We invite Trent to have dinner—and my wife
Note: The Desire and Desirability stories describe reinvigoration in the sexual lives of myself (Derrick) and my beautiful and desirable young wife, Amy. I recount first how I helped Amy rediscover her sexually desirability, not only to me but also to other attractive men. With my encouragement we began to reveal our deepest sexual yearnings and to explore ways to satisfy them. While I enjoyed new sexual partners as part of this I especially came to relish the roles of encourager, enabler, observer and supporter as Amy opened herself to new opportunities for pleasure.
August
Several times while in bed at night Amy and I recounted our memorable first visit to the Open Door Club in New York City. Each time as we recalled watching John and Kim (we did not know their last names) have sex in front of us, we were stimulated anew. We talked about going there again for the two more "observer" visits we were entitled to and we it made us horny to discuss options we could chose from if we became members. I was very encouraged that Amy had been so aroused by our first visit. Sexual adventure was more and more on her mind.
We found that we were becoming more confident in sharing fantasies with one another. One trip to the Open Door Club had inspired us to envision situations that might become a reality. One night I shared with Amy that if we became members I wanted us to watch two married couples who, after each husband and wife had sex, would trade partners. I whispered to Amy I would like to see how each husband responded to his spouse having sex with a new man. Amy liked that situation too. Often as we exchanged our visions of future sexual possibilities we touched one another; more and more frequently, we began to masturbate as we lay back next to one another.
Another time I encouraged Amy to envision us having sex in front of another couple as Kim and John had done for us at the Club. She liked that. Amy welcomed my fantasy that she would go to the club alone to join a couple in a threesome, to be watched while she and the woman pleased one another and then shared the man. I told her I liked to imagine her going alone to be with another man and only sharing with me later what she had initiated and what she had permitted. I wanted her to not to be reluctant to seek sexual experiences that would give her pleasure.
As Amy described for me situations she found especially erotic to imagine she did not limit them to the Open Door Club. Several surprised me. She was becoming freer and bolder in her thinking—at least in what she would share with me. She breathlessly talked of having sex with several men in succession, each waiting for his turn, of offering herself a second time to whoever was hard and ready, and of then giving herself to the other two a second time. She also liked to imagine sex with a stranger while blindfolded and restrained, giving up control entirely and being used however he wanted. Being taken and then left by a lover she never saw excited her.
Although we enjoyed exploring the prospect, Amy did not feel we were ready to become full members of the Club. I did not want to push her but planned to suggest a second visit when I felt she was ready. I hoped that in the meantime we might find some other new sexual experience. Perhaps she also believed that something else should come next.
To take the initiative I talked again with my friend Trent Cramer on the golf course on a warm and humid Saturday morning in early August. I told him I was aware he and Amy had been chatting often at the fitness center and I could tell she liked it a lot. I said, "Trent, I know Amy enjoys your attention. She is excited by the way you look at her and admits she enjoys looking back. She gets very hot when she tells me about you and more than once has admitted she is picturing being with you while we are having sex. You have become part of her erotic life. She has not told me of feeling that way about anyone else." I wanted Trent to understand Amy had begun to fantasize about having sex with him and I did not mind it.
"Trent, I hope you will keep letting Amy know you find her very desirable. Your flirting has been good for her. She was missing feeling that men wanted her, maybe afraid of it as well. If you want to go further, ask her to join you for a drink. Frankly, we have been trying to reignite our sex life and the mutual attraction between you and Amy can be part of that. So tell her how gorgeous she looks, how enticing you find her. When the time feels right, tell her you think about her sometimes at night — as I'm sure you do. That might be an aphrodisiac for her. Then you could ask her to dinner, someplace romantic. I won't mind. I know she thinks about the two of you being together privately and I'm sure you do too. My wife just needs to become comfortable with other men lusting for her and with her own desire for other men and then to admit to herself she needs sex with someone other than me. Sooner rather than later she will act to meet that need, Trent, and you are the most likely beneficiary. "
Trent was not ready to reveal what he thought about my suggestions. He must have been surprised I was so openly encouraging. In any case, he soon took me at my word. The next week he asked Amy to have a drink with him after their time together at the gym. She agreed and told me about it later that evening. When I asked her if it made her feel sexy to be with him she said it did. "It really made me horny being with him. He must have felt the same. He has very hungry eyes. I liked the way he looked at me."
Amy blushed slightly when she told me that when they got up to leave the bar she noticed Trent trying to hide the erection he must have had while sitting with her. "Derrick sometimes I can see it against his shorts when he is on the treadmill next to me. You told me he was big there and it looks to be true. It makes me wish I could see it and touch it. I have been thinking about Trent a lot, Derrick. Maybe something will happen between us. I wonder how you would feel about that, not as a fantasy but as something real."
Given Amy's comments, I thought more about how to bring Trent and Amy together in a suitable way. I became excited thinking about that, always imagining them having torrid sex their first time alone. While we were in bed the next night I suggested we talk more directly about her going further with Trent. "Do you want to talk about that Amy? About doing more with him?"
"Yes. I think so." She sounded eager. I began to finger her clit. She was quite wet already.
"Amy, remember that Saturday the 25th is your 29th birthday. I suggest to celebrate we stay home and I cook you a very special birthday dinner here, a very intimate affair with soft music and candles on the table. For your present, I will invite Trent to join us. That would give you two a secure private place to be together, to go as far as you desire. I will play the host role, though I won't mention to Trent it is your birthday and he is your present. It will be our secret. I will work hard to make all of us comfortable and relaxed during dinner, and to create a suggestive and permissive atmosphere at the end. I can make it clear that I understand you two want to be alone together and you have my support, in fact my encouragement. I would then excuse myself and say to both of you that I am leaving the house for several hours. You would like that for your birthday, wouldn't you?"
"Oh!" she said, obviously surprised and intrigued. "Would you really do that, Derrick? Are you sure? It seems like a lot to ask."
I took it she was eager for this to happen but reluctant to show her excitement and probably nervous about how an evening with him could be set smoothly in motion.
"Amy, don't do this if things are moving along too fast for you; you can always cancel." I wanted her to admit her desire for Trent.
"No Derrick, I want to do this. This seems like a good way to move ahead, to test whether we both want the things we have fantasized about together. You are a generous husband to suggest this for my birthday and to offer to take the lead. "
"Amy, you know I want this for you — and for me too. It is very erotic to think about you being with Trent for sex."
