Conversation with April, Explained Below:
Below is the preface to a real letter Skip sent to April. I share this because it Worked! She read it and agreed to our first threesome. It worked for us and perhaps the same idea would work for you as a couple.
There needs to be some explanation for this story. I've been having this fantasy below in different forms for a while. We experimented a little in our beginnings and that really turned me on. Finally, I thought I had found someone unafraid of adventure who understood that real love could be separated from a mere sexual adventure that you had Together. That any mistake we made together would be overcome together, and laughed about later. And circumstances made us back off. Okay. But I still fantasize about giving you unbelievable extended pleasure and a fantasy almost every woman has had. I know you've thought about it.
So, lots of real life mixed in with fantasy below.
So, we showed up at the bar fairly early. April assumed it was because we would end up drunk and horny, and home early to fuck. But Skip was being devious again, and had made other arrangements. After he'd given April enough time to finish her first Long Island Tea, he ordered another for her without checking. She asked, "Weren't you going to ask first"
"Nope, you let me know you wanted another last week. When we were driving back from our cabin you let me know you needed to get drunk first."
"What are you talking about," she said.
"When you told me your thoughts about a threeway someday. You said that it would have to be the right situation, and you'd have to be very drunk. Then you said, "You know I'd do it if I were drunk and horny. You said you thought that could never happen."
Skip went on, "You told me what excuses you'd need, and I have made it happen. Just as I believe you hoped I would."
April raised her voice a notch and said, "What the hell are you talking about?"
"Start sipping your second drink and I'll explain," he replied. "Remember I met with Lefty last week again." Lefty was a single swinger that had contacted us through our listing on SLS. A very tame one that explained we were newbies, and were not sure about doing anything but maybe watching or soft swap someday? He is 300 miles from us, but travels to our town every month or so on business for 1 to 2 week long stays. Lefty, it turns is a perfect candidate for an MMF. He is near our age, very accomplished retired military, and currently a business consultant. He was willing to meet with Skip alone to discuss the possibility. He had struck me initially as very different from the usual single guys' inarticulate advances on that site. And it turned out he was nearly perfect.
Lefty was experienced in the lifestyle for about 10 years. And enjoyed MMF threesomes. He understood it was about fun and just sex, not the type to cause any jealousy or problems. He loved helping married women enjoy fulfilling that common feminine fantasy. In our emails, and later one on one conversations, Skip could tell that Lefty was as perfect an option as April could ever try.