The title of this story says it all. If you're looking for something warm and fuzzy please do NOT read this story.
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Marci -- my ex-wife -- had had an affair once before. I didn't kick her to the curb because our kids were eight and ten years old and I didn't want to break up the family or become a weekend dad. Looking back on it maybe the kids wouldn't have minded because she always seemed to be their favorite -- she had somewhat of a Svengali effect on them. At least that's the way that I saw it. I have to admit that she was a good mother, however. A concession that I did get from Marci -- in addition to what appeared to me to be crocodile tears -- after her affair was her signature on a post-nuptial agreement which gutted her financial situation if she ever cheated again.
I don't believe in any old adages, such as once a cheater, always a cheater, but maybe I should have in this case and divorced her ass as soon as our youngest, daughter Susan, went to college. However, Marci did provide stability and was definitely a good fuck. The latter is not how a 51 year old man, like myself, Lucas Ridley, should view things. I should have been long past thinking too much with my dick. I guess it is a shortcoming that I never was able to overcome.
In hindsight maybe I should also have told Marci what happened to her lover, but I thought that if I did she would have reacted negatively and despite the disadvantages that would accrue to her might have initiated divorce herself. I didn't kill him, beat him up, have him castrated, or anything of the sort. The thing he most revered in life was his reputation; I had that ruined. I'm the owner of the second largest "security firm" (and I don't mean selling stocks and bonds) in the U S with offices in twelve cities. Through various nefarious means I turned his stellar reputation into mud with a commensurate devastating financial hit!
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Despite my lack of trust in Marci since the cheating incident our married life appeared to be quite decent; that is until our son Charles was 28, married to Brit, and with two kids four and six years old, and our daughter Susan was 26, married to Jim, and with twin four year olds. I liked Jim, and especially Brit. They always impressed me as kind level-headed and empathetic people, although with significant intestinal fortitude (except that Jim was pussy-whipped by Susan).
I think that Marci was able to keep her second foray into cheating confidential despite my lack of trust and resources by fucking me into constant delirium. As owner of a top security firm from operators' reports I had essentially "seen it all." However, her particular enhanced libido was of a type I never came across in thousands of cases that I reviewed as part of keeping tabs on my operators, in addition to my primary responsibility of managing the company. That made it all the more horrible and embarrassing to me when I did find out.
In my experience most cheaters aren't blatant enough to easily be caught. Cheaters who are caught (without a confession due to guilt by the cheater) normally have one or two small blunders or idiosyncrasies. That was certainly the case with Marci, even though hers didn't fit any of the standard ones.
My company has collected and massaged data on the common things that tip a spouse off to cheating. The figures below add up to well more than 100% because often two or more "tells" are present.
Some suspicious information (texts, emails, photos, new password, etc.) on a cellphone -- 43%
Changes in appearance -- 16%
Lies about whereabouts or doesn't report whereabouts -- 23%
Spotted with someone suspicious -- 15%
Change in schedule -- 18%
Changes in non-sexual habits -- 19%
Changes in sexual approach (cold shoulder, new techniques, increased frequency, all with no proper explanation, etc.) -- 24%
Changes in body language (including eye contact) -- 16%
Other -- 3%
Then of course there are the easy ones that aren't tip-offs but proof:
STDs -- 2%
Pregnancy -- 1%
There are many ways to confirm the tip-offs/tells but of course the only one we really deal with is when the client hires my company. With two of the tip-offs above (which is what we recommend before the client hires us although that recommendation is often ignored) 87% of our investigations prove cheating, 10% no cheating, and 3% questionable, emotional attachment only, or can't determine.
In my case there was increased sexual activity but it seemed to have a proper explanation.
Marci explained that she was going through menopause but her doctor had recommended a nutritional supplement that really boosted her libido. According to Marci -- and she had what appeared to be an article from a reputable journal that her doctor had given her to back it up -- 49% of women experience a significant decrease in libido during menopause, 46% no significant change, and 5% an increase. She said that the nutritional supplement recommended by her doctor changed that to 35%, 50%, and 15%, respectively.
[I only found out later that the article was a fake.]
Since there were no changes in our sexual activities except for enhanced frequency and commensurate slightly more amorous body contact -- sex with Marci was always highly rewarding for me -- I swallowwed the nutritional supplement explanation hook, line, and sinker. She often made a big deal of popping two pills into her mouth shortly after dinner followed by a sultry "You're going to get lucky tonight, stud!"
The "tell" was one day when Marci left the nutritional supplement bottle -- which she normally kept in a locked cabinet supposedly to prevent the grandchildren from getting at it -- out on the counter. I was curious so I looked carefully at the label. The label gave no indication that it was for enhanced libido for a woman going through menopause, nor any other useful information. I looked the name on the label up on line and couldn't find anything about it. I took two of the pills and sent them to a lab that my company works with weekly, if not daily.
Imagine my surprise when the assay came back three days later -- sugar pills (placebos).
I put my three best local operatives who Marci had never met on the case. In three weeks they found out what I suspected. Once a week -- the time of day and day of the week changed -- she went into a high class dress shop. She was in it from 71 -- 98 minutes. She came out carrying a box.
The first week a male operative was able to pilfer the box from her car when in our garage -- which the male operative had a key to. It was empty, as it was the second week. The third week a genius female operative was able to sneak into the store. While the downstairs had every appearance of a normal high end retail establishment, there was an upstairs. The female operative snuck upstairs and was able to get several nice photos of Marci being doggy fucked by a guy who turned out to be the 28 year old son of the owner of the shop. The operatives didn't bother to check out the third box she brought out of the shop.
When the leader of the team of operatives assigned to my wife's case brought me the information about Marci's cheating I was livid. I didn't go home that night, and didn't call. The next day Marci was served with her walking papers, which had a copy of the post-nuptial agreement attached.
Of course that wasn't the end of it. Marci begged and pleaded but it fell on deaf ears. I gave her one chance -- to let me talk to the doctor who recommended the nutritional supplement. She finessed not having to deal with the question which made me believe that not only had no doctor recommended the sugar pills (a given) but that maybe she wasn't going through menopause at all.
Marci enlisted our daughter Susan and son Charles in her fight. Some of the arguments they made were very disturbing, but I gave them a pass for saying what they did by chalking it up to their love for their mother. Nothing was going to stop the divorce, however, especially since my attorney was an orca while hers was a tuna.
In view of the post-nuptial agreement Marci was escorted out of what had been our house to a condo we owned in the area and had just been renovated but no renters yet signed up. Although it was somewhat out of character for her Marci never really tried to explain her situation and her attorney's feeble attempt for court ordered counselling was quashed by my attorney's factual presentation and arguments. In our state the divorce would go through in about six months after the papers were filed and served. While Marci would never be in poor shape economically, she definitely was not going to have anything close to her old lifestyle.
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Our son Charles wasn't particularly good at handling money and unfortunately Brit wasn't too much better, and although Susan and her husband Jim did OK they couldn't afford expensive things. Therefore in the past oftentimes Marci and I treated them to vacations with us. Marci no longer had the ability to do so, but since it was a cold winter up North and I really needed a break from thinking about my divorce I offered to take all four grandkids and their parents on a week-long vacation in Orlando, Florida where the weather was warm and I had purchased passes for Disneyworld for two days.
I had lots to do before we left but with help from my staff was ready to go the day of our flight. Brit was a big help in arranging things -- I even gave her my credit card to reserve the accommodations.
I got a text from Susan that everyone else was at the gate as I was checking my bag. I still had plenty of time before the flight took off so I made it through security without problems and got to the gate before they made the first boarding announcement.
As I was approaching the gate with a big smile on my face since I could see some of the grandkids Brit was approaching me with a solemn expression.
"Lucas, I swear to you that I didn't know about it until about five minutes ago otherwise I would have told you," she said on the verge of tears.