and I have a great night. I began to push events along to a much more erotic conclusion.
The adventure began weeks earlier when I met Cowboy48 online in a group chat and he mentioned that he lived near Fort Worth. After some discussion, he suggested that we chat privately to get to know each other. We found we had common interests such as fishing and redheads quickly became close friends. Discovering his love of redheads, I sent him an innocent yet sexy picture of my wife and received a nice picture of his wife in return. "Wow," I thought, they even looked a bit alike, similar build, age and some facial features.
In the chat box I quipped, "Your wife looks great!"
"Yours too," Cowboy48 answered back, "I'd swap anytime. Her ass looks especially great! LOL."
"Ha, Ha, me too guy. In our dreams..." I told him, since this chat spot was about as anonymous as it gets.
"No, really Lazyboy, my online handle, my wife and I have occasionally done just that," My mind raced ahead. "We aren't exactly swingers but every now and then, a situation arises, with a buddy or friend of a friend, which allows us to safely play on the wild side. It has added spice to our sex lives, and let's face it, what couple after 30 years of marriage can't use a bit of pepper or hot sauce ;-)." He mentioned, "We play only with committed couples that seldom or have never swapped, for safety's sake. "We've also discovered that it limits relationship complications, if you know what I mean..."
Wow, I was floored. Our chat just went from friendly getting to know each other to mindbender in a few seconds:
"Sounds like you guys have a great and trusting marriage. It would be awesome if we were able experience something like that, but it probably would not ever happen for us. I would jump all over the idea, in my head, so would Lazygirl, but that would only be a fantasy. Reality would never meet fantasy for us. Maybe at one time when we were younger Lazygirl and I would have been daring enough to try something like that, but nowadays, once or twice a month quickies are the norm."
"That's where Cowgirl and I were a few years ago." Cowboy48 explained:
"We got in a romantic rut, thanks to kids, jobs, and taking care of our parents. A friendly couple suggested a night out at Billy Joe's. With alcohol lubricating inhibitions and good music, a little dancing, we were seduced hours later at a nearby hotel by a hot, great looking couple and never looked back. The sexual tension between my sweetheart and I was never stronger in our life for months after that encounter. When libido and interest start to wane, we look for a new fantasy to fulfill or new couple to initiate which always perks us back up again."
Never lacking for imagination, my fertile mind was racing. "If only we had the courage to try something that risky in our lives, it probably would fuel our lagging relationship for a long time. We have always been in love. Sex, when we have it, is great. Quality, not lacking, quantity has been in short supply for a few years," I told him.
"Maybe you should try something short of a full-swap and see how Lazygirl responds. What fantasies do you guys share during sex? I know you do, everyone does...at least if they've been married more than a few years." He continued:
"Before we started swapping, a guy hit on my wife for me at a bar. I expected him, but he was a complete surprise to Cowgirl. They only danced a bit and I let her give him a good night kiss by the car. My wife devoured me when we got home. The experience made her feel attractive and desired. She was a tiger in bed and very loving to me for months after that."
I was shocked and my mind was racing. Donna and I had fantasized about a similar situation many times. In some of our fantasies, she would dance with a stranger at Billy Joe's while I sat at the table and watched. She knows that I thought it would be very hot to see her held by another man. If he happened to hold her close and cop a feel or two where I could see, Donna knows it would be very erotic for me. Teasing me, sexually, is also great foreplay for her. Often, in public she would tell me if some guy had brushed against her breasts or got a glimpse of something as she bent over. Usually she was just making up stories, but it still turned us both on:
"Do you like to dance?'Cause I suck at it?" That was the beginning of our plans. Of course a lot of emails were privately passed setting things up. I used my Yahoo account for privacy; we shared a few intimate pictures of our wives, copies of our drivers' licenses and even met for breakfast one morning to get to know one another. Cowboy48 turned out to be "Jim" and I told him my real name, Bill. Planning for the right moment proved to be a bit of a challenge due to family responsibilities, my job and a dog that needs a sitter.
We were going to let Donna dance and flirt with a stranger, who would be Jim, like his wife did once. If things went well, she had a good time, and went for it; she could kiss him good night in front of me in the parking lot. Jim could do whatever my wife was comfortable with, I was comfortable with and he could do whatever he thought he could get away with. My arousal was always tied to her arousal and I've tried to explain it to her. However, I do not think she truly understood. Anyway, we had a plan including safe words for stopping any action I felt was making her uncomfortable. She would drink and I would be the sober one to drive home, and we rented a hotel room close by just in case. Who knew how far this would go? It was virgin territory for us and it was best to plan for success.