From the very moment we met Mike and Kristi something clicked and we knew we would become friends. What we didn't know is that it would happen at a swinger party, a place we never expected to visit, not in reality.
My wife, Lora, and I (Brad) had long fantasized about swinging and finally decided to garner our courage and go to a party and see what it was all about. Making the actual decision to step through that door was not easy. It was a lot of wonderful, hot fantasy sex but also an agonizing couple of months soul searching and talking about it before we got the nerve to actually try it.
First, you wonder who else will be there. Are you going to run into someone you know? A coworker? Your neighbor? Your boss? And then you wonder how far you are prepared to take this fantasy.
It was very nerve wracking. Thankfully, the night we decided to attend there was no one we knew and we experienced the full range of emotions, from fear to fascination. We had decided before we walked in that we were only on a fact finding mission, just to see what goes on and if we were comfortable, absolutely no swapping partners.
It was expensive to get in and worth every penny of the admission price. As it turned out everyone was very nice and accepting, but they all seemed to know each other, except us and one other couple, Mike and Kristi. We migrated toward each other because there was only one table left with empty chairs and we reached it at the same time. They were a very good looking couple and we felt lucky to be in their company.
We introduced ourselves and were pleased to find they were first timers also and just as nervous as us. We had a lot to talk about because we went through the same angst before actually walking in the door. Kristi told us they almost turned around in the parking lot to go back home, chickening out. We laughed because we almost did the same.
It was an easy conversation about first time jitters and we were comfortable with them. They broached the subject about how we decided to try swinging and we really didn't have a good answer, except that we haven't actually tried it yet. I think the word 'yet' was a give away, and we all giggled.
It was a long time fantasy of mine and later my wife's also. We admitted we role played during sex thinking of coming to a swinger party, and they said they did pretty much the same.
At the time we didn't tell them that we had some very steamy, hard pounding sex, imagining all the different scenarios that we could dream up. We role played with submissive sex, group sex, blindfold sex, and other perverted delicacies, but mainly threesomes and foursomes, with some bi lady action.
Lora seemed to be the main instigator of our imagined escapades, and her imagination was very fertile. We might be in a restaurant and out of nowhere she would start on a fantasy.
She might have her hand high up on my thigh and whisper to me, "While you were in the restroom, our cute little waitress came by to check on us and we had quite the chat. Did you know that little hard body Britni hasn't had sex with a man in over a year and is dying to get properly laid?"
This would make me choke on my wine and ask, "And you know this how?"
"She told me she thought I was a lucky woman to have such a handsome husband, and it progressed from there," Lora said and smiled.
"Well, I think she was just hitting on you and checking out our arrangement, and I couldn't blame her," I countered. Lora whispered back, "I think you may be right. I couldn't help but ask her if she would be interested in doing both of us. Oh Brad, can we take her home? I just know she would have the sweetest pussy and she would fuck us so good."
Just some innocent fantasy, no harm done. Sweet little hard body Britni got a good tip and we had great sex when we got home.
Or the time we were in the bar of an out of town hotel and Lora whispered to me, "You didn't tell me I would be the only female here." I looked around and sure enough she was the only lady in the bar with maybe four guys.
"The way they are checking me out I feel like I'm an item on the menu." Sure enough all eyes were glued to her lovely legs."I think I should have worn panties or a least a skirt a little longer. I know they can all see straight up to my lady parts."
Lora's skirt was very short and had ridden high up on her thighs. It was a beautiful sight. The part about no panties was news to me but was one of the reasons I loved her. She always could surprise me.
Ever so slowly crossing and uncrossing her legs, she leaned her breasts into me and innocently said, "I don't know if I could please them all at once. What should I do? I wouldn't want to leave anyone out."
Needless to say this led to a quick call for our check and a rush up to our room where we played out all the different positions she could end up in.
Again just a fantasy and no harm done.
I never forgot any of Lora's fantasy scenarios but we never acted on any of them either. They were just glowing embers under a hot fire.
Scenes in porn movies also played a huge role in our fantasies and we would try to re-enact some of the scenes. In the middle of a hot on-screen threesome Lora might ask, "Is that something you would like?"
Careful to not give away too much, I might reply, "Who wouldn't like it. One beautiful woman riding me and another sitting on my face while they are making out with each other! Fuck yes! As long as one of them is you."
She would say, "I would be afraid I might sit on you so hard you couldn't breath and I'd smother you." Then I'd cuddle her and say, "Just try to smother me. Please."
Sometimes this would lead to other questions, like, "Who would you like it to be? Any of my friends?" I thought it best not to specifically answer that and so I would skirt around an answer with, "Whoever you choose. I would leave that up to you."
When I'd ask her if she would like to be in a specific sex situation, her usual reply was, "Maybe, it would depend on the situation. But you would have to be there with me." So we both skirted the issue but never actually turned the idea down flat.
When we met Mike and Kristi, the wives became friends first. Lora and Kristi seemed to get along right from the start. They were similar in appearance, both petite, brunette, 40ish, and nice figures. They were also both professional women and shared a bond that goes along with that. Lora was a real estate agent and Kristi was a nurse. She also had a killer smile.
Mike and I were about the same age but different in appearance. I'm more tall and lanky while he is more compact. I would say we were both handsome and in pretty good shape, just in different ways.
We were two newbie couples attending our first social (swinger speak for party) in a nearby town about an hour from us. We weren't brave enough to attend one in our own town. It was an off-premise party, where people gather to meet and socialize but no actual sex takes place on the premises itself because it's usually in a rented party room. Everyone goes to a more private place after the party for sex. An on-premise party is one where it is strictly private with controlled access and sex can and does occur in the party room.
That night we danced with each other's spouses as we got the feel of the place and a sense of the etiquette. Close intimate dancing seemed to be the norm. It is very intoxicating to dance that close with someone other than your wife, and powerfully arousing, and mind blowing that it is perfectly acceptable, even encouraged. I actually had to apologize to Kristi for my erection stabbing her in the belly.
Thankfully she laughed it off, and said, "Thank you for the compliment, kind sir." Later Lora also said Mike was sporting a healthy hard-on as they danced. It was completely surreal to even have this conversation, but there we were.
We watched in awe at the openness of the sexuality around us. It was amazing to see couples so flagrant about their sexuality. Outrageously sexy dancing, exposing body parts, flirting with other's spouses who they planned to fuck later.
It was also very refreshing to see the truthfulness of it all. At our usual parties you would see spouses sneaking peeks around and disguising a grope or feel, but here it was like everyone had a hall pass to participate in the bawdiness. It was refreshing.
It was also evident that the ladies were in charge. The 'no means no rule' was strictly in force and it seemed to open up a whole new world of opportunity for the women. They were free to flirt with no expectations, or pick a partner for more action later.
We made the most of getting to know our new found friends but nothing more forward than dancing and flirting happened at the social. We knew we would be drinking that night so Lora and I had reserved a room at the party hotel.
Late in the evening as the party started to break up, couples headed to the hotel next door where two entire floors had been reserved for this group and was very private. Only registered couples had access to those two floors and there was security to keep the unsuspecting public away.
We invited Mike and Kristi up for a drink and to explore what happened after the social. Like us, they had decided to only scope it out on this first visit and not participate in any actual swinging. None of us had any idea what to expect.