My sex life with my wife Kay had dwindled down to maybe once a month. Zero, if she thought of a reason to be mad at me.
When we first married we used to do it 4-5 times a week, with a blowjob at least once a week. One of the reasons I started dating her, she gave incredible blowjobs. The other reasons, she was cute, slim, fit, flexible, and loved to have sex.
Now, she is not cute, not slim, not fit, not flexible and seems to hate sex.
Kay had 2 sisters, both younger, about 1 year apart from each other, Katy the middle sister and Kathy the youngest. All three sisters were known to be the hottest bedroom fun any guy could ask for. And I was hoping to be the lucky guy Kay chose to settle down with.
We married 12 years ago, after I got her pregnant in college. We were both Seniors in college, in love, and had been talking about getting married anyways. Sally was born 5 months after the wedding, and a year and half later, Kevin was born. Both incredibly spoiled by their mom, mom's sisters, and my wife's parents.
I despised her parents, who thought I was beneath Kay, since I could not buy her all the luxuries she deserved. Neither of them ever worked, except for some charities.
They received all their money through inheritances. A few years ago, they sold the last property they inherited, so I knew they were getting near to the end of their cash flow. This was not known by anyone but me. I had checked all the property records many years ago.
Both of Kay's sisters had 2 kids each.
Katy is married to Ron, who runs 5 dry cleaning stores for his dad.
Kathy is married to Mark. Mark inherited his house and some money when his grandparents passed away. Mark 'owns' his own marketing firm, but I have never seen him working or know where his office is.
Both sisters, like Kay, are very fun to be around during a party. None of them are worth anything if there is any work to be done.
So, while sitting in my home office 2 years ago, pissed off that I had to take care of my needs in the shower that morning, I took a hard look at my life.
Almost no sex.
A shrew, lazy wife who doesn't work.
Two Kids with little respect for me and who sound just like their mother.
A job I do not like because the company treats us like servants.
A house near her parents, which Kay insisted on, where it snows 4 months of the year. I grew up in the south and hate the cold.
A 10-year-old car which was my wife's during college, until she wrecked it, traded in my car, and bought a new one. All because 'I can't wait for my car to be fixed'.
Payments on a new car for Kay, which I am not allowed to drive, unless I want verbal abuse and zero sex from Kay.
Payments on a house too big. "I need to live near my family".
Payments for a small pedigree dog that would die without its meds, because the breed is so inbred.
Payments for a maid, twice a week, because my wife told me housework was making her too tired for sex, 10 years ago. The small increase in sex lasted for about 2 months, but the maid is still here.
Payments for a clubhouse and spa membership, so my wife could hang out with her friends and sisters. I don't play golf and have never been to the spa.
Payments weekly for new clothes and hairstyling. She has 'social responsibilities' to look good for her friends and family.
Payments for tennis lessons for both my kids and her. All three completely suck and never play. Both the kids would stay high 24 hours a day, if they could.
Payments for three annual vacations every year.
One in the winter with all the family (on her side) skiing, so I have to go. I don't snow ski (bad knee) and again, I hate the cold.
One in the spring where we stay in a big city, which the sisters pick, so my wife and sisters can go shopping with all the kids.
One in the summer, to a beach, which I am not invited too, because only my wife and her sisters need to 'bond' and 'unwind'.
Christmas and Thanksgiving every year at one of her family member's houses. My parents are retired living in a bungalow, on a beach, in the south. Kay, "Their house is too small to visit".
1 wife, 2 kids, 1 father-in-law, 1 mother-in-law, 2 sisters-in-law, 2 nephews, 2 nieces, and 2 brothers-in-law, who openly mock me because I don't have any family inheritance making our lives easy.
Workaholic work hours, and a wife and kids who do not appreciate the time and hard work I put in to make her and the kids' live's comfortable.
Lastly - a wife who is cheating on me.
That's right! Also, a cheating bitch!
No, I did not accidentally or unexpectedly come across this information. A few months before I re-evaluated my life, I decided to find out. Kay was too content without any sex. Either she had lost interest or was getting it somewhere else. So, I decided I needed a hobby.
We live in a digital age. It is SO easy to get spyware, recorders, cameras, storage, Bluetooth, wireless, and monitoring software!
The first thing I did was put a recorder in my wife's car. I tied it to the car battery, so basically unlimited life. I put a wireless Bluetooth station in the garage where she parked at home. Whenever she parked in the garage, it would automatically download to my home PC.
I then put cameras in every single room in the house (except the kids - no way), including the back patio, the pool area, the garage, the side door, and the front porch. All immediately download to my home computer. All tiny and very discreet in clocks, smoke alarms, lamps and lights.
Using some early footage, I quickly determined my wife's phone code, which my wife determinedly kept secret from me. Around 3:00 am, I opened her phone and installed monitoring software. Now I could listen to all her phone calls (both sides) and any messaging that were sent to, or from the phone.
I called my Internet provider to get my home Internet upgraded to business class. This allowed me to access my home computer from anywhere using my mobile phone.
Two weeks later, sitting in my home office, after everyone went to bed, I listened to the wife's voice recording from her car.
Kay said "Can you meet this Thursday at my place? Ten works for me. I can't wait to ride you hard. Me too babe, love you".
Well to say that was a kick in the nuts would be an understatement. I immediately shut down my computer and took 'the dog' for a walk. I was livid! I was prepared for the worst, in fact, I expected it. But, actually hearing it was very painful. Anger, Anger, Anger, Anger! When I finally calmed down, I realized all I had was anger. But I realized, I was not sad at all.
It was late, I was tired. I went home and slept fitfully.
I woke up the next morning and took a hard look at my life. All those one-way commitments and a cheating wife.
I had to get out of this total nightmare.
First, who is the guy? Second, get hard evidence.
Oh wait, why was there no conversation from my wife's phone? She must have another phone.
Simple enough, search her car. I would have to wait until she went to sleep.
After working all day, I worked late until everyone was asleep.
I spent an hour looking through her car and was starting to wonder if she might have hidden it in the house, when I found it almost by accident.
I was shining a flashlight around when I saw a glint inside the main air vent in the front console. I pulled on the air vent, and it popped right off. Inside the air vent was a phone velcroed onto the back of the vent. Very sneaky. I opened the phone and tried the code from my wife's other phone. It worked - I told you she was lazy.
I installed the same monitoring software. Put the phone back and replaced the vent cover.
I went back to my home office and looked through the results that were coming in. Lots of texts. 2 years' worth, then nothing. I assume the phone was purchased 2 years ago.
The messages had all been deleted but were recoverable. The monitoring software had recovered the messages.
Holy crap! Many of the messages were between the 3 sisters comparing their 'lovers' performances in bed. They even discussed passing around partners.
So, my wife's latest target was my daughter's soccer coach. Figures, the guy is a douche and married.
Katy wants the grocery boy on the football team, but Kay and Kathy scolded her that unmarried guys were off limits. Too clingy and nothing to lose.
"Mom would be upset if you broke the rules". Holy shit, their mom had rules to cheat by!
My wife's sister Kathy was banging a mechanic. She was the last one to get him. Seems he got all three sisters, because he has a big dick. But get this, their mom had sampled him first!
I also found out that Kay had slept with Ron and Mark for a threesome. Seemed to be infrequent, looking back the 2 years. The sisters were encouraging Kay to do them again, to keep them in line?
Well, what to do?
I needed an exit strategy.
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The following week was tough having to act like I was completely unaware.
I complained about the cleanliness of the house or laundry, until Kay started arguing with me. Kay put me in my place and stonewalled me in the bedroom.
Poor me. I made a mental note to re-start the arguments every couple of weeks and moved into the guest room.
A week later I had a plan. I wanted out. I wanted out of my job. I wanted all of the money, I wanted no alimony, I did not want my kids - she had ruined them, I wanted the in laws to hurt, and I wanted her in severe mental anguish, for as long as possible.
Long term goal, I wanted to start over. I wanted to be gone and I wanted a chance at a real family.
I realized I had been a complete idiot. Hard working devoted husbands were not appreciated by her or her family.
Her parents, her sisters, and their husbands were toxic to any relationship. How can such complete narcissists ever appreciate anyone else?
They only saw an opportunity to get what they wanted. If anything goes wrong, tell another lie, manipulate, till you get what you want.
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I came up with a plan.
The first thing was to get the two sisters divorced and leverage on my parent in laws.
