Christina's clothes turned out to be the most concrete clue I've noticed since she's switched jobs. Tight, form-fitting slacks and sweaters regularly punctuate her wardrobe these days.
Christina has always kept in shape. She looks great in outfits that emphasize her compact, curvaceous, athletic figure, but the question 'Who is she dressing for?' is increasingly entering my mind these days!
Part of it might be semi-wishful thinking on my part. We've been married quite a while and during the past few years we'd discovered that our favorite mutual fantasy was her seduction by another man!
Christina has never been entirely comfortable with the fact that I like this theme as much as she does. However, over a period of about five years she's become comfortable role-playing the types of scenes and revealing – bit by bit – not only the types of guys that would have the best chance of seducing her, but what would happen during those encounters!
Christina has always maintained this is purely a fantasy, but concrete events in her life have caused me to question her consistent assertions of this. Her most interesting area of tension revolves her beliefs that cheating is reprehensible, but, on the other hand, when two people share an attraction AND find themselves in an intense, erotic situation, infidelity is a predictable, understandable outcome!
'Our' seduction fantasy has clearly taken on an interesting dimension recently, because Christina has not only become more willing to explicitly fantasize about these situations, but she's begun to increasingly put herself in these kinds of situations! In some ways, she even seems to be preparing for, or creating them!
Christina's dressing habits, to give one example, started to change approximately the same time she first mentioned 'the new guy at work'...
'Rick' (not his real name) works in her building, not on her specific project, but for the same organization. What quickly caught my attention about Rick was the number of times Christina mentions him in passing. He's never the object of her conversations, but his name has come up in several from the moment he arrived, especially considering the fact he doesn't work directly with her!