Since my last questionnaire post in the 'How To' section titled, 'Are You Satisfied', I have been asked numerous times for a follow-up relating to 'Cuckolding'. This is something that many couples fantasize about but unfortunately rarely share with their spouses. While it is predominately the husband who will initially broach the subject, many wives have admitted that they also fantasize about watching or being watched.
This story posting may define for many males and/or females if their fantasies fit the clinical definition of a cuckolding.
I met with a couple a few months back that were interested in getting some guidance about their recent experience with one of their neighbors. The husband admitted that he was a little conflicted about his feelings after an evening spent with one of their neighbors.
Eric, 31 and Amanda, 28 had been married for 3+ years. Both were from Southern California. Eric had somewhat of a wandering eye and an active single life prior to marriage but had remained faithful to Amanda. Amanda was raised in a conservative family environment and Eric was only the second man she had ever been with, or so she told me.
Eric had just accepted a new job in Colorado and they were moving. They bought a home in the Denver suburbs and proceeded to settle in their new neighborhood. As expected, several of their new neighbors dropped by for introductions and extend a welcome to the neighborhood. They had been there for about a month when Amanda found a note on their door inviting them to a neighborhood block party.
I would describe Eric as a relatively handsome and athletic man. Amanda was olive skinned, small busted with flowing dark brown hair and by any standard, extremely attractive. Both were personable and easy to be around.
Well, they met most of the neighbors at the block party. According to Eric, two couples stood out. One couple, Tom and Julie were about the same age as Eric and Amanda and the other couple, Don and Samantha were older, 40's, empty nesters. According to Eric, both couples were attractive, personable and interesting.
A week or so later, Eric returned home from work and Amanda told him they had been invited to a small intimate dinner party at Don and Sam's home this coming weekend. It was this invitation that peeked Eric and Amanda's curiosity. The written invitation emphasized 'intimate' dinner party. Amanda admitted that she was skeptical about what they meant by 'intimate'. Eric said that he jokingly told her their new neighbors were probably swingers and the party was a fuck party.
That's when the discussions started. Subtle at first. Eric ask Amanda if she had ever considered swinging. Amanda admitted she was initially a little put off by his question. Her answer at that time was a hesitant "No". She later admitted that the seed had been planted. Now all Eric had to do was water it, but at the time he didn't know that. They both admitted that their lovemaking that night was a little hotter than usual.
They decided to go, or to be more accurate, Eric convinced Amanda to go. At least that is what he thought at the time. Eric noticed that the night of the party, Amanda had selected a tasteful dress, but one that accentuated her obvious assets. He complemented her on how she looked and later related that for a brief second, he thought about how fuckable she looked. He said that thought caused a 'stirring' in his pants. He later admitted that he felt a little guilty for what he was thinking.
Dinner went as expected and cocktails made the before and after dinner conversation lively and enjoyable. After dinner, all three couples adjourned to the media room downstairs. Julie and Sam were obviously very comfortable interacting with each other's husbands. Eric and Amanda noticed their 'flirting' and Eric admitted that he was a little aroused.
It was getting late and Amanda suggested they bid their goodbyes. After arriving home, both admitted they avoided critiquing what they had observed but both told me they were a little aroused by the evening's activities. Eric watched Amanda slip out of her dress and a pesky thought once again popped into his head. As she stood there in her lace panties and bra, he wondered what Don or Tom would have thought to see her now.
This was the first time since they had married that Eric fantasized about another man seeing her like this. Damn, he thought. That's fucked up. It was so fucked up that he blurted out, "You know what just crossed my mind?" Amanda, still in her lingerie, said, "What?" "I was visualizing you in your lingerie with Tom and Don watching," he said. The minute he heard those words coming out of his mouth he knew that was the wrong thing to say. Amanda shot him a look and time stood still. She looked at Eric and said, "Would you for someone to see me like this?" All Eric said was, "Come here beautiful."