Dating:
This is one of the most hot and erotic activities. Before my wife took the big step, I used to set up dates for her with out her knowing. She had no experience with other men since we began young as high school sweethearts. Therefore, wife sharing was more than a big step for her. She obviously had the curiosity since she had never gone all the way with anyone else. The first time taking another man inside her would be somewhat like her first time all over again if that makes sense. She had a lot of inhibitions to loose before she could do it, so we played several sexual games for a while.
One thing that I did was choose a few men who naturally had the hots for her. Two were friends that I knew well and trusted, and a few others I met through websites. I explained that she and I fantasized about sharing but that in reality she needed to be seduced. I gave them permission to do anything with her as long as it was what she wanted. I insisted that they should not expect anything and that they were not to be pushy with her. They guys who I allowed to meet my wife were just as excited about the conquest as they were about the possibility of sleeping with my wife. Remember, my wife was unaware of this at the time.
I knew she would not be interested in a stranger, so I slowly brought the new guys in to our circle. I also brought the two we already knew in a little closer. I would have them show up at events and places were we she and I would be. Eventually I made excuses for one or two to call on her. It all seemed innocent at first. For example, I knew she would be at certain events when I was out of town. I would tell her that Rick or Jim would also be there and that she should "kind of" hang out with them so she wouldn't be there alone. Sometimes I arranged for both guys to be there just to raise the odds of her taking to at least one. This eventually led to them inviting her to go other innocent outings which would bring her closer to having an actual date. She wouldn't have gone with anyone if they asked her on a date straight up.
It wasn't too long before she had been a few places with them individually and alone. At first she wouldn't tell me much. The guys were keeping me well posted though. It really got exciting when the guys would tell me they were going somewhere with her and she would neglect to tell me. That's when I first felt like she was feeling a little naughty about her "dates".