A night out with my husband. The plan is to meet him at a local restaurant. The kids are away for the weekend, so it's just us.
I arrive at the restaurant before him, and just as I do, he texts me to say his train is delayed. He will be there as soon as he can. He suggests I go to the bar and have a drink and try not to get hit on by all the guys trying to get with the hot and sexy MILF.
I hate that he will be late. I know it's not his fault, but I'd rather not go to the bar and sit alone. My husband thinks I'm the sexiest woman around. I think I'm a 45-year-old mom.
The truth lies somewhere in the middle. At 45, I still look good. I stand at 5.3 and have nice brown eyes and middle of the back straight brown hair. My chest is there, but not my defining feature anymore. That award goes to my ass. My hips and ass are what everyone notices.
It is what, as my husband says, he is addicted to and what any guy who sees me instantly wants. Knowing men, he is probably right.
Truthfully, I know I am attractive, but I don't at all feel like the sexiest woman in the room. I feel as though I'm stuck in mom mode, and I struggle with seeing myself as my husband sees me.
Tonight, however, I know I look good and I feel sexy. My clothes are as simple as can be. I put on a pair of white jeans, my husband's favorite. They accentuate my ass in all the right ways. A tight-fitting black tank top with the statement, Take Chances, written in gold and a pair of black heels.
Date night for a couple married with children is like finding the cup of life. Excitement courses through you all day. A night of adult conversation, some drinks, looking sexy, flirting. Both of you know sex is most likely on the table that night, and with the kids not home, it is a fair chance it may very well be on a table.
So I approach the bar with this sexy mind set and find myself a seat. Within 3 minutes as my husband would most likely have guessed a gentleman sits down on the seat next to me. I don't look at him long but a quick glance revealed a handsome young man. My glance was apparently long enough for him to give me a cheerful smile and hello nod, that I quickly returned with a very disinterested hello.
I take a good sip of the drink I ordered and decided to relax and tease my husband a little. I send him a pic I took before I left of what I was wearing, as well as the sexy undergarments I have on beneath my clothes.
I tell him he better hurry because the sexy young man next to me is about to make his move, and if he plays his cards right, those clothes might end up on his bedroom floor.
I'm not sure why, but as of late, my husband has fantasized about sharing me with another man. He tells me that he is crazy for me but just doesn't think I have a passion for him like he does for me. As a result, he fantasizes about me with someone I'm passionate about. Me being with a man and being able to really let go with that man.
He said he gets so hot at the thought of me being uninhibited and free, be it with him or someone else. The thought drives him wild with lust and passion.
I can't deny when he whispers dirty talk in my ear during sex, it sets me on fire. However, I have been very reluctant to play along, fearing it could upset our genuinely good marriage. But tonight, for some reason, I play along, and I immediately got a tingling feeling through my body as I hit send.
I reread my text and laugh a little louder than I meant to at my attempts at flirting. My seatmate turns his head and smiles at my laughter, and asks,
"All ok, good looking?"
I look at him and take him in. He is handsome indeed. strong fit body, sandy hair, and piercing hazel eyes, a definite stud. I imagine if I decide to chat this young buck up, what my husband would think walking in and seeing me chatting with this guy.
I look at him with a quizzical look and mockingly respond.
"All is good, but if it wasn't, was the handsome, muscular young stud going to swoop in and save me."
He smirked, "You forgot intelligent, charming, confident, and if you play your cards right, you may learn about some of my other qualities by the end of the night."
I blush and laugh as I have not had a man so blatantly hit on me in a long time. I like this boy; he is indeed charming and very easy to look at.
I look my seatmate over for a few seconds, then responded with a sexy smile.
"How old are you, if I may ask?
He tells me he is 30.
I laugh and respond that he wouldn't understand, but as he gets into his 40's and gets married, he may find himself laughing to himself too.
My phone chimes, alerting me to my husband's response.
"Tara, look at you being a tease! I like it but I know you too well to think you would be serious. Though as you know, the idea of you getting dominated by some young stud and myself turns me on to no end."
I look over at my seat mate, imagining him doing just that and ask him his name. He lets me know it is Seth.
I texted my husband back saying, "Well, Seth thinks I am serious and by the looks of him, I get the feeling he would definitely be able to dominate me if I wanted."
I turn my attention to Seth, enjoying this little flirting game.
"So Mr. Charming and intelligent, tell me what's a guy like you drinking alone at a bar for."
"Well," he responded, "it does not currently look like I am alone. In fact, it looks to me like I am sharing a drink with the sexist woman in this place."
I laughed, he was smooth and whether I desired it or not I was getting hot for him.
I smiled, blushed, and lightheartedly laughed.
My husband text me back with a bunch of those tongue emoji's.
We started chatting, and before long, my husband walked in. The look on his face was priceless as he saw me sitting with Seth. I said hello to him with a mischievous smile. He approached me and kissed me hard as if he was marking what was his.
He introduced himself and the three of us started talking over a drink until our table was called. I was upset, as I was genuinely enjoying our conversation. My husband, James, I think, sensed this and suggested Seth come sit with us.
Seth said no as he did not want intrude. After some back and forth, James posed a question to Seth.
"Seth, what are you going to do, sit here and hope a sexy lady comes in to take you home? Maybe she already has. Have some dinner with us. Worse off, you get a free meal."