My wife Barb and I have been happily married for 33 years. She is the love of my life and tolerates me more than any other wife ever would. Her focus is on our marriage and the fun we can have, but never focuses on herself.
Neither of us would ever think of having sex outside of marriage. I think we both satisfy each other's needs physically and mentally.
She looks great. She works out regularly and takes care of herself. She doesn't think she's sexy, but I do. I see guys checking her out in public and tell her about it but she still doesn't think she has "the look". She's oblivious to it, and at times I wish she would give herself some credit.
One night she mentioned we hadn't had any real vacations or taken any trips anywhere for quite some time. I'm not one for traveling a bunch. She thought we should go out of the country somewhere since we hadn't been for years. Mexico City was brought up and I agreed we should go. Then she asked if there was anything I wanted to do.
So I blurted out "sure! I want you to consider having sex with me and a random guy at the same time!"
"No way - I could NEVER do that!" Barb said with surprised, scowling face. "Why would you want me to do that?"
"It would turn me on immensely and I would love to see her both pleasing me and another guy and enjoying yourself."
"There is no way any guy would ever find me attractive enough to want to do it with me."
"I think you might be wrong - I'd bet a lot of guys would want to do it with you."
Barb is so self conscious about her body and felt it couldn't happen. I didn't want to push so I left it at that. I told her I loved her and wanted her to have the opportunity to do something fun and yes, definitely a little crazy.
A few weeks went by and we were talking about our trip. I jokingly asked if she had been thinking about my suggestion and she said she had, but wasn't sure if she could do it. I suggested going online to see if she could find anyone who might be interesting to meet. She said "you do it", so what could I do except follow orders.
I put a detailed ad on Craigslist asking if a respectful guy would like to meet my wife for a couple drinks and possibly more. Of course I got 900000 responses (I'm exaggerating of course, but I'm not that far off.)
I finally found a guy named Jim who seemed to match what she and I were looking for. Jim sent his details, and I shared our conversations with Barb. I was able to verify that all were true; he was who he said. I told him if Barb wanted to meet him, any one of us could decide the situation was not right, and it would be considered no harm, no foul. We all agreed.
I talked to Barb about it and of course, got the same "not sure" reaction. I described the person I found and she thought it would be good to meet him.
I set up an early evening meeting with Jim at a bowling alley bar across the street. He turned out to be exactly the kind of person she would go for. He seemed gentle, and treated her with respect. I did my homework.
First impressions count, of course. My impression was they were really getting along well, and of course that made me happy. He seemed like a good respectable guy.
After a while I asked her if she could come with me for a few minutes away from the bar - I told Jim that she and I needed to talk about a few things and he understood.
I said "are comfortable with him? And with doing this?"
"I think I am - let's just take it slow."
"I fully agree. If you feel uncomfortable at any time you let me know. I mean it. We are going to have a safe word. If you or I feel we don't want it to continue, say the word "Vegas" and we will immediately stop. Don't just go through this for me"
We invited Jim back to our place and had a couple drinks and talked some more. After everyone's nervousness subsided we all went into the bedroom.
Barb and I started playing with each other and Jim watched for a while. I got Barb's shirt and bra off, revealing her great natural tits and hard nipples. (When her nipples get really hard I know she's enjoying herself.)
We all got fully undressed.
I continued rubbing and sucking her tits and she motioned for Jim to come over and suck one. I moved over, taking the right one; he took the left.