Beginnings of a Hotwife Life

Let me introduce myself and my wife with a bit about us and our background. My name is Ed & I am your every day masculine male in my early 50s. I grew up in a small town, worked on the family farm growing up and now work in the healthcare field and also raise cattle. I am 6'1 230 with a bit of a Dad bod. I am outgoing and do well in my profession due to my take charge personality......which as you will see is only part of me.

My wife Donna is in her early 50s also, but looks like she is in her 30s. She has always taken great care of herself and teaches a workout group every morning, She was raised very proper and always attended church. She married the first time as a virgin and when we met, she had only been with 2 men (her ex-husband and another short fling). She is 5'7, stays around 150 pounds and has all the right curves. She has blonde hair and blue eyes and a pair of 36D implants (that I bought her).

Now that you have an idea of our background, I want to share how our lives together started and how we began considering the Hotwife lifestyle. We met online and had a normal courtship and married in 1997. We were both focused on our careers and building a future together. Our sex life was great, but I could always tell that Donna was apprehensive and didn't really "get in to it". After a couple of years, we had a very in-depth talk and Donna told me that she was raised that sex was for having babies and that "good girls" didn't do it very often. She knew that I enjoyed sex nightly and she said she wanted me to be happy, but that she didn't need it that much. After more conversations, I began to understand the issue.

Donna's first husband became an alcoholic and was verbally abusive and cheated on her multiple times. He did a real number on her self-confidence and had her convinced that she was not pretty and that other men wouldn't see her as attractive. Of course I told her that was ridiculous, but I could tell that she didn't see herself as the sexy woman she was.

After a lot of talking, I convinced her to let me take some clothed pics of her (no face) and post them online to see what other men would think. She agreed, but I now know it was so that she could prove she was right and men wouldn't want her. At that time, she had 2 kids, but was working out and had a great body. Her tits were 36D, and even though they were sagging from breastfeeding, she still had a nice rack. I took several pics of her in different outfits (short shorts/tight tank tops, mini skirts, and short low cut dresses) and posted the ones she approved on a website. As I knew would happen, she had raving reviews and comments immediately. She had over 200 comments in the first 24 hours! I made it a point to bring it up when we went to bed that night and I gave her the laptop to read what men were saying. Once she finished, she was blushing and said she still didn't believe it.....but I knew it turned her on because when we made love that night, she was sopping wet and came harder than she had in forever!

I knew that I was going to have to do more to see herself as sexy, so I made her a bet. I would book us a mini-vacation in Vegas and she would agree to dress sexy for me and we would see if men checked her out. The bet was that if lots of men checked her out, she would agree to trying anal with me. If men didn't notice her, I would drop the subject and buy her a diamond ring that she was wanting. We both thought we were going to win and I guess we both did! To keep the story from getting too wordy, she wore several low cut, skimpy outfits and she literally was beating men off of her any time I left her alone in the club or casino. After the first night, she had to agree that I won the bet and I could tell she was enjoying the attention. Every time we made love that trip, I was talking to her about all the men that were checking her body out and how I knew they were going back to their rooms and stroking their cocks as they thought of her. That made her come over and over and she finally admitted that it did turn her on for other men to want her.

On the flight home, we were talking and I told her that it was unfair that she went through high school and college and never experimented sexually. She said that she regretted it now, but was doing what she was taught to do. I told her that we needed to expand her experiences and that she deserved to see how great sex can be. At the time I didn't know my cuck personality was bubbling up, but I knew it turned me on to think about her with another man, letting her naughty side out!

We continued to talk about it and after about 3 weeks, she asked me if I was serious about her experimenting. I told her that I was and wanted her to have fun. We went through the normal conversations that this wasn't going to change our marriage (boy were we wrong!) and that this was not about me wanting other women (which was true). After we got all that out of the way, she told me that she was open to the idea and we could try to find a man for her to enjoy!!!

If enough people show interest in our story, I will continue with the first time she was with another man and how it opened up a whole new world for us both!!