Conversation -- Anne
He didn't really know her
In sticking with the theme of some other conversation stories, this is one continuous (long) conversation. It isn't anything terribly serious, fairly light, really. This story involves the aftermath of cheating, in this case nearly two years after the cheating and over a year since the divorce. If you're looking for a cheating story, then you probably should skip this one.
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Jim Davidson was looking forward to the evening. He was cutting out a few minutes early on a Friday afternoon to buy a few things for a nice evening by himself. Being your own boss allows you to get away with things like that. His partner and their admin were glad to see him in good spirits. It had taken him over a year since his divorce to be the guy they were used to working with.
His favorite Friday afternoon grocery was The Fresh Market on 280 in Inverness, Alabama just south of Birmingham and the redneck autobahn, a.k.a., Interstate 459. The grocery was only ten minutes from his house which sat on a nice lake near there.
Financially, he had survived his divorce in decent shape, and his architecture firm continued to consistently grow a little each year. Except for the occasional sad memory, he was doing well...purposefully alone.
Since his grown kids were busy that weekend, he was planning on a little grilling that evening and began filling his cart with items he would need for the night and the weekend.
Anne Grantham had been alerted to his leaving work, and high-tailed it to The Fresh Market to hopefully await his arrival. It had been nearly two years since they had spoken, but she had snuck a couple of glimpses over the recent months, liking what she saw.
Seeing him enter the small grocery store, she waited a few minutes to let him get started. As she exited her car, she thought to herself, "Why am I nervous? I've only been planning this for six months and am probably one of the last people he wants to see. Oh, well. Here goes nothing?"
Entering the grocery, she picked up a handbasket and began searching for him. Once located, she casually, but deliberately, worked her way towards him trying not to be noticed, and once she was close enough, she acted surprised to see him and said, "Jim? Is that you?"
He truly was surprised. He didn't think he would ever see Anne again. The last he had heard she was still in Atlanta. To bump into her so close to his work or home was quite the shocker. Anne was his ex-wife's best friend for decades since they graduated from the University of Alabama in Tuscaloosa, together. They were each other's maid of honor.
His insides clenched at seeing her because the last time they talked didn't end very well, so any pleasantries coming from her were unexpected.
"Anne? Wow. What has it been, two, three years?" The last time he had laid eyes on her was when she had visited him and Stacy, his now ex-wife, at their house. He was in the doghouse at the time, again. He didn't know, then, that he was being kept there while his wife's affair was flaming hot.
She replied, "Almost three since we've seen each other, two since we've spoken. How have you been?"
"Oh. Okay, I guess. You know. Just keep plugging away at work and trying to see the kids when I can now that they have their own lives."
Truthfully, he wasn't thrilled to see her. Well, that wasn't quite accurate. He was always pleased to see her. Even at her current fifty-one, she could turn heads. Her auburn hair now had a few streaks of grey. He liked that she didn't seem to color it. She was about five-four, with an attractive figure. It did look like some of the cushioning she usually carried in her hips was missing.
She appeared to have just come from work, wearing a white blouse with a couple of buttons undone, and it was just thin enough to reveal something lacy underneath. Her wide-leg pants and low heels were very fashionable. She looked good, but then again, she usually did.
The truth was that while he always admired her appearance, he currently didn't have the desire to talk to her. The last time he did, she was supporting Stacy during the divorce, trying to get them back together, which kind of put them at odds. Shame. Before that, he had always liked her, even if they had never been great friends, themselves.
Trying to be polite, he asked, "How about you? How have you been?"
Anne recognized the disapproving look in his eyes, which didn't quite match the smile on his mouth. Ever the gentleman, she wasn't surprised at his politeness. As a matter of fact, she had been counting on it.
"Fine, I think. I've been here for about six months. I'm the new co-administrator down the street at Grandview Medical. With Tom, my son, out in Austin, and Jennifer, my daughter, here in Birmingham. I didn't have any reason to stay in Atlanta, so I moved here. This is practically next door to my parents' place down in Vance. It was an easy decision."
He thought Stacy was probably loving having her best friend in town.
"Oh. I didn't know you moved here. Uh, since the divorce, Stacy and I don't really talk."
Stacy, the ex-wife, is a professor at UAB, the University of Alabama at Birmingham. He was tipped off to her having an affair with a graduate student working on a Ph.D. He hired a PI to get evidence, which was accomplished quickly and easily. Their marriage had already been strained for years, so with the confirmation of her affair, he divorced her.
He asked, "Does that mean you and Adam are no longer together?"
"I thought you knew." She suspected that he didn't, because she was quite certain that he had stopped talking to Stacy long before the divorce was final, which meant it was unlikely that he would know of her divorce. She continued, "I found out he was cheating, again, around the same time you found out about Stacy's affair."
He replied, "Wow. I'm sorry. What is wrong with people? No, she never told me. Well, as I said, we don't talk much anymore."
"I'm sorry about you and Stacy. You didn't deserve that."
"Thanks, I didn't think so either. Well, neither did you."
"Thanks," she said.
Given that this was a conversation he didn't really want people to overhear, he guided her towards a quieter corner of the store. With more than a little heat in his voice, he asked, "If you mean that, then why were you so determined for me to forgive her? You were pretty hard on me."
She said, "I was just trying to be persistent and persuasive. I'm sorry if I hurt you. She was my best friend."
"You didn't hurt me. She did. You just took her side."
Anne tried to defend herself, "I didn't deliberately take her side. I just tried to support her. I despise what she did. At the time, I had hoped you could forgive her. Each of you had a lot invested in each other."
With obvious bitterness, he scoffed, "Apparently not enough for her."
She tried to get him reined back in. "I don't mean to get you riled up. Like I said, at the time she was my best friend."
He asked, "That's the second time you said, 'was'? You're no longer?"
"I try to be kind to her, but I don't really want to have much to do with her anymore. She became even more self-absorbed if that's possible. She still doesn't think she did anything wrong. Even if I hadn't experienced being cheated on myself, I happen to disagree."