Looking back on it, I only wish I hadn't waited so long to have done it. I never thought I'd even do it, much less enjoy it so much, but turns out, it was one of the most exciting things I've ever done. The fact that my husband not only wanted me to do it, but probably enjoyed it even more than I did, is just icing on the cake.
This is the story of how I made my husband's wildest, deepest fantasy a reality. This is the story of the day I slept with a man other than my husband for the first time in my life.
My husband, you see, has forever tried to get me to sleep with someone else. We've been together for 12-years, married for ten, and he was the first guy I ever slept with. I've never even had any desire to sleep with another man, with or without his permission. It's just not who I am, not what I crave. I don't get why he wants it so badly, either. Why would your husband want you to have sex with another man? It's never made any sense to me, and in fact it still doesn't. So why I ended up doing it, is anyone's guess.
I met Brian, ironically, during my bowling league. Ironic, I say, because I met my husband while he was working at a bowling alley. Brian bowled on another team in our league and we always seem to get along pretty well. I'm usually a pretty quiet, reserved person who likes to blend in and not be noticed. Yet he would always seem to gravitate towards me whenever we bowled against each other, or near each other's lanes. Before long it became apparent that he was indeed, actually kinda flirting with me. If my husband knew, he would have been thrilled, but he also would have pestered me about it constantly and pressured me to sleep with him, so I never told him. After all, I certainly never had any intention of going to bed with him. But I did find I began to really enjoy the attention and found myself disappointed whenever our teams were on either end of the league and I didn't get much of a chance to talk with him.
Whereas I'm a casual bowler who throws a straight ball, Brian is a more serious bowler with a 190 average, who throws the ball with a curve. One night we were talking and he was suggesting that I should try learning to throw the ball with a hook. He said he would teach me how, and invited me to join him that Sunday morning and bowl with him. The alley had a good practice price for league bowlers at that time and he was usually there every Sunday. The first couple of times he suggested this, I said no. The third time, however, with a tingling in my stomach, I surprised myself by agreeing to it. Again, though, there was no way I was going to tell my husband about this, especially since I still didn't believe there was any way I'd end up sleeping with him.
I made up a story about my mom wanting me to go somewhere with her because my dad couldn't, left my husband at home with the kids, and met Brian that Sunday morning at 10:30. I wore my teal Capri pants and, you gotta love California in the winter, a pretty white, spring-like blouse. I wore my hair in a ponytail. A very cute look, nothing over the top or too suggestive, yet one I knew my husband would like if he knew what I was doing. Underneath I wore a sheer white bra on top (my husband's favorite because you could see my nipples clearly through it), and his favorite pair of panties; green with black polka dots and lots of black lace, especially in the ass. My husband really loves my ass, and I have to agree with him. It's my best physical feature.
Again, I never expected I was going to have sex with Brian and I didn't expect him to end up seeing what I had on underneath, I wore those simply because I knew my husband would enjoy knowing (someday) what I had worn, especially the panties, yet I found that while in Brian's presence, especially as he flirted with me, I felt a little sexier knowing I had them on.
Now when I say Brian was flirting with me, mind, it wasn't an overt, overly flirtatious flirting, but more of a subtle kind of flirting. He was clearly mindful and respectful of the fact that I was married, which I never hid from him, but at the same time I was getting the impression that he would be interested in more if I was. What he didn't know was that my husband not only wouldn't mind, but would practically beg me to sleep with him if he knew. It had all the elements and excitement of doing something taboo, without the negative consequences. I knew all I'd have to do is tell my husband all about it, and not only would he be ok with it, he'd be thrilled out of his mind. It gave me freedom and I surprisingly found myself embracing the role playing aspect of it. I had expected I would eventually tell my husband about going bowling with Brian, and teasing him about it, as a treat, but I just didn't think there was any way I'd go any further than that, no matter how badly I knew he wanted me to.
What can I say? Sometimes you just change your mind.
As I said, we met around 10:30, he even brought a 10 pound finger-tip drilled ball for me to practice with. It wasn't perfectly drilled for my small hand, but it was close. It belonged to his younger sister, he told me. About Brian, he's about 5'11", a little taller than my husband, and quite a bit taller than my 5'3". He has wavy, medium length brown hair and a mustache, probably weighs around 200 pounds and isn't at all unattractive, sporting a sort of average boy next door look. At 30, he's five years younger than me, and never been married, nor does he currently have a girlfriend.
We bowled several games, though we took our time and talked a lot. We always seemed to find a lot to talk about, without really talking about much. I really enjoyed his company, and though I didn't think he was necessarily hot, or great looking, I did think he was cute in his own way. He also instructed me on how to throw a finger-tip ball, or at least he tried. I think I'm just determined to throw the ball straight. But several times he got right up behind me while instructing me on how to hold and throw the ball in the same flirtatious way a guy teaches a girl how to play pool. I felt sixteen again and my skin tingled when I felt him up close to me like that. It definitely gave me an unexpected rush.
I was surprised when I realized that we'd bowled four games over an hour and a half. I wasn't used to bowling four games and my arm was exhausted. After I commented on that, he offered to give me a quick neck and arm massage. I readily agreed and he sat down behind me in a chair on the concourse. I'm very sensitive and tickle easily, but he had a nice and firm, yet not too firm, way of rubbing my neck and shoulders that felt wonderful after four games of bowling. I groaned softly in appreciation.
It felt really good and I didn't want him to stop. Luckily for me, though not surprisingly, he didn't seem to want to stop either. In fact, he soon suggested I turn my chair around so he could work my lower back as well. Seemed like a good suggestion to me, so I did as he suggested and leaned forward over the back of the chair I was now sitting backwards in. I was sure he could probably see the top of my sexy panties as he massaged my back, and that thought gave me an extra little rush. If my husband could just see this, he'd be going nuts! This was going to be one helluva treat for him (I was thinking of saving it to tell him at Christmas).
The massage continued for almost 20 incredibly relaxing minutes. When he finished, he stated he was famished and that I ought to let him take me out to lunch. I had not intended to go any further than bowling with him, but I was hungry, and that would certainly make it an even more special treat. And although it meant getting home later than expected, I was sure my husband would not object, not that he had any other option. I simply texted him that I would be back later, after lunch, and agreed to let Brian escort me there.
I followed him in my car from there to Panera Bread where we had a nice lunch together. He continued to flirt with me, not overtly, but subtly in his respectful way. He asked me what I had planned for the rest of the afternoon, and did I have to get home, and I replied – to my own astonishment – that I had nothing going on and, no, I didn't have to get home for a while. He suggested then, that we should go back to his place and watch a movie – 50 Shades of Grey – for we had been talking about how we had both read the book. I could hardly believe what happened next.
I said yes.
After texting my husband and telling him I'd be with my mom through the afternoon, and knowing he wouldn't doubt me for a minute, we left and I followed him back to his apartment, my head spinning the entire drive there. What was I doing? I wondered. What was I thinking? How far was I going to take this? Was I really considering doing what it seemed like I was? Then I began to wonder if I wasn't just imagining what was going on, that Brian didn't really want me in that way, we were just friends getting along well. Maybe he wasn't really flirting with me. And what's wrong with just watching a movie together? Maybe nothing was going to happen other than watching a movie. A movie with lots of sex in it. Uh-huh.
By the time we got to his place, I had convinced myself that I had imagined the whole thing; that nothing was going on. We were just going to innocently watch a movie together, then I'd go home. I had completely fooled myself. It soon became apparent that I hadn't imagined anything.
We sat down on the couch in his living room and he got the movie set up. He offered me something to drink and I accepted water, He had a soda for himself and he popped a bag of popcorn. Then saying, "can't watch a movie without red vines!" he brought out a package of those movie favorites I can't resist!
Being a single guy, it was not surprising that he had spent a fair amount of money on a very sophisticated movie and sound system, and his couch was quite comfortable and not just a little bit cozy, too. After closing the drapes and lowering the lights in the room, he sat a respectable distance away while we ate popcorn and red vines and watched the movie. At least he did, at first.
Sitting on his left, he was soon right next to me, his left hand once again massaging my neck and shoulders. He didn't ask, but I didn't object, so he didn't stop. It felt good and once again I felt my heart racing, my skin tingling. Soon, I was once again asking myself, "was I going to do this?"