We ALWAYS spent time together before she left for a date telling each other that we loved each other and did the same when she returned.....do you two do that also? We found it very important. As we'd hug and caress, she would always casually manage to check me to see if I was hard. She'd say that when the day came that I wasn't hard, she'd quit fucking around. We had to both enjoy it and thrill from it. She had to know that my juices were boiling as I waited for her and as I sat home and imagined her getting undressed/being undressed, frolicking and playing naked, being kissed and fondled and eventually being mounted and entered by a strange cock. This is all because, even as far back as her very first impromptu coupling with a mutual friend of ours, with my permission, she's always referred to her outside activities as "foreplay"--OUR foreplay.....to the real sex WE have afterward.
I found that, even though she was the one giving away sex to others, it was me that was richly rewarded. I can't explain to you how my hard-ons were harder and throbbed more often, my cum was more plentiful and more frequent and I once again got random throbbing hard-ons in the normal course of the day, for no apparent reason, much as I did as a teen...except, at 40+, I didn't feel embarrassed and try to hide them...not at all, in fact....I just casually rearranged them for comfort and proudly enjoyed them. My pre-cum output also increased several times over. I would literally drip and sometimes drool continuously and could use it to slid right into her effortlessly when she was dry like right after she'd had a hot shower. Even more amazing was that at about 45, I occasionally got the teenage boy's curse, "blue-balls", once in a while if I didn't either beat off or have sex with her...or quite often I got them as I waited for her to come back home from a date. After nearly 30 years of not having a case of 'blue balls', my first time was a painful shock and I think much, much more painful than when I was 16.
Needless to say, my fellow cuckold, I recommend the practice of encouraging a wife's screwing around. It's good for a couple. It's good for the sole. Your wife's image of herself will greatly improve, also, as she again becomes aware, brazenly so even, that not only do other men desire sex with her, they perform like exuberant teenagers showing off for her once again, stretch marks and all. In fact, she'll get renewed bravery about approaching a man just knowing she's desired and free by agreement to go ahead and play in the open. She'll take great pride in telling you she was hit upon and how she handled it. She'll also thrill to having, perhaps for the first time in her life, a person to tell every innermost intimate detail of her lovemaking adventure to....even stuff girlfriends don't dare reveal to each other.
As far as watching her, I've never really dwelled on needing to see her engaged in sex, but I have caught her twice by accident engaged in sex. Once because she left a sticky note stuck to the back door saying that she "had company" but it fell off and I came in to find her on the couch still naked toweling cum off herself while her friend was in the bathroom. I ducked out before he saw me but I saw him return and rejoin and reenter my wife. She, however, saw me and grinned real big as she put her arms around him and slowly drew her legs up around her lover's waist. She winked and mouthed "see you in a few minutes".
Another time we were visiting a guy on his boat who we thought (or hoped) would join us in our fun. As we sat at the dining table, which was glass-top, drinking hi-balls, I watched her through the table top as she gave our friend a masterful hand job to completion and obviously enjoyed being finger fucked by him under her skirt as she stared deeply into my eyes. I later left the boat and they went for a day cruise.
How 'bout you? Had your second adventure yet?